AUO index: 6.5 Love index: 8
Marriage index: 8.4; Goodwill index: 6.5.
Advantage ratio: 38: 62
Gemini (boy) versus Sagittarius (girl)
AUO index: 6.5 Love index: 8
Marriage index: 8.4; Goodwill index: 6.5.
Advantage ratio: 62: 38
Couple speed matching
Gemini: Sagittarius
Pairing index
Friendship: ★★★★★
Love: ★★★★
Marriage: ★★★
Goodwill: ★★★★
Sagittarius and Gemini are opposite constellations, which are either fatal attraction or full of contradictions, so the combination of Sagittarius and Gemini is either excellent or extremely poor, and the worst result is "the most familiar stranger" or "abandoning the whole world for one person and dying alone".
The best relationship between Sagittarius and Gemini is playmates. They are similar in nature, like to have fun, and want a simple and happy life. The so-called playmates here are not dancing schools, but playing with love, but the love between two people must be "stress-free" and the endless fun and novelty of love must be excavated.
The problem comes out. Sagittarius mostly pursue spiritual love, and there is a sensitive and melancholy heart under the optimistic and strong appearance, while Gemini has two heads and naturally loves to think too much, so the following psychological abuse appears. Let's start from the beginning.
First, fuzziness.
The initial ambiguity is mostly reflected in the language, but both sides will also grasp the discretion. They are all fresh and playful, so we can naturally play together. To outsiders, the two men seem to have a good relationship. In fact, they know best in their own hearts that this is just adding fuel to an ambiguous and boring life.
Second, goodwill.
Gradually, you may like the way he smiles and pay attention to him when something happens. Hehe, it seems that you have added some strange feelings to your friends. This is the so-called goodwill. If the shooter is the first to be tempted, this huge psychological change (shooter has many friends of the opposite sex and is not easy to fall in love with a person) will make her burn quickly.
Next, the shooter woman will twist the Gemini man, and sometimes she will be deliberately indifferent when she is arrogant. Sometimes it's cold, sometimes it's hot, and the instant shooter woman makes Gemini very confused. (The relationship between some Sagittarius women and Gemini men is over at this stage, because Sagittarius women have burned out and Gemini men have not recovered, which is seriously slow and rational. )
Third, Huan
Sagittarius women and Gemini men are happiest at this stage. Although they only look a little better than their friends, they are relaxed and harmonious. This is why the best relationship between Sagittarius women and Gemini men is playmates.
However, after the degree of joy gradually deepened, both sides were thinking, is this a love? Both constellations are idealized. If you are not sure that both parties are your ideal partners, just say BEY!
Fourth, abuse each other.
After all, feelings are subjective, tension may become the killer of a relationship, and stress-free feelings begin to deteriorate.
Usually, Sagittarius women can't understand the mind of Gemini men, and often grab their brains and can't wait to put them in to see what material it is. This is the so-called guessing game, which makes people feel very tired and tangled.
Most immature archer women are conceited and despise everything, thinking that the truest feelings are pure without any impurities (at least I thought so at first, hehe, what about you? I think love can change everything. I don't care about everything, the other person's family, personality, work and everything.
A shooter woman born with a nightingale complex always thinks that all this is not an obstacle, but a test. An unconventional shooter woman should have extraordinary feelings, and even this is the style of a shooter woman. It is such a full-featured shooter woman that she may find the other half who makes others fall below the glasses, but she enjoys it.
Sagittarius women's idealization and persistence in love make them desperate for their feelings and blindly pursue the truest feelings for the only one in their hearts. They may pay a lot for the supremacy of love, but the reward is hurt. But most of them will insist that their arrows can't be recovered.
Sagittarius women are infatuated and persistent, but love is conditional. If you don't respond with considerable enthusiasm, Sagittarius women will start to be indifferent to Gemini men. Gemini men have a great psychological gap (enthusiasm to indifference, fire to ice), and they like to think about whether the female value of a shooter is worth paying and whether they really like him.
