Life is really hard, and you can only overcome it by yourself.
I have seen a short movie before, about a girl who helped an old man during an interview. Coincidentally, she also met the old man in the company where she was interviewing.
So, she raised her hopes again and again, but was disappointed again and again. It turned out that the old man was just an ordinary cleaner.
In just two minutes, people suddenly understood.
We always leave our lives in the hands of others casually. We always feel that having something to rely on and something to look forward to is the greatest happiness. But in fact, in this world, everyone has their own responsibilities and obligations, and there are always only a few things that can help you.
There are no miracles in life. Everything happens unintentionally, but it all comes naturally. The greatest noble person in a person's life is the one who works hard to make progress.
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Relying blindly will only lead to mediocrity. People always have to live as the protagonist of their own lives.
Yishu once said this: "The only person a person can trust in the end is himself, and the only person who can be proud of him is himself." I have found myself, I am where I belong. ?
If you rely on others, no matter how much you get, you will feel uneasy and unstable in the end. Why? Because the world is changing, no one can guarantee that the objects they rely on will not change, and relying on others is never reliable.
So, if we only rely on the outside world and do not grow ourselves, then we will definitely be in pain.
I saw such a story online before.
There is an intern in a famous company. He has a good academic background and graduated from a famous university. He also looks smart. However, in the end he failed to pass the internship. The reason for dismissal stated that he had a poor work attitude and poor initiative.
He felt very wronged and thought that he had done nothing wrong at all, but that the company did not recognize talents. So before leaving, he angrily argued with his boss, accusing him of not taking care of him. This is what he said: ?As a boss, you have the obligation to lead your subordinates to grow. If you don't help me when I encounter difficulties, how can I know how to work hard? ?
As the saying goes: "You rely on noble people to lead the way, but you rely on yourself to walk the road."
Others can help you for a while, but they cannot help you forever. After all, no matter how difficult the road of life is, you have to walk it on your own. No matter how difficult it is, success can only be achieved by yourself. A person's true maturity is not the growth of age, but the understanding that the world is only one's own and has nothing to do with others.
So, if God helps those who help themselves, if you rely on others, you will lose.
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If you don’t work hard, you will only miss out
Working hard is the best attitude in life.
Everyone complains about social injustice, but when you calm down and think carefully, you will find that
Life will never let down anyone who works hard.
No pain, no gain, this is an eternal truth.
It is good to be enthusiastic, but if you do not implement actions, it is just empty talk and just dreaming. Those who talk about dreams with high ambitions and low ambitions are far less happy than those who work hard and down-to-earth.
Once, the flood submerged the village. A man believed in God so much that he kept praying: ?God, come and save me! ?
At this time, a small boat came from a distance, and the people on the boat asked him to get on the boat quickly. He said: God will come to save me, and the small boat can go away. When the flood reached the roof, another big boat sailed in the distance. The people on the boat threw a lifebuoy to him, but he refused. He loudly said: God will come to save me, and the lifebuoy floated away.
Not long after, the flood reached his neck. At this time, a helicopter flew in the sky and lowered the ladder to save him. He said: God will come to save me. The helicopter flew away helplessly. At this time, a big wave hit him hard, and he was swept away by the rapids and drowned.
His soul went to heaven, and he asked God: "I prayed so devoutly to you to save me, but why didn't you save me?" ?
God said: I have sent you a boat and a lifebuoy successively. I have given you two opportunities, but you did not seize them. In the end, I even sent my plane, but you still haven’t caught me. Can you blame me for this? ?
The opportunity cannot be missed, and it will never come back.
Noble people are rare, but even more rare is the ability to firmly grasp opportunities when faced with them. After all, for many people, there is only one chance to change their destiny. If you seize it, you will rise to success. If you miss it, you will only regret it for the rest of your life.
Don’t underestimate every effort you make in life, because every gain in life is the result of long-term accumulation. And every step of your efforts counts, and it will give you appropriate rewards at the appropriate time.
Therefore, there is no easy life, and it is impossible to take advantage of opportunities. Only by working hard and relying on yourself can you win a place for yourself.
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The most noble person in a person is himself who works hard to be wonderful
Everyone has potential, and it is not advisable to belittle oneself. Recognize yourself and believe in yourself. Everyone has the ability to change their destiny.
But in this world, too many people have ignored this and will just wait for fate, waiting for noble people to give them a chance to soar into the sky.
Don’t forget, God helps those who help themselves. If you don’t help yourself, others will be unable to help you. When the Golden Globe Award for Best Actress was announced last year, everyone got to know this girl with small round eyes, flat nose, and eyebrows? Sandra Oh.
Back then, with excellent academic performance, she could have attended Carleton University in Canada with a four-year full scholarship. But she chose to study acting at a drama school. This decision was opposed by almost everyone. Everyone, including her parents, agent, and director, disliked this ordinary-looking girl.
Even she herself once said frankly: As an actor, 90% of the time, I have to say 'no' to others. ?
Even so, Sandra Wu never wavered in her determination. The first thing I do when I wake up every day is to rehearse the script; after work is over, I often look in the mirror and practice my facial expressions and body movements over and over again. Her persistence and hard work day after day finally paid off.
There was a question on Zhihu: Who is the best person you have ever met in your life? ?
There is an answer that is different: The noble person just reminds you and inspires you at a certain time, a certain place, and a certain matter, and then he walks towards the crowd in a cool and unrestrained way. You may think of it again. Can't see him either.
Only the one who works hard can be his best friend.
Life is never easy, and success is never achieved by just talking. Although there will be stumbles and scars along the way to success, we have also become better versions of ourselves without even realizing it. Therefore, people must have a heart of self-transcendence and rely on themselves to succeed.
If you bloom, butterflies will come.
Only when you make yourself good enough, you may meet more like-minded people and make progress with them in the years to come, achieve mutual success and create a more exciting life.
Never forget that you are your own noble person, and your life is best if you rely on yourself!