There are many reasons for fearing marriage. When I was a child, the living environment was unsafe, and the noisy marriage between my parents would leave an indelible mark on you and me as children. This is one of them. Single-parent families may be another factor. They don't believe in marriage, so they are afraid of marriage. These are two factors. Nowadays, there is great social pressure, and many people in fear of marriage are reluctant to get married because they want to escape the pressure of marriage. This is three. The misfortune and breakdown of the marriage relationship among friends around you will also lead to the fear of marriage among single friends, which is the fourth kind. Another idea is that some people really don't want to get married, so they find an excuse for being afraid of getting married. This is five. In fact, no matter what causes the fear of marriage, it is still necessary for you and me to find the crux of the problem and then prescribe the right medicine. After all, if there are more and more people from fear of marriage in this society, there will be more and more crises.
I'm afraid that marriage is the grave of love, that the married rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea will kill my poems and the distance, that I will grow old and ugly, that my life plan will slowly compromise with life, that I dare not bravely pursue my dreams, that the blueprint of my beautiful life is just a dream, that the discomfort and pain of pregnancy and childbirth, that the conflict between the younger generation and the elders, and that the burden of life will eventually crush us. No matter how hard we try, we can't reach the end.