After three transgressions and two emotional wars, Gemini men are also exhausted. They are selfish, afraid of trouble, and only like relaxed relationships. So, if they don't have deep feelings for each other at this time, they may run away. When the feelings are deep, they will enter the fifth stage: the running-in period.
Verb (short for verb) running in
Immature shooter female emotions are difficult to control, and the fire sign is prominent. A little angry may annoy Gemini men. This is the situation that everyone usually discusses, "Sagittarius women and Gemini men all talk to the judge and quarrel almost every day."
If the mutual abuse stage is a period of emotional turmoil, then the running-in period is simply a hail of bullets, but true feelings are so tested.
Sixth, some endings.
Everyone guessed.
It is said that Sagittarius is a Gemini that falls in love at first sight, and there is a fatal attraction and a fatal rejection between them. As astrologers say, "Sagittarius is a treasure given to Gemini by heaven, and its fate has long been arranged." Gemini and Sagittarius love each other, which is fate and doom. On the road of love, both sides are doomed.
The love between Sagittarius and Gemini is a combination of extremes and overlaps, as opposed as light and shadow, as inseparable as ice and snow. Sagittarius and Gemini are the two most alike of the twelve constellations, and they have too many similarities: they are both cheerful and free-spirited; They are also eloquent, love fantasy and communication, pursue romance and emotional appeal, and live in their own dreams and aesthetic pursuits; He is also a person who looks rational, mature and steady on the outside, but is warm and sensitive on the inside; They all have a wide range of hobbies and have a strong interest in everything in the world, but they are miscellaneous but not refined; Looks like a playboy, but infatuated. ...
Lonely and indifferent Gemini is infected by the sunshine and vitality of Sagittarius, just like a gloomy soul that has been suppressed for too long, finding a trace of detachment and liberation; Lost and injured archers feel like spring breeze, because Gemini is romantic, free and easy, smart and agile. They are all passionate and believe in emotional constellations, which instantly hit it off and admire each other. Talking and laughing, punning, bickering and playing smart, naughty and coquetry; The agreement of the heart does not need too many words and unnecessary speculation. Silent tacit understanding and the voice of * * * reverberate in my heart ... but Sagittarius and Gemini are both too cheerful in appearance and too fragile in heart. They used to wrap themselves up with scars or natural arrogance, because they know themselves and each other too well. They open their hearts, know how to love, like love, really love and enjoy the beauty of love, but they close their hearts because they want to seize the existing beauty more. They seem to be caught in a contradiction that others can't understand, and although the other person knows his lover's thoughts very well, he will restrain his true feelings for the same reason and instinctive pride, and even if he really likes it, he will shut his lover out. We seem to feel a little impetuous and erratic under the most brilliant happiness.
Gemini and Sagittarius will be happy and relaxed together, but they will also secretly compete unintentionally. Strangely, they don't feel tired at all. This seems to be a very interesting game, and they are addicted to this interesting and colorful game. They all long for freedom, so they don't want to pester each other too much, and try their best to exaggerate their social circle and enrich their studies. They are afraid that they will be occupied by love and cannot extricate themselves. They try their best to pretend to be free and easy ... but they really need the care and love of others most, but they are unwilling and unable to express these feelings. Everyone thinks they know each other very well, because they are very similar, so what they think may be what the other person thinks. Most of them will talk about interesting and relaxing things together, ignoring each other's true feelings. They don't like being tied down. As the saying goes, don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you. They are well aware of this truth. They don't put pressure on each other or bind each other. But it is this attitude and deep concern that will make each other gradually feel each other's indifference, but they have to think and worry. If there is a problem, I'd rather have a cold war. After a while, I didn't mention it as if nothing had happened, but this misunderstanding was not clear. After a long time, there are too many questions and misunderstandings in my heart, waiting for the other party to explain. They may care about each other in their hearts, but they are doomed not to say this love well. In the end, they will find that they know nothing about each other, know each other's hobbies, but don't know what they really need. I know each other's likes, but I don't know their real feelings. They want to make each other happy, but they hurt each other unconsciously, which eventually leads to emotional conflicts. So many people think Gemini and Sagittarius are the most suitable but the most unsuitable couple.
