1. Pairing
When children grow up, parents will let the matchmaker find someone. This is a very popular marriage custom in Putian, and it is also an old saying made by parents and arranged by matchmakers. Of course, many people are now free to fall in love and find their other half.
Step 2: Blind date
If the child is not married at a certain age, you can give the child a blind date and find an object. Generally, blind date is to find the right person through the matchmaker. On blind date, the man usually goes to the woman's house, where she cooks noodles or eggs as snacks. Egg noodles, also called Taiping, express one's feelings. If the man is satisfied with the woman, he can eat moon eggs.
3. Look at the date.
If both men and women like it, they can choose a date to get married, choose a date to see the new birthday, and then go to the temple to choose a good day. After the man decided on the wedding date, he told the woman his auspicious day with a red sticker and sent a tray of gifts.
4. Bride price
When the two parties are engaged, the woman will ask the man for a bride price. After the bride price is determined, a list will be made on a piece of red paper, which is called a gift list. The bride price is usually given to the woman by the coal worker.
marry
Marriage, commonly known as adulthood, also means that children have grown up, so the wedding will be grand. Men and women used to get married before they met. When the bride goes to the man's house for the first time, she needs to learn manners from her sister-in-law. These are for middle-aged women who are good at dealing with emergencies.