In our hometown, old people often advise quarrelers or people who are frustrated in life that this is fate. In fact, in my opinion, what they say about life is just a rhetoric.
For example, some women will say that it is fate if their marriage is not smooth. However, most women just talk about it, but they will respond positively. Otherwise, there will be so many divorced people. They are people who talk about their own lives, but they don't believe in their own lives, alleviate their misfortunes and try to find happiness.
There are many examples of life-saving but not negative. I won't go into details one by one. Generally speaking, believing in fate does not necessarily mean being negative. Of course, there are a few negative people, a hundred people, all kinds, at least I'm not.
Not necessarily! People who believe in fate are not all negative!
I know a woman who went to tell her fortune at the age of 2/kloc-0. The blind man said that she would become a billionaire. Three women who went together, one of whom charged 4.8 yuan, who needed to go out of 480 yuan. The third woman not only asked for money, but the blind man also gave her 2.4 yuan. He said that life in 2.4 yuan is very hard, and she should be widowed for at least 15 years.
Thirty-nine years later, 4.8 yuan's life is dull, 2.4 yuan's husband has been in prison for accepting bribes for ten years, and 480 yuan is indeed a billionaire.
480 yuan, a woman, thinks she will become a billionaire, so she won't miss any way to make money and invest.
I have bought lottery tickets, speculated in stocks, engaged in direct sales, opened dance halls and hotels, contracted land, opened landscaping companies and worked in real estate. ...
Now that a company she invested in has gone public, she has really become a billionaire.
Because the fortune teller said that she would become a billionaire, she took the initiative to try her best to make money.
If she doesn't work hard, but sits at home and waits, it is impossible for a billionaire to become.
She believed in fate, but she didn't passively believe it, but took the fortune teller's prediction as her life goal, and worked hard step by step to finally realize this prediction.
Her example shows that fate is in your own hands, and people who believe in fate are not necessarily negative.
Fate is determined by heaven, and luck depends on people. Dare to hold the fate by the throat, and you are the master of fate!
I study fate. I found that many guests who believe in fate are positive, and many are billionaires. They call me every year, counting the fleeting time. They are not afraid of death, but fear of death doesn't count. Their purpose is to know how fate will change in the future as a guide to avoid misfortune. On the one hand, this kind of person dares to face up to the frustrations and challenges of future life, which shows that he has courage and courage. On the other hand, he believed in the law of fate, did something, advanced and retreated at the right time, and followed the trend. Such people are often very wise. In three aspects, this kind of person is not afraid of future challenges and bad luck, which shows that his outlook on life is optimistic.
Let me give you my opinion. There is an old saying that poor fortune-telling makes rich burn incense. In reality, the poor face more setbacks and setbacks, and they don't have much strength to face real life. Therefore, fortune-telling has become a way for the bottom people to find comfort for themselves. Those dignitaries often like to go to famous temples to burn incense and worship Buddha.
I have studied numerology myself, and I will read numerology books when I have time. I'm not a professional forecaster, just a personal hobby. So I know a little bit about the word fate. Does man have a destiny? I think so, too. Before I learned four pillars and eight characters, I was skeptical about fate. But after research, I think people are really predestined, and sometimes it is quite accurate to apply the eight-character theory to familiar people. For example, let me give you an example.
Kunzao: Keith, Chen Wu, Guizhou, Ren Xu.
This is the character of a familiar person. If people who have studied numerology can see this eight-character problem at a glance, it is that this eight-character official killing is miscellaneous and numerous. Eight words, five of which are official killings. A woman regards Guan Sha as her husband and boyfriend. Do you think it's good for a woman to kill her marriage? This person has a good relationship with the opposite sex, but his marriage is really bad. He talked about divorce, talked about divorce. It really conforms to this eight-character nature, which is just one of them, and there are many such examples.
Therefore, I think that fortune tellers may mostly be people who are experiencing ups and downs, and of course they are also negative people. But when you are confused about the future, it is not a bad thing to find someone to predict it.
Wei Zimen has a saying: there is no limit in the next decade, and the limit is in the first decade.
It means that if anything goes wrong, it will be within ten years from now.
It doesn't matter whether you believe in fate or not. It is important that you try to believe or not. Only on the premise of saving yourself will someone help you. How can others help you if you don't work hard and save yourself?
Mutual evidence of four pillars and six hexagons. If the information of the four pillars contains information about going to college or getting rich,
If you think it is in your life, then I will lie down and wait for wealth. Is there such a good thing in the world?
