First, the process of divorce.
The divorce and their respective statements not only shocked the insiders, but also shocked their fans, which was unacceptable. They got married in 20 17, and after they got married, they also put down their work for their honeymoon, which is very enviable.
During the honeymoon, the two were very sweet and often met by netizens. Even though Song Joong Ki is busy, she will accompany her wife to dinner. No one expected that they would divorce. In our eyes, this is true love!
There are many reasons for divorce. Song Hye Kyo said that the divorce was due to their incompatible personalities. Some people say that there is a third party in the marriage, so they divorced. Others said that they divorced because of their children.
These three statements have their own reasons. In fact, the third statement is more reliable. Why do you say that? If the two divorced because of their incompatible personalities, they should have discovered it as early as their honeymoon, so it is impossible to divorce because of their incompatible personalities.
There is a third party in marriage, and this possibility does not exist, because during their honeymoon, they really loved each other. They haven't been married long, so it's impossible to have a third party so soon. Therefore, this possibility is not available.
Then there is only the third kind, and that is because of children. They are all big stars, and they are all busy. Therefore, taking care of children is a big problem. Who wants to sacrifice their jobs to take care of their families? Obviously, both of them are unwilling to sacrifice their jobs, and divorce is inevitable.
Second, analysis of the reasons for divorce.
Hong Kong media reported that Song Joong Ki moved to his wife's house at the beginning of their marriage. They have different views on children and work, which led to many disputes, which led to the breakdown of their marriage.
After the filming of Asda Times, Song Joong Ki left his home in Beijing, Song Hye Kyo, and went to a friend's house. The film just started to separate when it was filmed.
Two people separated for a long time, they separated, Song Joong Ki's father didn't know. Because after the drama Boyfriend started, Song Dad was still promoting his daughter-in-law, so Song Dad probably didn't know about their separation.
Song Joong Ki likes children very much, which can be seen before marriage. Because he often takes his nephew out to play, his eyes are full of fatherly love when playing with him, so he is very eager to have his own family, and he is more eager to be a father.
However, Song Hye Kyo Jing may not be ready to be a mother. She is absorbed in her work. Maybe the child is just an accident in her eyes! Children are not in her plan at all.
Because Song Hye Kyo Beijing didn't choose to be husband and wife because of children, but went to film. This play is the boyfriend mentioned just now. Moreover, the scenes in the play are relatively intimate, unlike those made by a new mother.
So if they want to save their marriage and get back together, they can only sacrifice one side. So, who is willing to sacrifice his career? Judging from the behavior of both sides, both sides should be unwilling to make sacrifices.
The reaction of the fans when the two divorced.
Since the divorce of these two people, their fans no longer believe in love, which seems to be another irony of love. Moreover, their divorce is full of twists and turns, and the divorce is also delayed. Isn't it because both of them are busy with work?
Since I'm not ready to start a family, or I'm not ready to have children. Then why did you get married? You two are public figures and have a lot of fans. Your behavior will have a great negative impact.
Moreover, there are many signs of their divorce. For example, Song Hye Kyo Jing frequently deleted the past, and after the filming of Boyfriend, Song Hye Kyo Jing didn't wear a wedding ring.
Reflection: What does marriage need?
Marriage needs sacrifice, and understanding and tolerance are one of the core manifestations of sacrifice. One wants to be a father and the other wants to be a mother, but she is not ready for the future. If these two people don't want to be parents, then the child won't come into this world.
However, neither of them is willing to sacrifice their careers and take care of their families. From the circle point of view, this is easy to understand, because both of them are at the peak of their careers, but from the family point of view, they have no responsibility at all, and fans envy them for forming a perfect family.
These two people are not worthy of fans' love, even their own children can be ignored, and they have not even thought about getting married. These two people can only say that they are still too young to deal with people.
Think about it, if you can leave your child alone, how do you expect her to take care of the fans? Do you think they care about fans? I don't think so!
From the birth of a child, we can see that both of them are unplanned and reckless. I really don't think their works are very good except for a little bit of value. What do you think of this?