Big S raises her daughter rich, and small S raises her daughter poor. Usually the gap between the two children is clear at a glance! Big S loves her daughter very much and, like many parents, always tries to meet her various needs. What kind of skirts and toys Big S's daughter wants, she will give them satisfaction. Rich material will not make my daughter feel inferior, nor will I feel that others have painful experiences that I don't have. This enrichment has given her daughter more confidence and confidence, and also opened her eyes in this respect. Big S's daughter works part-time. Like her, quiet and steady, but also a proper little lady!
Small s is not the same as raising a daughter! Small S education daughter should have the quality of economic independence. She didn't raise her daughter as rich as big S to meet her various needs, but told her daughter not to spend money indiscriminately. This kind of education is very beneficial to the development of daughter's quality. I don't waste money. I earn money and spend it myself, which makes my daughter independent, talented and excellent. Xiao S's daughter is also a magazine published at the age of 13. Her temperament is outstanding and admirable!
So, how to raise a daughter is rich or poor?
The above information about big S and small S raising their daughters in poverty and prosperity is only a material introduction. Raising a daughter requires not only material things but also physical feeding. Therefore, it cannot be said that adopted daughters should be poor or rich. It should be clear at different levels.
Material prosperity is nothing more than buying the most beautiful skirt for your daughter, buying all kinds of favorite foods, traveling around the world, etc., and spoiling your daughter into a princess. These will open my daughter's eyes. I remember Degang Guo said that girls should eat and watch, so they won't be cheated casually.
I think what I said is very reasonable. However, excessive affluence may breed children's pampering, selfishness and princess disease. Material poverty has many advantages. Material poverty makes children know how to save and learn to be independent. However, excesses may make children feel inferior. Once you discuss with other children and find that you have nothing, you will feel lost and uneasy.
Material poverty has little effect, and physical poverty is almost too great! No matter how poor a person is, his heart cannot be poor. Big S and small S must have put a lot of effort into raising such an excellent daughter! As parents, we should not be short-sighted, but let our children have money.
So, how to enrich your daughter physically?
Books condense the best ideas in the world. If parents want their daughters to develop reading habits, they should start from themselves. Children like to imitate their parents, and parents must set an example. First of all, let me love reading, learn the essence from books and teach children to read. It is very important to create a learning atmosphere at home, install a bookcase and be a reading and learning center, so that children can study with peace of mind!
As the saying goes, thousands of books is inferior to Wan Li Road. Traveling is a very meaningful thing. In the process of traveling, daughters can strengthen their self-maintenance awareness, learn to take care of themselves, eat and dress, experience local folk customs, learn to communicate and cooperate with others, and so on. Traveling can broaden her daughter's horizons and increase her knowledge. She has never seen or heard of it. Travel is as indispensable as reading. Read the book and walk, that's enough!
Learning is a compulsory course in life. People have been learning and making progress all their lives. Parents should cultivate their daughter's concept of lifelong learning, so that she can understand that learning is not for her parents, not for making money, but for herself!
Parents should take their children to experience various activities, such as painting, dancing, singing, handicrafts, skateboarding, cycling, skating and so on. Let children experience more, so as to find the projects they are good at and like, and strive to cultivate interest preferences. Be interested in the rich material world and complete the evil life!
There are both material wealth and wealth, and the body must be enriched. Parents can build their own parenting classes for big S and small S, learn from them and make their children better and better! You must pay attention to raising your daughter. Material poverty should prevent her from feeling inferior, while material wealth should prevent princess disease. According to the child's personality, take the appropriate way to educate!