Recently, some scholars clarified this sentence on the Internet: It is said that the original words are "men with virtue are talented, and women without talent are virtuous". "Virtue is more important than talent" is the belief of China people, regardless of gender. China people have always advocated taking "virtue" as the foundation and attaching importance to "talent" over "virtue", so there is a saying that "a person with virtue is a talent". A woman has no talent, not really no talent, but although she is very talented, she does not show off her talent at all, nor does she show it in front of her husband, but is humble and obedient. This is a woman's virtue.
The sixty-fourth chapter of A Dream of Red Mansions wrote: "Since ancient times, there has been a saying that women are virtuous without talent, and chastity is always the main thing, while female workers are secondary."
In Shuo Wen Jie Zi, it is said that women are versatile and often self-righteous and dye themselves with dust. However, due to the weakness of vulva, it is not easy to gain something. The more you dye, the more you lose, and you may not be full, which is very self-defeating. On the contrary, when the dust settles and it warms up, you will be complacent and return home with a full load, and then lose your wealth and dust, so "a woman without talent is virtue."
The "talented star" in the eight-character numerology-the characteristics of the wounded official and the god of food star, then how to understand this passage in the eight-character numerology? Of course, the "talent" here obviously does not refer to the "talent" of popularizing general education and reading literacy, but only the right to education that ordinary people should have. This refers to people's real talents and talents. In the horoscope, it refers to the two stars of "hurting officials and eating gods", which represent people's success in the stars of intelligence, wisdom and talent. Because of the relationship between yin and yang, the god of food is gentle and generous, with a plain face facing the sky and a harmonious relationship with officials and stars.
However, the injured official is different. Injured officials represent extroversion, talent and the display of talent. He is extroverted, passionate, lively and optimistic, versatile, knowledgeable, extremely intelligent, elegant and beautiful, with excellent understanding and rich creativity. He is full of energy and fighting will, has a strong desire to surpass others, has strong self-esteem, is arbitrary and stubborn, likes others' affirmation and applause, and has a high artistic ability.
At the same time, judging from the arrangement of yin and yang and five elements, the injured officials just restrained the injured officials. The injured official is heavy and uncontrollable, or the injured official does not cooperate well. They often show pride, conceit, arrogance, willfulness and arrogance, and their sharp words are not bound by secular etiquette.
When a woman is hit, the official represents her husband, and the official is seriously injured but does not cooperate well, or the official and the woman are injured in the eight characters, which will hurt the official and her husband, lead to disharmony in family life and make marriage difficult to complete. Therefore, there is a cloud in the Book of Life: "It is not true that a woman's life hurts an official."
Many women with both talents and looks have hit this star that hurts officials. However, if this star is not handled well, there is no money to lead and no constraints, but seeing the official star will come true. "It is a disaster to be injured and see an official." Of course, Germany will also be affected.
Therefore, the ancients realized this point, preferring that women have no "talent", in fact, they would rather not have this "injured official" smart and talented star, and they should all keep morality. In other words, it is a virtue for a woman not to "hurt an official". Therefore, in Shuo Wen Jie Zi, it is said that "if a woman is versatile, she often thinks she is self-righteous and dyes her body with dust", which means that when a woman collides with this official star and doesn't cooperate well, her characteristic is to avoid god.
Recently, American psychologists claimed that the happiness of marriage is largely determined by the specific DNA fragments of both husband and wife. The researchers found that people whose husband and wife both carry two short 5-HTTLPR gene fragments (accounting for 17% of the researchers) are more likely to be "impulsive", that is, their marriage relationship is easily affected by emotional ups and downs. However, those couples who have at least one or two long 5-HTTLPR gene fragments rarely affect their marital satisfaction because of their emotions, even after 10 years.
This refers to research in empirical science. In China's traditional numerology, a woman's life hurts an official star, which is very destructive to marriage, and is closely related to a woman's talent. The ancients would rather have female blows than none, in order to preserve virtue. That's why there is a saying that "a woman without talent is virtue".
Some people may ask, a man's life will also hurt the official star, aren't you afraid of affecting marriage? The wounded official star who was hit by someone refers to the country, officials and urban management who ruled and managed him (note). If he hits an official and doesn't cooperate well, once he thinks they are unfair, he will confront this system and this official. Now it is not often heard that the oppressed people in the mainland retaliate against officials, police stations, urban management and so on. People who are unfair to them. These are all things that are played out when the male life hurts the official and the star does not cooperate well.
If you hit a wounded official star, but the strong see the fortune star to resolve it, because of the relationship between the five elements, the wounded official will have a fortune star, and the fortune star will have an official star to resolve the ferocity of the wounded official star and make it a prosperous official. If you are weak, you will be happy to see the stars, because the stars will restrain the injury to officials and help your health. Therefore, the book of life also says, "You can't say that you are hurting officials, but you can repay them with food and clothing." If you don't see a lucky star, you can only become a Xiu De by yourself, with patience and restraint. Even if you have talent, you don't show it in front of your husband, but you show humility, obedience and abide by secular etiquette. This is a woman's virtue.
For example. For example. Female: Xu Jianian, Chen Wuyue, Ding Maori, Wushenshi. Ding Huo's Japanese Lord (ordered Ding Huo), the moon order injured the official, two pieces of soil injured the official, and Nianzhu injured the official again. Four times, he saw the wounded officer too prosperous. Although there is a piece of wood and a piece of soil, it still won't work. Beautiful, but not conducive to marriage, divorced at 42.