The original intention and amount of bride price
First, the original intention of the bride price:
When getting married, the man needs to give the woman a gift, which varies in amount. Its meaning is different. In the early days, gifts were promised, as well as handkerchiefs and personal belongings. Expressed the consent of both parties and a lifelong commitment. After entering the private ownership society, marriage became a business, bride price became a deposit, and women became materials. In buying and selling marriage, the bride price represents a woman's value, which is directly called the value bride price in some regions and ethnic groups. After liberation, the marriage law explicitly abolished the marriage of sale, but it continued in some places and gave new content. That is to say, after the bride price is given, the engagement is formally concluded, and it is generally not allowed to go back on our word. If the woman reneges, the bride price will be returned to the man. If the man goes back on his word, the bride price will generally not be refunded. The amount of bride price depends on the requirements of the woman's family and the economic situation of the man's family.
Second, the amount of bride price varies:
This has little to do with the region. There is not much difference between cities and rural areas. Just say that a wedding room in the city can't come down to one million. How can we say that the bride price in the countryside is high?
Start drawing a lucky picture.
Baili Ceramics, 10 1 yuan; The way of Daxing; Then it gets bigger and bigger, and it gets harder and harder to climb.
One thousandth, 100 1 yuan;
One in a million, 1000 1 yuan;
Colorful, colorful (50 yuan) 1 10,000 pieces, accounting for 500,000 pieces, colorful (100 yuan) 1000 pieces, accounting for 6.5438+10,000 pieces; * * * six hundred thousand.
Still, still-luxury car, still-real estate;
Three catties and six taels, put it on a hundred-dollar bill and weigh it.
Third, is the sky-high bride price an old injury?
Now the bride price is sky-high. Not just eating old ones? If you calculate carefully, you will know that a set of wedding rooms (two rooms and one living room, 80㎡) are all around one million, not to mention the bride price. How many years does the average worker's family need? Girls' families can also count for themselves. How much money does she have? I mean, my parents are old and have to support my grandparents. To put it bluntly, how much can you sell by breaking bones and boiling them into oil? Not chew the old man, but chew the old man. How to raise children to prevent old age? !
Fourth, raise your arms and shout:
In recent years, with the constant fermentation of the phenomenon of comparison, the bride price is also desperately climbing! This is not only because of the woman, but also because the man shows off his wealth and is very ostentatious. Some men don't live up to expectations. I'm afraid they can't find a wife and try their best to raise money. However, there are also men who really love each other without spending money. What's more, the woman also accompanied the luxury car and the wedding room! This is true love? Still love money! ? Call on the whole society to resist this bad habit of selling marriage in disguise!