For example, some people say that people born in the first or fifteenth day of junior high school have a hard life. There is such a saying: if you fight Tianyuedel, there will be more people in one day; Or a person who likes to use it without being hurt is hard; Even said: people who type more than three sentences are hard; The people in the tomb are hard; Life is hard for those who died in vain. Some people even say that it is difficult for people with many injuries to survive; Life is harder than a robber; People who are full of yin and yang have a hard time; People who pretend are hard; People who are healthy and rich have a hard life; People on Zhengyin. com are very hard, and so on.
As far as the above statement is concerned, some seem to have some truth, while others are simply nonsense. For example, why are people born on the fifteenth day of the first grade so hard? There are no cadres, regardless of yin and yang, regardless of fate, only one or fifteen hexagrams, which is obviously too arbitrary.
Moreover, the concepts of these statements are also very vague, and sometimes it seems to say: his people have great vitality, and although they have experienced ups and downs, they can survive; Even behind the dark clouds, there is a ray of hope to turn the situation around. Sometimes there seems to be a special reference. The fate of the Lord is lonely, which is not conducive to parents or other six relatives, such as father, mother, husband, son, brothers and sisters. Life is lonely. As far as the author is concerned, loneliness is not necessarily bitter, and bad karma is not necessarily strong; At the same time, the life of bad karma is weak, which is not the same as the physical strength and weakness in the eight characters.
For example, if someone beats an orphan, it can only show that his beating has a shallow relationship with a certain parent, but it does not mean that he will kill a certain parent. For example, Kun Zao: Keith, Ding Mao, Chen Geng, Ji Mao (Shen Kong You); In the eight characters, the dispute between finance and printing is obvious, the wealth star is quite powerful, and the printing star is seriously restricted. At the end of 2003, the Universiade was held on the fifth day, and the power of Indian stars increased dramatically. That year, because of my father, my father beat my mother, and my mother told my uncle to kill my father, hid it in the refrigerator and was found by myself. My uncle died and my mother has served her sentence so far.
As far as the author is concerned, it is that children have a shallow relationship with their parents and have to work hard on their own all their lives. Some of them are lonely. How did they do it?
For another example, those engaged in manufacturing: your company, Jiazi, Dingyou and Chen Jia. In any case, this eight-character can't reach the level of wealth, but it can be autumn and winter. In the eight characters, the annual branch is Tiande, the daily branch is Tianyi, and there are two guards in the middle of the month. So I have a strong blessing, and I turned luck into luck. After so many bullets, there is not even a scar. However, young men are not rich, either physically disabled or die young, and their whereabouts are unknown.
The reason is that hitting seven kills is a taboo, and then every life is prosperous; When the female palace column was sitting in the tomb, it was defeated by this gas; I can't see how serious it is to ask God to forgive children. Because Chen is the tomb of water, he is also subject to armor. The reason why his wife died so early is because the original bureau was robbed of money and crushed by the palace master's anger; The reason why the two brothers died young is also because some brothers and sisters are prone to disaster because of the seven kills of the moon. It can't be said that his life is very bitter, just like his wife, children, brothers and sisters, but that these six relatives have a bad fate with themselves, or have a shallow fate, or will bring pain to themselves.
So the word "bitter fate" is just a numerology phenomenon. Some people have experienced hardships, but they can save the day and even get a blessing in trouble. Some people live alone, or it is not good for their six relatives, or their six relatives are shallow. We can't say that the eight-character "bitter days" must be bad; I can't say, it must be terrible. Good or bad, generally need to combine life and structure, to judge carefully.
People with adverse effects can be divided into the following categories:
First, people who work hard, such as: when a woman's life is strong, she bears a lot of punishment, and she may lose her parents when she was a child; After marriage, the husband may be punished; After having children, they may also punish their own children; Men's lives are more like wives and fathers, and it is hard to say that they are prosperous. Therefore, in this hard lifestyle, women are generally lonely. In yin and yang culture, men are the sun, standing tall; Take women as yin and sex as water. So the way of husband and wife is also the way of yin and yang. Husband and wife are smooth, yin and yang are smooth.
In other words, a woman's eight characters should be soft but not rigid, so as to conform to the way of yin and yang. If the five elements are too masculine and the yin and yang are reversed, that is, what the folks call hard luck, there is often no happy marriage and family. However, the weaker a woman's life, the better. Unless she is obedient, she will be neutralized during the day. At least it's good that the Lord has wealth and seals, and seals can flow to the daytime. Otherwise, she is too weak, in poor health and weak will, and it is easy to accomplish nothing.
As far as the rise and fall of the five elements are concerned, if a person's eight characters are too strong, it can be regarded as hard luck; Because the other five elements are weak, or resisted by the strong five elements, or opposed, or discouraged, and so on. This will adversely affect about 6 relatives. Especially those who have been ordered to follow Wang Ge, they are on a par with each other in strength, and they have a sharp-edged star, just like wearing a "double-edged sword", which can protect themselves and hurt others.
Impatient, subjective, possessive and selfish. There is also an unyielding will to eat soft and not hard. Anyone who collides with it is sure to be beaten. Emotionally, it is difficult to get a happy marriage from Wang Ge's female life, because Wang Ge is too powerful. For a woman's life, it is better to be soft than rigid, so as not to distort the way of Yin and Yang. In fact, as far as life style is concerned, almost all subordinate cases, whether from prosperity, decline or decline, belong to withered life style and have information that hinders six parents; Needless to say, fake obedience and fake life are even more so.
