After the soaring cost of reproduction in Japan, more than half of ordinary people never get married, and the rich generally have bad ceremonies.
Song Seung Heon: Rich people, strong people with careers.
Liu Yifei: Born in a rich family, she was educated in the United States (self-improvement education for women) and a career-oriented woman.
Not short of money, but also strong earning power, and even more unwilling to engage in a family capital combination of marriage, Liu Yifei needs one:
A man with a balanced personality (neither pride nor inferiority), independent thinking and reason (single-minded, considerate, mature and steady). Not a career man.
Zhu, before his career is successful, is very suitable. ? (Guess Liu Yifei might have had a crush on him at that time, but Zhu already had a girlfriend. Liu Yifei was honest and kind, only 16 years old at that time. She was emotionally passive and had to be good friends. )
At that time, Zhu had a girlfriend from a wealthy family, but Zhu came from a family of soldiers and teachers (male self-improvement education). Although he is balanced and reasonable (single-minded, caring for his family, mature and steady), he can't accept that "the family is separated and the young lady has a temper." At this time, he will tend to feel inferior, sensitive and fragile, depressed and out of control, and he will inevitably be eager to seek a career. After successfully becoming a career-oriented man, what he lacks behind him is one:
A woman with balanced personality, independent thinking and reasonable (single-minded, considerate, mature and steady). Meet at this time: Shen Jiani.
In 2022, Liu Yifei, a 34-year-old rich woman, is a career-oriented woman, and there are few candidates who can be compatible upward.
Suggest backward compatibility, Liu Yifei, get married before the age of 38 and live a complete life (physiologically, women have a limited reproductive age, and with the growth of age, the infertility rate and reproductive safety risk are greatly improved):
Push down a man who is 3-8 years old, has a balanced personality, thinks independently and is reasonable (single-minded, family-oriented). It is best to be mature and steady. Of course, everyone has a childlike innocence.
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There are many such men in China, yes, I am such a man!
However, it's not my turn, unless the gold bars count out the days and hit me right on the head.
Off-topic: don't believe in complementary personalities. The so-called complementarity is not the complementarity of personality (one is strong and one is weak), but the complementarity of family division of labor. The two people who are really suitable are:
Personality balance (neither pride nor inferiority, juvenile tutoring is related to independent adjustment after adulthood),
Independent thinking (the real and complete world is related to your own cognition, not demanding),
Be reasonable (single-minded, considerate, mature and steady. People with balanced personalities are generally more reasonable and can only be found after getting along. However, the cost of paying for reproduction in China has skyrocketed, and most of them are buried after they can't afford it. ?
Under different conditions, the family income is maximized, and the division of labor of child support and education is taken into account;
1 most common: the man is outside the house and the woman is inside. ? (premise: men's income and property are much higher than women's, commonly known as men's backward compatibility)
2 times ordinary: male and female are consistent inside and outside. (premise: men's income and property are similar to those of women, commonly known as: evenly matched)
Rare but existing: women dominate the outside and men dominate the inside. (premise: women's income and property are much higher than men's, commonly known as women's backward compatibility)
4 rare but existing: men and women share the same master. (Premise: Both men and women have a lot of property, commonly known as the carefree rich second generation who have mines at home and don't have to take over their parents' company, or have become shareholders when they meet the opportunities of the times. )
3 and 4 are the best choices for Liu Yifei, and 1 is the most difficult choice.
The purpose of the division of labor within the family is to pay the common survival and reproduction costs of both men and women, and at the same time give consideration to the upbringing and education of children.