I have seen countless people get lucky when they are young, and as a result, they are mediocre and poor in their 40 s and 50 s. If you ask again, you will know that they did have good luck when they were lucky, but they were abandoned by themselves and failed to grasp their destiny.
There is also a numerology. It was ten years of bad luck or bad luck, but it happened that it made a fortune.
How many people are confused, but don't know that if you die, it will make you crazy. As a result, gambling on drugs for a year ruined the family. ...
There are also people who are in high spirits after getting rich, but they come to an unexpected home to kill people. ...
I think these stories really exist around me.
Whether you believe in fate or not, letters are written from the standpoint of unbelief, and the purpose of letters is unbelief;
Similarly, from the standpoint of faith, unbelief means unbelief, and unbelief for faith means unbelief;
This is two sides of things. If you believe it at the right time, it may reduce the disaster.
If you don't believe it at the right time, maybe it will be another scene if you try hard. ...
Numerology does exist, but the final fate is still in your own hands. If you are negative, fate will repay your negativity.
If you are positive, you can at least avoid the disadvantages brought by the negative;
There is a divination in the Book of Changes, which means that obstacles are dangerous. Most people stop when they see danger or difficulties. This is the dangerous side;
On the other hand, we need to take risks to prevent risks. Blindly avoiding risks may not be avoided.
If you face danger and see it, maybe it will become invisible because of your face-to-face and wisdom!
As metaphysics, numerology is not fatalism, but conditional theory. While acknowledging the natural fate, man is a social man with subjective initiative. Therefore, the established condition for nature is inaction, but it is promising for the life process of the day after tomorrow.
However, it must be admitted that numerology is still not a complete theory, which needs to be improved and demonstrated from the aspects of elements, structure and principle.
People who believe in fate are not all negative. Most of them are actively exploring the limits of their own destiny, eager to find the main line of their own destiny, and believe that they can move forward smoothly along the looming main line of their destiny. However, no one can see his own destiny clearly. Due to the changes in cognitive ability, objective environment and social conditions, fate is unpredictable and unrecognizable, and people will not grow wildly indefinitely. Blind belief in fate is a false proposition. Only by continuous efforts can we make our destiny better and better. This is the truth that we can win only if we fight hard.
People who believe in fate are not negative, and certainly not positive! He attributed the good luck of his hit to fate, and the bad luck of his hit to fate. For example, you are the one who believes in fate. When you are in love, it turns yellow. You think this is fate. No matter what you say about falling in love, it is actually a shortcoming of your personality, which most people can't accept, but you won't see it, you will only say that your life is not good, and then you will become less confident. In the end, you will find a bad one. For example, if you can play games and make a lot of money by playing body double, you will feel that this is my wealth and my destiny, and then you will spend a lot of time here. Looking back, in fact, you are too lazy to do anything except play games, and you have not explored other possibilities. Time has rewarded you, so people who believe in fate may not be very pitiful, but they seem to have no rational mind and are entangled in the so-called fate, but they are actually trapped in themselves.
Not necessarily.
What is fate and what is faith?
There is an old saying: "Do your best and listen to your destiny." This sentence is used by many people to encourage themselves or others and try their best to do things well. This sentence is not negative in either literal meaning or context.
I come from the countryside, and I know that people in my hometown are taboo about things that can't be scientifically explained and some past statements, including my family, which is full of worship, and bad things such as weddings, funerals and weddings should be asked for fortune telling.
These phenomena are very common. Although I don't support them, I have absolutely no objection to them. Why? Because the so-called faithfulness among them is actually for the better.
Maybe my family is fragile, maybe I am incapable, so when I have worked hard and lived a happy life step by step, I hope that my family will be safe, healthy and happy through my efforts.
Of course, it does not rule out that some people are born negative and pessimistic. After encountering some difficulties and setbacks, I lose confidence in life and think that I will be like this all my life. Since then, they have been devastated and even collapsed.
In a word, I don't think people who believe in fate are all negative.
I don't think people who believe in fate are necessarily negative people. Nothing for nothing. When I encounter a little problem, I flinch and let you make a soup on the excuse that I am stupid and can't make it. In the cold winter, everyone else is studying hard and making money, but you spend all day sunbathing and chatting with a group of grandmothers. If you are poor, you say that your life is not good. Such people are not really unlucky, but lazy.
If you work hard to improve yourself and strive hard, life is not as beautiful as you think, and you are depressed and confused. You tell yourself that this is life, just to comfort yourself and reassure yourself.
As the saying goes, a person's fate is determined by his personality. To believe in fate is to believe in yourself. If you constantly improve your personality, be positive and strive for progress, your fate will not be worse.