Some people, born with many children, have a good family and education, and have a smooth journey. This is what everyone yearns for, but it is impossible to meet.
It is not uncommon for some people to be born with more setbacks and less luck. Because a person's life is often mixed, "how can life be complete?" Everything is only half satisfactory. " This pair of couplets in Lingyin Temple is a lifetime reminder to the world.
In the face of this unique script you got, all you can do is: try to play your cards well. The most important thing is mentality, just let nature take its course and be content.
When I was young, I complained why heaven and earth were unfair to me. As long as I can remember, I cried and felt distressed when I was selling pigs at home. I must give them to beggars. Seeing the old lady sad, her nose was sour and she wanted to cry, but her heart was particularly soft. /kloc-When you get married at the age of 0/7, your brain is like a blank sheet of paper. I thought that as long as I love him wholeheartedly, he is a good man and will give me happiness. When I get married, I will never be short of washing the floor for my mother-in-law. After giving birth to three children, the family never went to the hospital again. After giving birth, I went to the cold ditch to wash diapers and wash clothes. My mother-in-law didn't treat me like a child for a day, gave birth to three children and gave me five yuan. My husband is lazy and takes me to the hospital alone when he is sick. My husband is drunk at both ends for three days, and I have to get it back. If I don't go to my mother-in-law, I will say that the oil bottle at home is broken and my husband won't help me. My mother-in-law secretly gave snacks to two of my youngest sons. Neither of my sons could eat them, but only my daughter could. My tears dried up. I've said it a thousand times, and I've advised my husband to take on family responsibilities. It's no use talking. I am a weak woman. I put the bucket on the bench and carried it on my back when I went to fight pesticides. I cried and did it. I thought I was alone without a husband. Once my husband was drunk, just finished defecating in the house and peed. I took three children to sleep in the living room underground. I thought of death. I took a bottle of insecticide. I cried very sadly. I thought about how good my mother-in-law was to my children when I died. I am reluctant to part with their children, so I will not be responsible for them. I want to be strong. I want to take on this family, so I keep telling myself that my husband's heart is dying slowly. Later, I went bad. One of my classmates chased me. I can't stand his sweet talk. I cheated. The day I betrayed him, I went home to take a shower and cut my wrist with a blade. I cried for a long time. My husband betrayed me and ran into two women outside. I forgave him. I think it is natural for men to cheat. I am a daughter who can never stand up. Now that my children are married and the house has been built, how old are my grandson and I?
Yes, I just want to know why the world is so unfair, but at least I am lucky to be healthy and disease-free.
After all, there are too many hungry skinny children in Yemen. The Syrian people live in air-raid rockets every day, but on second thought, Stormy refers to Kelly's daughter, the youngest billionaire in the world. What a luxurious life her daughter will lead. I dare not think about the party. I hugged stormy. She was less than one year old at that time. It's strange that although I envy and hate her, I didn't hit her and pinch her. She was so cute that her heart melted with laughter.
Then I heard from my friends that Kelly was not casual. Someone just hugged Stoney.
Looks like you trust me.
It can be said that Kelly trusted me when she grew up and gave me a hug. Then after a long time, Kelly said that someone was going to kidnap Stormy. At this time, everyone was frightened, but it was only a threat. Kelly was scared, too. Since then, Kelly has stopped sending photos of her daughter, so please look at her from kindergarten. But then again, your parents gave you life. What kind of life you want next depends on yourself. After all, you have hands and feet. If you have the ability, you can live a rich life. Kelly made so much money step by step. Believe in yourself.
Of course, if you keep complaining
Instead of trying to make money and change the quality of life.
Then forget it.
This is a religious issue. Why do you say that? Because for thousands of years, when people face such deep-seated problems as life and the universe, they all say, first, there are different views, and religion is said to be God's endorsement. You can't believe what God says.