Sagittarius can't understand the duality of Gemini's nature, and can't perceive the struggle between its id and superego ... Gemini always presents the shooter with the brightest smile and the most free and easy gesture, which is a loophole, a humorous little lie and a small calculation that is even difficult to justify. Gemini changes too fast, making people see things in a blur. It seems that Gemini is in a fog of confusion. Obviously, he can feel the sadness behind the smile but can't catch any trace like the wind. Obviously, he can feel his sincere intention of deliberately hiding his convergence, but he is afraid to doubt ... Sagittarius can appreciate Gemini's super mind, which is reflected in his rich perception, keen insight, quick response and calm tenacity and concentration. Gemini is contradictory. His simplicity, kindness and eagerness to understand make him want to hand over his sincerity, but it is also his intelligence, reason and sensitivity that make him hide his sincerity deeper. Maybe it's natural instinct and past experience. Gemini's heart is uncertain and panic, like a flood. He tried to trust people, but he couldn't really give up his heart because he didn't know what he wanted. Gemini loves carefully. He is afraid of being hurt, so he dare not let the shooter know his love. He carefully wrapped the parcel layer by layer to prevent the love from leaking out. Just like preventing a nuclear leak, it's unforgettable, but it's hard to laugh when you pretend to be very painful. Gemini's self-protection, although reducing the harm of others to him, hurts himself. Once Gemini is injured, it is difficult to calm down. Although I will laugh again soon, in fact, the more free and easy I laugh, the more painful I feel. So as long as Gemini realizes the potential harm, he will run away from this relationship first. Gemini doesn't care, in fact, his heart will be empty and lonely. He is too protective, does not know how to persist, and gives up easily. Maybe it's because he is too afraid of getting hurt and doesn't want to hurt himself again. There are too many contradictory factors in Gemini's personality. He wants to be understood, but he is afraid of being seen through, so he can only choose one person to suffer silently. Loneliness actually hurts, but Gemini's loneliness seems to be innate. No matter where in the world, no matter how much excitement there is around, no matter how many people accompany her, there is still a faint loss in her heart that cannot be explained. Others will think that Gemini is just cheerful in appearance, but in fact, it is very cold in heart. In fact, indifference is just a cover-up for stubbornness, weakness and helplessness. Gemini really wants to love someone and give, but because of initial hesitation and helplessness.
Sagittarius can't understand Gemini any more than Gemini can understand Sagittarius. Gemini and Sagittarius are quiet virgins, moving like rabbits, but it is difficult to understand each other's true feelings. . Gemini is naturally looking for another person who can fit in with himself and an impossible love myth in reality. In fact, his heart is not as smooth as the accident he appears. He just thinks it is reckless for a friend to draw out a sword to help him in an emergency. Love simply goes smoothly according to one's own fantasy expectation, which is harmless, but it is not the case. Many disappointments in reality left him at a loss. It turns out that the world is not as imagined, but the nature of pursuing perfection and arrogance makes him attached to loneliness. There is nowhere to tell the cold that hurts into the bone marrow, and then you will feel that there seems to be no one in the world who really understands it. He, everything is carried by one person. He doesn't believe in love, but the love he pursues has never been found, and no one really understands his inner world, so in this world. Gemini is not as happy as it seems. Who knows that behind his smiling face is a deep wound that will never heal? So loneliness has become an inescapable fate for Gemini. Gemini doesn't want to be arrogant. Gemini's personality determines that there will never be a shortage of people around Gemini, but few people really know Gemini. The more people there are, the more Gemini will feel that it is not their own world. So Gemini is lonely, lonely.