Then don’t rely on others, do it yourself.
Don’t eat alone and share often
Whatever delicious food you buy, don’t hide it and eat it yourself, but know how to share it with your roommates in the dormitory, so that next time your roommates buy it Some snacks or fruits will also be given to you. Of course, some people may think that these are ordinary snacks that one can afford at home, so there is no need to share them with roommates. Many people here misunderstand that the point is not what you eat, but the act of sharing. Everyone leaves home and parents to go to school in a strange environment, and will feel alone and lonely. Your heartwarming sharing is a great way to build goodwill.
Don’t mess with roommate’s belongings
Don’t touch other people’s things without permission. This is something our parents have told us since childhood, and we need to pay more attention to it when we get to college. Although you live in the same dormitory, you can't touch your roommate's things casually. This is very disrespectful to others. Especially for some fragile and breakable items, if they are damaged and you find out who touched them, you may be involved in the issue of compensation. Moreover, if your image in the dormitory is that of someone who likes to tamper with other people's things, everyone may be wary of you and will look for you first if they lose something. At that time, you will really be unable to defend yourself.
Respect the privacy of roommates and do not gossip
Everyone has their own secrets, or private matters that they don’t want to mention, especially family issues. Things that come into play must be avoided skillfully, and you must not snoop into other people's privacy.
Whether it is morning or evening, if you find that your roommate is still resting, remember to keep quiet
Because everyone has a different life schedule, there are both night owls and early risers, so this causes them to In the process of getting along, it is inevitable that there will be friction due to daily routine, but no matter what, you must keep in mind that when others are resting, you must stay quiet or lower your own volume.
Respect each other's interests and do not deny or comment on other people's preferences and idols
Everyone has his own style, and thus has his own hobbies and preferences, whether in food, In terms of dressing up, idols or books, no matter how different others are from you, don’t rush to deny others. You have your reasons for liking others, and others have their passionate love relationships. Respect each other and you can get along more happily!
Roommates are not relatives, so don’t “get your heart and lungs out” from the beginning.
Prevent your roommates from giving you any clues. Everyone is not very familiar with each other just after the freshman year, and everyone will hide themselves and show their best side to you. You will only realize that you have found a stable good friend at the end of your sophomore year, so don’t tell anyone about any secrets at the beginning. oh.
Don’t borrow money easily
It is not easy for our parents to make money. If you dare to lend it to him, he may not return it to you. Many relationships are broken from the beginning of borrowing money. Well, if it was your very good friend, you wouldn’t even know how to ask him for it!
You are not RMB, so you cannot be "loved by everyone".
In a university dormitory, whether there are 4 people, 6 people, or more, their origins, families, growth environments, and personalities and hobbies are bound to be different, which determines how they behave. There is a big difference. In the process of getting along with these roommates, you will meet like-minded and similar roommates, and you may also meet some who have "different horoscopes". Face this kind of roommate who can't get along with you, deal with it indifferently, and don't let it affect your mood.
Don’t be afraid of stalemate the relationship, you can live well alone.
If you are unfortunate enough to encounter a roommate in college who is difficult to communicate with, likes to take advantage of, and has bad habits that he will never change, don’t tolerate regression just because of dormitory relations, and express yourself boldly and bravely. From the point of view, there is no need to be afraid even if the relationship is stalemate. A person can live well in college. Roommates are just passers-by living under the same roof. It is no big deal.
For students who love learning, university dormitories are the "cradle of decadence", while for students who just like decadence, they are a "comfort home."
Moreover, the "decadent" atmosphere of this dormitory is contagious, really contagious.
Because everyone is afraid of being alone and likes to be "gregarious". In many cases, gregariousness in universities does not involve studying in groups. Although there are some, they are rare.
So, in order to avoid decadence, you can go to the library more often instead of staying in the dormitory and lying on the bed all day.