We often say that life is empty, life without a blade of grass and death without a penny. However, who was born when you were born? Some people are rich, some people are poor, and some people suffer; Some people are as expensive as dragons and phoenixes, while others are as expensive as grass interfaces. Some people eat other people's food all their lives, and some people eat other people's money all their lives! Didn't you bring it? Did you bring it?
This is the world. The so-called right time, right place and right people, my life is not determined by heaven. The so-called "what kind of prince would you rather have?" Things will return to extremes; The so-called rich but three generations, poor can be long-term; The so-called fate is decided by heaven, not by people at all. So is time, and so is luck. Why is it not your choice?
People are in control of their own destiny at any time and don't know how to work hard in this life. How do you know that fate will not leave you easily? Immersed in the negative side for too long, how can you not stand on the edge of fate? Can't stand suffering, can't stand sin, complain about others, and don't make progress. Isn't that your destiny?
I hate suicide, and I hate not having a rich family. What's the use? You should fight in your life. If you can, don't fight. Do you blame your life? Study hard and don't work hard, you should know why you were born in a poor family! My life has only one foot, I want to fight for one foot, my life has only one foot, I want one foot! Fate is like sailing against the current. If you don't advance, you will retreat. Relax a foot, and fate will retreat a foot. If you give up this life, is suffering just a lifetime?
You can't choose to be born in this life. Do your best.
The fairest thing in the world is time,
The most unfair thing in the world is fate.
Some people are born rich in material things and luxuries.
Some people are born with nothing and have nothing to worry about.
Small wealth depends on diligence, and great wealth depends on fate! God has given us different destinies, enjoying and enduring different lives. People alive, rich or poor, can enjoy the happiness of life as long as they have a rich heart, don't compare with others, don't care, work hard and live happily!
A thousand dollars can't buy a poor teenager.
Teenagers are extravagant, but harmful. Suffering a little at the beginning of life is the capital that will benefit you for life.
There are only three generations of rich people, which is a social phenomenon. Those who grow up from rich families and struggle well are more successful than some poor children who know how to struggle and have great ambitions.
When we were teenagers, we all envied some rich families. These children can spend money carefree, and it's cool to spend more. But when I grow up, I find that the self-satisfaction and sureness of making money are inseparable from the maturity of people. Being in charge early makes people mature and practical, happiness means landing, and fruitful results mean that the branches have hard sweat. This is the result of unremitting efforts of our generations.
Some people in the society believe in climbing the rich and fighting for less, hate others for being rich and think others are poor, and their mentality is abnormal!
Inequality in life may be as difficult as anything, and it can be the driving force for self-change and career efforts in life. A pragmatic view of the space and conditions in life can be improved more reasonably, while some people attribute the rich and the poor to society and fall into a situation of self-pity, and the beautiful picture of life cannot be presented.
Why are some people born rich and luxurious, while others are born miserable?
This question is easy to answer:
It's all fate!
Why do you say this is all fate?
People must believe in "fate", but don't believe in "fate".
"Destiny" is destiny, which is created by nature and cannot be changed. No one can choose his own background. This is "helplessness", and helplessness is "life". What nature decides cannot be changed the day after tomorrow.
But the day after tomorrow can change "fate". Fate can be changed through hard work the day after tomorrow.
Why do you say that some people are born luxury goods, that is, people will entrust their lives to rich families. No way, others can't deprive others of their rights.
Others are born suffering, which is also fate, but suffering is temporary, and your fate can be changed through your own efforts.
Suffering may be the test and encouragement from God! If you work hard the day after tomorrow, you may let "suffering" make you better!
"Tao" is the other way around. As the saying goes, fortunes depend on each other and may change at any time.
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It is true that some people are born with golden spoons, and it seems a foregone conclusion that they will be rich all their lives.
And some people are born with food and clothing, and even have many crises.
This is fate, there is no way, but our life is not only affected by order factors, but also by many factors.
