This is an ancient feudal superstition. Kefu means that a woman can't bring good luck to her husband, but will restrain her husband's good luck, resulting in bad luck for the other half and unsatisfactory life in all aspects.
In ancient China, it was believed that a woman's face or destiny had an influence on her husband. Kefu generally includes Kefu life and Kefu phase. Kefu life comes from the General Theory of Three Life Clubs and is subdivided into Kefu Wangzi and Kefu Kezi.
the decision of each life limit is your own numerology and practice. There is no such thing as saying:
How long you can live and how long your life limit is mainly decided by your own numerology. The vitality characteristics of each person in the eight characters are determined by the state of "essence, qi and spirit" given to you by the five elements of the eight characters. Being precise, vigorous, calm and natural, you will live a long life.
This essence is what medicine now calls genetic gene; This qi is your body, and the key in the eight characters is to look at the health status of various organs in your own body; This god is to see whether the combination of various functional organs is suitable, mutually matched and balanced.
other people's influence is very small, basically very small, even the wife. Of course, it depends on your own fortune and cultivation.
the so-called fortune can also be regarded as an attitude towards life. Confucianism often says: Benevolence leads to longevity. What do you mean, that is, people who are kind-hearted are often kind to others, and they will not be disturbed by the outside world. They are naturally in a good mood and their health will certainly be good.
A person is always thinking about how to be rich. He is anxious and jealous when others get rich, and his mind is blackened by the secular world. Naturally, he is not in a good mood and his body is sick. Peace is a blessing. That's the truth.
People with profound blessings are often people who are not surprised or worried when things happen, with a calm mind and a kind heart. The ancients said that auspicious people have their own blessings. This kind of person, often can be in distress.
Self-cultivation is also very important. This cultivation includes all aspects. Exercising hard is a cultivation. Overcoming the "bad habit" of improper life is a kind of cultivation; Caring for the environment and turning to nature is also a kind of cultivation. In short, the higher the cultivation, the longer the life.