Some people believe that hard work can change their destiny. The prince and the prince will be together. What kind of people would you rather have? They believe that fate is in their own hands, where there is a will, there is a way, and as long as they work hard, they can decide their own destiny.
Fatalism holds that fate is determined by heaven, and what you will meet and do is doomed from the moment you are born.
Others think that the environment determines a person's fate. They think that personality is shaped in the acquired environment, and the environment determines personality, so this person's lifestyle is basically settled, and his life is basically a foregone conclusion.
Obviously, a person's fate is very complicated, not determined by a single factor, but by many factors. As for fate, there is a saying in Legend of Heroes of Children that there are two fortunes, three geomantics, four virtues and five studies in one's life.
Life: destiny takes a hand, cannot be changed.
Some people are born rich, others are born poor; Some people are born beautiful, others are born ugly; Some people are gifted, while others are born stupid. Some people are born strong, others are stillborn. These are not for you to decide. A person's life has been decided from the day he was born.
The second movement: fortune can be changed.
Congenital fate, acquired luck. The innate destiny cannot be changed, and the fortune of the day after tomorrow is extremely important. The so-called luck includes both national luck and personal luck. Even if we are in a country and an era in the National Games, this is our external environment, which is not up to us, but we can influence our destiny according to the development of the times.
Three geomantic omen: The environment we live in the day after tomorrow can be changed.
It may be the environment where you live, the place where you work, and the city where you live. One side has good soil and water, and one side has good talents. The environment in which a person lives affects the health and development of his life. Feng shui can change a lot, trees move people, and the influence of the environment can affect a person's fortune development. When Mencius was a child, he lived at the foot of Maanshan, 25 miles north of Zouxian County, Shandong Province. This village is called Fan Village, and there is a cemetery not far from the village. Mourners often pass by Mencius' door, so Mencius imitates the mourners. Meng Mu saw it and thought that "this is not the reason why he lives in my son's house", so he moved his family to the temple camp in the north of the city. However, the streets here are quite busy. In the East, there lived a butcher who killed pigs. Mencius studied butchers and played all day. Meng Mu felt that this place was not suitable for cultivating children, so he moved to "Gong Xue Academy", which is next to Zisi Academy outside the south gate of the county. From then on, Mencius was attracted by the sound of reading. Meng Mu was very happy and sent Mencius to the academy to study. He studied hard and eventually became a great scholar.
Four virtues: the so-called virtues are good deeds.
As the old saying goes, don't do small good, don't do small evil. Seemingly small evil deeds, if not stopped, will become a great evil in the long run, stealing needles when you are young and stealing gold when you grow up. This is a fact. There is a saying in the Book of Changes: If there is a good family, there must be Qing Yu, and if there is a good family, there will be many disasters. If a lot of good deeds are accumulated, people's fate will change greatly.
Reading: broadly speaking, it refers to one's efforts.
There is no doubt that reading can change luck. Studying well means going to a better school and looking for a better job. Since ancient times, many children from poor families have changed their fate by reading.
Sixth: Name is name.
A good name will promote a person's marriage, career and health, while an inappropriate name will hinder a person's fate. Li He, a poet in the Tang Dynasty, had a father's surname of Jin, and "Jin" and "Jin" are homonyms, so Li He could not be promoted to Jinshi all his life just to avoid his father! This is the name's obstacle to fate.
Seven aspects: a person's appearance, innate appearance is doomed by fate, and the acquired appearance can be changed by itself.
Appearance is very important to a person's fate. Good-looking people are always more likable, while ugly people are more vulnerable to discrimination, whether in mate selection or interview. In Romance of the Three Kingdoms, Feng Chu and Pang Tong are going to play for Dongwu, so they go to see Sun Quan. Sun Quan was a little unhappy when he saw Pang Tong's ugly face, but he was even more unhappy when he saw his arrogance. Finally, the talented Sun Zhongmou drove away the prodigy Pang Tong, who was as famous as Zhuge Liang. Despite Lu Su's good intentions, it didn't help. This is the importance of a person's appearance.
Ba Shen: I think it's a person's belief.
Faith is the meaning of a person living in this world. Once we lose this belief, we will be at a loss and have nowhere to go.
Jiuyou: Parents, mentors and friends are noble people as long as they can help themselves.
In this world, it is inevitable that one person can't do it. No matter how talented a person is, if he doesn't meet his own bole, I'm afraid he will accomplish nothing. If he has the help of a noble person, he can rise to the top. Jiang Ziya is proficient in martial arts, but he has been unlucky and can't give full play to his talents. He was still a farmer until he was white-haired. What depressed him most was that his wife, who had been with him for many years, finally felt that she could not live with him and left him alone. It was not until King Wen found out that he admitted that he was the prime minister. Noble people are not easy to meet. It depends on your own eyes and who your own noble people are.
Top ten health: healthy body and mind.
Physical and mental health is the premise that affects personal ability. Many rich people use their bodies to make money, and then they die young. As Zhao Benshan said, once your eyes are closed, money is there and people are gone. What's the use of asking for money? Although Zhuge Liang surpassed Sima Yi in strategy and wisdom, he could not stand Sima Yi physically. When confronted with Wu Zhangyuan of Sima Yi, Zhuge Liang was seriously ill and mentally weak. Sima yi is also aiming at this point, deliberately adopting delaying tactics and failing to hold on. He simply destroyed Zhuge Liang in Wuzhangyuan. No matter how capable Zhuge Liang is, he doesn't even have the strength to live. Why should he be better than others?