Why can't couples stay halfway?

Why can't couples stay halfway?

Why it's difficult for couples who become monks halfway to last, and how to make love and marriage last is the most crucial thing, but there is a folk saying that we don't have to pay too much attention to this statement. Let's share with you why it's difficult for couples to last long.

Why is it difficult for couples to last? 1 1, which has an ideological basis.

Because there has been a failed marriage before, it is easy for two people to think that even if the marriage finally fails, they will not feel too sad, because happiness is always at the next stop.

With such an idea, then both parties are unwilling to spend a lot of time trying to experience this marriage. In this case, marriage is doomed to failure.

My poor nature has not changed.

Since I had a very failed marriage before, it means that I must have some bad habits or habits, or did something wrong. If ta divorced for this reason before, but now she is unwilling to correct it, then this marriage will come to an end because of this.

3. No emotional foundation

Halfway through, the couple were either introduced or met soon, and they had no emotional foundation at all. In this way, two people don't know each other at all, which was ignored before marriage.

If you find that their personalities are not in tune at all after marriage, even if something happens, you may not be wronged to tolerate yourself. Then such a marriage will also be very dangerous.

4. There are too many minor contradictions.

Couples who don't have children halfway are fine. If they both have children, it is likely that some small frictions will often occur. Children are not sensible, and their biological parents must be protecting them. Coupled with trivial matters such as daily necessities, the friction between husband and wife will naturally increase. How can such a marriage last?

Why is it difficult for couples to last? 1. Why is it difficult for couples to last long?

1, age reason. From falling in love to getting married, a person has spent most of his life. If he unfortunately remarries, then he can't find the pure feelings when he first fell in love and just got married. Couples are usually injured in marriage halfway. I couldn't stand my ex's problems, so I filed for divorce. If this is looking for someone to get married, the shadow of the last marriage may hang over this person's heart, so it won't last long.

2, personality reasons. Because everyone has experienced a marriage before, they will be extra cautious and afraid of making mistakes in the second marriage. However, some people tend to cherish their belated feelings. In the second marriage, they are often compared with the first marriage, which will hurt people's hearts now, so it is difficult to last long.

Second, how to deal with the relationship between husband and wife

1, be kind and be quiet. The relationship between husband and wife is a complex one, and if it is not handled properly, it is likely to produce contradictions. Obviously, it is impossible for every couple to respect each other, be kind to each other and never quarrel. However, due to the dull life, there will definitely be some collision and friction between the two personalities. At this time, two people need to be considerate and tolerant of each other. After all, love is a journey for both sides, not the efforts of one person and the blindness of another.

2. Be considerate of your family. It is not easy for two people to meet, know each other and get to know each other, and it is even more difficult to fall in love and get married. Therefore, if you are lucky enough to get married, you must cherish the current marriage relationship and try to maintain it. If love is a delicate flower, then the relationship between husband and wife is the bond that two people need to guard.

Why is it difficult for a couple to stay halfway? Why do couples get married in June?

Getting married in June of the lunar calendar is actually bad for both husband and wife. According to the folk marriage taboo, you can't get married in June, because the ancients thought that June was half of a year and the bride in June was equal to half of the bride, which means that married couples are likely to become halfway couples after marriage.

How to choose a good wedding day

Pay attention to the following points when choosing a wedding date.

1, know your life.

Usually we think that the disagreement of the genus is the disagreement of the eight characters. In the traditional horoscope, the animal sign is only one of them, so the disagreement of the animal sign only represents one of them, and the personal animal sign does not play a decisive role in the marriage of relatives. Analyze and understand the fate of the eight characters of both sides, see the harmony and disagreement from it, and choose an auspicious day from it. Both men and women will be combined with Shenwangjiri, with a happy marriage and prosperous children.

2. Make a choice according to the date of birth of the bride.

As the saying goes, "have children, marry a woman." If this principle is reversed or ignored, it will lead to problems in married marriage. It is best to choose Ji Yue as the wedding day. It is best for the man to listen to the woman's opinions as much as possible and avoid the menstrual period on her wedding day. But at the same time, we should also pay attention to the opinions of others (especially the husband and wife and groom), after all, this is related to the happiness and harmony of the future family.

3. Avoid getting married in special months

Avoid March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these months coincide with Qingming, Yulan and Chonggong respectively, which are traditional "ghost festivals" and are not suitable for joint happy events.

Because Sanniang likes to fight the old moon and destroy the new, she also needs to avoid it. Sanniangsha is the 3rd, 7th, 13th, 18th, 22nd and 27th day of the lunar month.

Avoid each other's birthdays and parents' birthdays. If your parents have died, you should avoid jealousy and death.

In addition, the sixth month of the lunar calendar is not suitable for marriage, because the bride who gets married in June is called "half-moon wife" according to the traditional thought, that is, there is no front and no back, and there is no end to each other.

In fact, this is just a superstition. Newcomers can still choose their wedding date according to their own preferences.

Why is it difficult for couples to last? 4 I don't want couples to break up halfway, so I should face it like this.

First of all, face the tragic reality.

I firmly believe that for everyone, this is 1 an extremely tragic reality, but it is not an escape method, and we can only deal with it bravely. Therefore, the first thing to save a marriage is to heal yourself first and turn yourself into a 1 person who dares to deal with it. In this way, you can accept the tragic reality, and you don't have to feel that the other party can't tolerate their derailment, let alone this kind of sinking. Because you love her, and if he wants to come back,

Second, adjust the mentality.

Mentality is the key factor to determine the relationship between husband and wife, especially to deal with the breakdown of marriage. At first, you may be carried away by anger and just want to divorce each other, but if you calm down, you may really hear your true thoughts. If the other person really doesn't want to lose you, tries to keep you, and maybe still loves her, then why not calm down and talk with the other person about our problems, and maybe there will be a turn for the better.

Third, we should have confidence in two people.

Maybe you can often see your partner, often talk quietly on the phone with friends of the opposite sex, and even have a tryst. At this moment, you can feel very painful, but remember, you must not be overwhelmed by pain and show confidence.

I firmly believe that he is just looking for novelty. When he is tired, he will go home. He will eventually figure it out that you are the one who has been waiting for him all his life, and everyone will be able to go back to the past. Although it means repeating the same mistakes, this kind of self-confidence is very crucial, otherwise not only you will not survive, but also your marriage will not survive.

Fourth, fully consider all factors.

Many people will think that the vicious incident of divorce is very simple, but it is not. Divorce is more complicated. You can think about how to explain to your relatives and friends that it is ok to have no children, and you should take care of them if you have children. If divorce is more or less a shadow for children, will you insist on divorce when you think about it? Sometimes, divorce is not to get rid of pain.