Zhu Yuanzhang, the founding emperor of the Ming Dynasty, was born in a poor family when he was a child and was tortured by life. I tasted bitterness in the first half of my life and lingered on the edge of life and death many times. But in the second half of his life, he became an emperor, entered the history books and became a celebrity in history. From ancient times to the present, there are countless examples of emperors changing hands and grass people being kings. It can be seen that although we can't choose the beginning of life and the world is very different, our life is our own. There is a saying: we can't control life and death, but we can control the difference between life and death!
Try to face life positively, maybe we can't complete such a big counterattack like those great men who have never been to Thailand. But we can certainly make every tomorrow better than today through our own efforts.
I have thought about this question many times. Why? Personal understanding is related to fate. Some people are born to live a luxurious life, because he or she is a master of reincarnation, which is far behind. However, it is a pity that some people are born suffering, reincarnation and retarded, and are not born in a good family. If we understand life with Buddhist ideas, each of us comes to this world with the task of practicing. Whether it is practicing happiness or pain, it is different. Some people were born in official positions, some people were born in the market, and some people were born with disabilities and abandoned under the eaves of other people's homes. Some people are very leisurely, and they can live a good life with the wealth left by their predecessors. Some people work hard, but they are poor all their lives. God is so unfair, where can you argue? What can you do? Everyone comes into this world passively, we are chosen, and there is nothing we can do.
There are different opinions about fate, and I think it does exist. Otherwise, there would be no resignation. Do your best and follow your destiny. Is to tell us to do our best first, and then listen to destiny if we can't do it. To accept one's fate is to admit the reality and take it seriously, instead of giving in to fate. Then the ideals, efforts and struggles of the day after tomorrow will be out of the question. The way to change your destiny is to change your mentality and thoughts. The key to our destiny is in our own hands. Sometimes fate can't be changed, just like birth, the original ecological family. That's how god arranged it. What do you mean? That's what I mean, but if you acquiesce to your fate and sit still all day, you will never get out of your life. It's better to be slow like a turtle than to stay still. If the word fate is separated, people can't struggle for life, but luck can be changed. For example, a good opportunity, a good job and a good marriage were not missed, and they were all seized in time. That's because of luck. Moment, luck, life. You will be grateful when fate favors you, and you will face it bravely when you are right. Believe in your own destiny, don't accept it, don't let it be at your mercy, make your own voice at any time, and let it retreat when you encounter difficulties. In the face of fate, we should be villains. As the saying goes, ghosts are afraid of villains. Although we are kind, there are also sharp edges in kindness. In the contest with fate, you will be happy if you win, and bow your head if you lose. Accept the reality and admit defeat. In any case, we will try, fight and have no regrets! There are many uncertainties in fate, but people never give up the pursuit of a happy life. Man is always on the road of struggle, keeping pace with fate, never back down. Sing along with the melody of fate, and go forward bravely under the inspiration of Beethoven!
When I was a child, I thought the world was fair and just. For example, if everyone works 24 hours a day, it will not be more because you are rich, nor will it be less because you are poor.
Now, with the growth of my age, I have lost my innocence and understood that not all people stand on the same starting line, and the world is unfair. It can be said that all people are doomed to inequality and unfairness from birth. What the rulers say about fairness and justice is the joke of the world. If everything is fair and just, then why are some people born rich and others not satisfied?
This is only a small place, and there are many more unfairness. The world is unfair.
For example, because I am the son of a farmer, I was born a farmer. To change this unfairness, I will work harder than others.
For example, as the father of a rich man, I am not an official. I have to rely on myself. In order to change this unfairness, I have to bear more than others.
For example, because my family is poor and ugly, in order to change this unfairness, I have to work harder than others to earn my wife's books.
There are many, many unfairness. If you obey your fate, then the world is really unfair to you. If you fight against your fate and are willing to change the unfairness, then your life will be more exciting.
Li Ka-shing, who dares to say no to fate, is the richest man in Hong Kong today.
Ma Yun dared to say no to fate, and today's Alibaba came into being;
Ma dared to say no to fate, and today's Tencent was born.
How to fight against fate? How to fire at unfairness, welcome comments.