After breaking up, you can reflect on your behavior more than once, but don't fall into a strange circle of self-pity. You have to understand that falling in love is a matter of two people, and breaking up is also a matter of two people. You can't blame him blindly, nor can you deny yourself blindly.
Now, you should talk to him more as an ordinary friend, and don't have any affectionate words in the communication. Let him know that you have let him go, and you are now spending time improving yourself, polishing yourself and making yourself shine.
If he really cares about you, then he will also reflect on his behavior after breaking up and make some changes. When he sees your change, he will be attracted to you again and full of hope for your future.
Once he realizes this, he may come back to you. But what you have to do is not to cooperate with him, but to be yourself. Don't be influenced by his every move, strengthen his desire to conquer.
At this stage, you must take the initiative. I don't want you to take the initiative to ask him out, but I want you to inadvertently show your specialty in the chat. You must approach it step by step, and the extremes meet.
If his attitude towards you has changed a lot, congratulations, the third step is very good.
(4) Seize the opportunity to recover the predecessor.
At this stage, you can add some words to enhance the relationship in the chat, but you should grasp the degree.
I believe he can't wait at the moment to reconfirm his attitude towards you through chatting.
If he has a tendency to ask you out, don't say yes in a hurry, but reluctantly, so that he can't figure you out and continue to take the initiative.
Wait until he really asks you out twice, and then take the initiative to meet.
After meeting, you must make good use of this opportunity. Make yourself different from before from head to toe: including the way of speaking, the way of walking, and the attitude towards him.
Meditate in your heart, we are just friends now, we are just friends now, we are just friends now ... reduce your nervousness, and you must not let him pay for you when you eat. It's better to go Dutch.
Never mentioned the topic of getting back together from beginning to end After this operation, he will definitely break his inherent understanding of you, regain his interest in you and want to conquer you.
Of course, you can't compromise easily. All you have to do is try to stop him.
The above is how to make your ex have the desire to conquer you for the second time and be attracted to you twice.
Finally, I wish those who really love each other can grow old together and don't give up easily.