Speaking with high emotional intelligence is an art in daily life. When we communicate with others, we need to master some words with high emotional intelligence, so as to make others comfortable and respect them. The following are high EQ words in everyday speech.
High emotional intelligence speaking skills 1 1, spontaneous cooking.
For people who are familiar with themselves, it will really cause others to talk about it. Of course, you can't go too far. Otherwise, others will think that you may be a little crazy, as long as you are a little approachable and easy to talk to.
For example:
(1) Big wavy hair with your velvet coat makes you look so elegant.
(2) The horoscope says that we are suitable for chatting today.
(3) Your clothes are very catwalk, and I think your clothes are very good.
Step 2 show yourself
Self-presentation can not only let the other person know about you, but also highlight your own characteristics and attract others' attention, so this way is desirable, but you must pay attention to seeking truth from facts and don't fart, so your impression in the eyes of others will be greatly reduced.
For example:
(1) Show the taste of life: I went out to eat with my friends, and I felt hungry before serving (I lost a photo of the restaurant).
(2) Lifestyle display: I feel full of power now. I just worked out in the gym for an hour, and now I'm going home to take a shower.
3. Topic chat
It is also called not taking the usual path, that is, using a topic to completely attract the other person to chat with you. The choice of this topic is very important. Different people choose different topics, so we must know each other's personality.
For example:
(1) Gentle type: Based on my intuition of fortune telling for more than 20 years, I feel that your personality is like a cat.
(2) Hot type: Your women's sixth sense is really accurate. We men seem to be naked in front of you.
(3) Stubborn: Although good-looking, there is a heart that does not give up easily under the good-looking appearance.
Second, examples of high emotional intelligence chat language
For people with high emotional intelligence, chatting is really simple and easy, but once you listen, you can make others want to chat with you, get close to you, and make people around you think you are a person with high emotional intelligence.
For example:
1. Seeing your photos makes me feel very literary, and literary girls are generally more romantic. Are you like this?
Every time you appear, I have a feeling of heartache. Every time you wear it, people always think that you are a great collocation teacher.
You look really good recently, and your work must be very smooth.
For people with high emotional intelligence, they fully consider each other's feelings when they speak, so they won't make others feel bored, and they won't think you are nagging, because they always talk and do things just right.
Third, examples of people with high emotional intelligence chatting.
1, black humor
Chimpanzees accidentally stepped on a bench pulled by gibbons. After the gibbon cleaned it gently and carefully, they fell in love. Someone asked them how they got together, and the chimpanzee said with emotion: Ape dung is all ape dung.
2. Monologue
If one day, you feel tired, as long as you turn around, my blessing will be by your side, no matter how far away, no matter how many years, this blessing will turn into a blue star, flashing in the morning, flashing in the sunset, flashing in every inch of your life.
Step 3 care
The lowest temperature tomorrow 1 degree, and the highest temperature 13 degree. If you care about the weather, you care about yourself. Don't forget to add an extra dress.
High EQ in oral English II. The most touching speech skills.
1, social eloquence
Let the first sentence catch people's hearts.
A good way of speaking is welcome.
How to increase the charm of your speech
Arouse each other's desire to talk
Don't be stingy with compliments to strangers.
Be careful when talking to strangers.
Have a memorable conversation
Listen to others sincerely.
Exaggerate one's own strength appropriately in order to succeed.
Humor should express true feelings.
Laugh at yourself and avoid embarrassment.
Dissolve the blame of others
Be good at answering strangers' questions
Let the conversation end in meaning.
2. Eloquence
Win people's hearts with praise
Realize the competitiveness of others
How can I talk to make my friends like me?
Impress a friend with a sense of humor
Spice up friendship with jokes.
Just pick a topic you like.
Say something inspiring
A word of care wins a heart.
Learn to turn around when you speak.
Use language skillfully and turn an enemy into a friend.
Deliberately saying the wrong thing can also make the conversation pleasant.
Euphemism implies miraculous effect.
Don't talk nonsense if you shouldn't.
Learn to say "no" and refuse skillfully.
earnest words offend the ear
Praise is more convincing.
How to deal with exposed shortcomings
3. Eloquence
Ask people to do things and say things they are proud of.
Persuade your friends to help you successfully.
Persuade developed friends to help you.
Asking for help is a good way to attract funds.
Borrow money from an absent third party.
Let the other side speak from the standpoint of the strong.
Let the other person say what he wants to say.
A glib tongue makes things easy.
Questioning skills
A word stirred up a thousand waves.
It's easy to use the past to satirize the present.
To put it bluntly, things are smooth sailing.
Distant relatives are not as useful as close neighbors.
Emotional intelligence, social eloquence and good chat.
Urgent, speak slowly.
In case of emergency, if you can calm down and think, and then calmly make things clear, you will leave a stable and impulsive impression on the listener, thus increasing others' trust in you.
Small things, humorously said
In particular, some kind reminders, said in a joking way, will not make listeners feel stiff, they will not only accept your reminders, but also enhance their intimacy.
If you are not sure, say it carefully.
For those things you are not sure about, if you don't say it, others will think you are hypocritical; If you can say it strictly, people will think you are a trustworthy person.
Don't talk nonsense about what didn't happen.
People hate people who make much ado about nothing. If you never speculate or talk nonsense, others will think you are mature, cultured and conscientious.
Don't talk nonsense. You can't do it.
As the saying goes, "Without Jin Gangzuan, don't make porcelain". If you don't easily promise what you can't do, it will make the listener feel that you are a person who "keeps his word" and is willing to believe you.
You can't say hurtful things.
Don't use words to hurt others, especially between close people. Don't say anything that hurts others. This will make them feel that you are a kind person and help to maintain and enhance their feelings.
Don't tell everyone about the sad things.
When people are sad, they all have the desire to talk, but if you talk to others, it will easily make the listener feel too stressed, suspicious and alienated. At the same time, it will give people the impression that they don't think about others and want to pass on the pain to others.
Be careful about other people's business.
Everyone needs a safe distance, and not spreading other people's stories easily will give people a sense of security.
The emotional quotient of daily oral English is 3 1, and "I want to go to the toilet" is changed to "the toilet is hungry, so I want to feed it"
2. Change "I'm bored" to "I need to calm down"
3. Change "How do I know" to "I don't quite understand this"
4. Change "no time" to "something urgent"
5. Change "never seen" to "never seen", but it sounds great.
6. Replace "Thank you for waiting" with "Thank you for your patience"
7. change "it doesn't matter" to "I'm fine"
8. Change "I can't" to "Maybe I can learn"
9. Change "I can't drink" to "I'm good at pouring wine"
10, put "hahaha"! Change it to "You are so funny"
1 1. Change "You are great" to "I am surrounded by experts"
12, change "I don't know" to "maybe I can find out"
13, change "I want to shit" to "my ass is going to throw up"
14, change "whatever" to "whatever you say"
15, replace "buy from buy buy" with "consider starting"
16, replace "lying in the trough, trough" with "a thousand words in my heart"