It should be noted that this kind of life-style people are lucky when they are lucky, and they are easy to be rich or expensive; If you don't go well, you will lose or even be defeated, which will bring pain to your family and six relatives. If you are lucky, you will worry about your life. The reason is that this kind of eight characters, the original bureau generally lacks the god of salvation. In addition, his personality is too hard, too focused, too emotional, and there are many even fatal defects. Once he fails in Mexico City, he will be disheartened and even lose his mind. A lifestyle that belongs to "hard life" does not necessarily hurt life.
Second, the six relatives in the palace sat and killed. As far as six parents' houses are concerned, every six parents have their own houses. My parents' home may be an annual column or a moon column. Years are more than robbery, which is definitely not good for father or mother. The moon column, or the sun column, may be a brother's palace. Confirmed brother's house, wounding an official, killing seven people, and even an official are all messages that hinder brothers and sisters.
The spouse's daily support in the palace, the man's daily support for robbing money, and the woman's daily support for injuring officials all indicate that the spouse's fate is shallow, and it may be better to separate from the spouse appropriately; If the husband and wife are close, there may be a phenomenon where you go.
When the column is a children's palace, when a man lives in it, it hurts an official, and when a woman lives in it, it may also hinder her children. However, it is necessary to combine the rise and fall of a parent star in the eight characters, and whether it is controlled. Relatively speaking, no matter men or women, if the house of six parents is a prosperous place for six parents, even if six parents get land, in principle, as long as there is no big punishment, it will not hinder some six parents.
In fact, the above information mainly reflects the depth of fate between the Lord and some six relatives; This is not to say that the life of the Lord is difficult, so it is a kind of six relatives; What's more, because some six relatives are too powerful, it is a manifestation of their own losses. Unless, this house is hit by ten stars, and the house stars are hidden; And it is in a state of prosperity. For example, it is definitely not good for mothers to spend money every year, especially when the stars in the eight characters are weak and the fortune is on the high side.
Three, six relatives meet in the tomb. As far as the tomb library is concerned, it is very weak to hit a certain parent star, and it is unfavorable for a certain parent to meet in the tomb. It is called "hard luck" because many of the six relatives who entered the tomb were not smooth, and one of them was prone to disaster. This is especially true when many parent stars are buried. Because Chen Xu was ugly, he punished himself and was sentenced three times, except for two hedges. In this case, it is still necessary to distinguish between the depth of fate and the inherent nature.
Fourth, the imbalance of yin and yang, or the imbalance of yin and yang in the main branches, is the total yang or total yin of the four pillars; Or among the seven columns (four columns collide with three walls), only one column is yin or yang; This is the imbalance between yin and yang. The Lord's life is mainly unfavorable to Yang Zun or Yin Zun. Disagreement between branches refers to the lack of friendship between them. In particular, there can be no month, day and hour, and there are many kinds of grams; Or Japan's living core monuments and Niangan; Land support can't kill the sky, and land support can't punish the annual support. The Lord ordered the Lord to be grumpy, arrogant and even disobedient and unfilial; It will make parents suffer; It is unreasonable to make one's own decisions, and it is easy to be willful only to do what one wants.
The reason why "brain-dead" people are not necessarily bad people must be carefully distinguished; The reason is that, generally speaking, there are the following auspicious situations:
First, with the intervention of the New Year's Movement, the withered life may be transformed into normal, for example, the five elements are flourishing (for convenience, it is assumed that the five elements are trees), and the other five elements can be valuable if they are properly matched. For example, the Japanese are very prosperous, but the eight characters reveal fire, and a little soil (soil represents wealth) has not been engraved. If something goes wrong with the Universiade, it is also good luck; Or the wood is very prosperous, and it is appropriate to use soil gold (soil is wealth, and gold is an official), and then borrowing soil gold is also a fortune.
This is bad luck, although the hit is inherently flawed, but luck can make up for it. Just like a ship with poor quality, it just sails on calm water, just like a ship.
Second, the fate of the Lord is because of the eight-character life brought by Ford and Fuhui. From the perspective of the Ten Gods, it is a star, a god of food; Hit two, or get one of them, which is the representative of Fulu. For example, Kunzao: Bingwu, Wuxu, Xinhai and Wu Jia. This eight-character is in full swing. I am kind by nature, and my daily work hurts me. There are no major problems in my marriage, and my husband has no major health problems. It's just that my father died a little early.
From the point of view of evil spirits, it is the virtue of heaven and heaven, or the combination of virtue and harmony, and the blessing of confinement. In particular, Rizhu conforms to Tian Yue's two virtues, or is a sign of survival from disaster. And it won't hurt the six relatives. For example, in the book "Jade Photo Confirms the Truth", it is said: "Divination is angry, and Heaven and Virtue are harmonious for generations." As long as we persist in this year, or sing, we will persist in longevity every day and bid farewell to Tiande. Although this statement is a special case, at least it can be said that the good luck brought by the nobles will not hinder the six relatives.
To sum up, the author thinks that the "bitter fate" in the eight characters has little to do with the disaster of six parents and a person's wealth level. Because, the disaster of six relatives often shows the depth of their fate with some six relatives, as well as good and evil, which shows that they will encounter these things in their lives and have little inevitable connection with their own behavior. Moreover, the disaster of many people's six relatives may also be their own pain and disaster.