The seventh day is an important day in Chinese traditional festivals. There are also many regulations on this day among the people. Many people think that the seventh day is not suitable for getting married. If you get married on this day, it means bad luck. This is related to some traditional folk concepts. Then, the next article will introduce you.
Why can't you get married on the seventh day
People think that you can't get married on the seventh day because the ancients said "yes man", so in the traditional concept, marriage is a happy event for a man and a woman in pairs. If it is on a single day, it means bad luck. There is also a saying that the seventh day is a three-niang evil spirit. Legend has it that because Yue Lao doesn't lead the red line for San Niang, so that she can't get married for life, she has a revenge mentality and resolutely opposes Yue Lao, so she specially destroys the wedding of the new couple. Therefore, it is not suitable to get married on the day of San Niang Sha every month, that is, the third day, the seventh day, the thirteenth day, the eighteenth day, the twenty-second day and the twenty-seventh day. However, it is necessary to distinguish between true and false Sanniangsha, and the true Sanniangsha is the day that is not suitable for marriage and needs to be avoided. True Sanniang: On the third day, it falls on Geng Wu Day, on the seventh day, it falls on Xin Wei Day, on the thirteenth day, it falls on Wu Shen Day, on the eighteenth day, on the twelfth day, it falls on Bing Wu Day, and on the 27th day, it falls on the sixth day, so the probability will not be too high. Fake Sanniang Sha: On the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh day of each month. It is said that if you get married on the day of "Sanniang Sha", the bride will be very angry that day, so when she gets married, she will use a red hijab and hold a red umbrella at the same time. Therefore, people think that the seventh day is not suitable for marriage.
how to choose an auspicious day for marriage
? 1. refer to birthdates
When choosing a wedding date, a couple can choose a wedding auspicious day by considering their own birthdates. First of all, we will see whether the eight characters of the two people conflict with each other or complement each other. Then look at the best day of the day, which is suitable for the generation of the eight characters of the two.
? 2, leap year leap month
People are more particular about leap month and leap year, so they will give priority to these two points when choosing a good wedding day. The leap year usually appears every three years, and there will be a leap month in the leap year, thus choosing the auspicious day for marriage in the leap month.
3. Pay attention to avoid parents' birthdays
? In traditional fatalism, parents' birthdays should not be the same as wedding auspicious days, that is, parents' birthdays should not be married and should be avoided.
What should you pay attention to when you get married?
People should pay attention to the location of marriage, and put the bed straight instead of facing the sharp corner when they settle down. On the whole day of the wedding, no one can touch the new bed, and the bride can't touch the bedside. When the bride goes out, pregnant women can't see her off, because people think that pregnant women symbolize lotus flower, which will bring lotus flower disaster to the couple, so pregnant women should avoid when the bride gets married. If you meet another wedding motorcade on the way, you must set off firecrackers to each other, or the matchmakers of both sides exchange flowers to leave a blessing. When the bride enters the man's house, pregnant women and people who are filial should avoid it. Three days after marriage, when the couple returns home, they must get back to their husband's house before sunset that day and cannot stay overnight. In case you can't go home for special reasons, the husband and wife should sleep separately, so as to avoid the lotus flower in the bride's honeymoon colliding with her family and bringing bad luck to her family.