If you want to understand the meaning of this sentence, you must first look at when Chen Gu and Jusu said it. The birth time is in the years of Hai, Zi and Ugly, that is, the year of pig, the year of mouse and the year of ox. If there is yin in the eight characters, it is silver moon, Yinri and Yin Shi. Silver moon is the first month, cloudy day is the third day of Jiari, and Yin Shi is from 3 am to 5 am. If the eight characters are full, that is, full moon, full day and full hour, the full moon is September, the full day is the eleventh day after the start of the day, and the full hour is from 7: 00 to 9: 00 in the evening. To put it simply, people born in the Year of the Pig, the Year of the Rat and the Year of the Ox are lonely and widowed if there is yin in the eight characters.
But it is not only those born in the Year of Pig, the Year of Rat and the Year of Ox who may be lonely and widowed. People born in the Year of the Tiger, the Year of the Rabbit and the Year of the Loong are lonely if they appear in the earthly branch, and widowed if they appear ugly. People born in year of the snake, the Year of the Horse and the Year of the Sheep will be lonely if the eight-character earthly branch appears, and widowed if it appears. People born in the Year of the Monkey, the Year of the Rooster and the Year of the Dog are lonely if the sea appears in the eight characters, and widowed if not.
After we understand loneliness and widowhood, we can easily see this proverb. Before marriage, the matchmaker has the final say. When the matchmaker matches two people, they will tell their parents their birthdays. After getting the date of birth, other parents will find a special fortune teller to see if these two people are suitable. The initial judgment is whether men and women are widowed or not. Because I used to think that men are easy to dump their wives when they are alone, and women are easy to dump their husbands when they are widowed.
In addition, it is not good for a man to be born in the middle of the night, because the middle of the night is the most prosperous time, and a man is positive and has a collision, which is very bad for this man. It is not good for women to be born at noon, because noon is the most energetic time of the year, and women's sexual desire is very bad for women.
Therefore, this sentence "Men are afraid of being alone and women are afraid of being widowed" means that it is not a standard for men to be afraid of being born in the middle of the night and for women to be lonely once, nor is it an ideal standard for women to be afraid of being born in the afternoon and being widowed.
The above is related to the birth of Yin Shi in the Year of the Rabbit, and it is about the sharing of numerology. I saw a girl's marriage in Yin Shi, I hope it will help everyone!