The content of teachers' personal etiquette
A, instrument etiquette:
Instrument mainly refers to the overall impression of people's extern
The content of teachers' personal etiquette
A, instrument etiquette:
Instrument mainly refers to the overall impression of people's external contour, appearance, expression, manners and clothing.
It includes two parts: 1, static height, height and thinness, and age status. (It will not mutate for a certain period of time)
2. Dynamic behavior and expression
Second, the instrument etiquette rules:
1, neat, for example, if you are alone and do things, it will be more troublesome to look untidy. For example, a comrade is well dressed and well matched with colors, but dandruff keeps on his head, his fingers are sticking out and his nails are full of sludge. If he stands next to you, it will be like a trash can, with a strong smell. Will you have a good impression on him?
2, natural instruments should be natural, you are unnatural, and sometimes it is very troublesome. It's unnatural Sometimes it means affectation.
3, interaction is your beautification, your decoration is accepted by the communication object, of course, sometimes there are some skills.
Third, the main points to pay attention to:
1, facial modification
For example: a short, bald head, but no eyebrows in front, no ears on the side, and tied up over the shoulder.
Don't let it slip over your shoulders, it's not appropriate. Long hair doesn't cross your shoulders. If you want to have long hair, you'd better tie it up and braid it at work and important occasions, and tidy it up with clips or hair bands. Don't spread it out at will. Teachers' hairstyles generally require solemnity and conservatism. You can't be too fashionable.
The most important thing to pay attention to in facial modification is that besides neatness, we should also pay attention to the excess hair on the face. Such as: nose hair, eyebrows and ear hair. Modify it in time.
2. Modification of oral cavity
For example, you should pay attention to no odor and no foreign matter.
Brush your teeth and look in the mirror after dinner. To tell the truth, when people talk to you, they find that your mouth is pink and green. This tooth is stuffed with a leek and half a shrimp skin there. This is not good either. Pay special attention to whether you are engaged in service work, reception work, or going to social occasions, dancing or banquets. Don't eat food with excessive pungent smell. You should have a well-educated person. If you go to a public place, you shouldn't let.
3, the requirements of makeup
For example: First, make-up should respect nature, because if we are not going to make a show on TV or perform on stage, there is no need to make up the stage. For example, if you wear perfume, the purpose of wearing perfume is actually to avoid sweating too much or having other unpleasant smells in public. You don't need to do too much. You should spray it properly. Within one or two meters of the social circle, everyone felt that the taste was a little fragrant. Some comrades are very ruthless. Pick up the perfume bottle with emulsion, as if killing the enemy and spraying wildly, making yourself like mosquito-repellent incense. You can fool a mouse to death. To put it bluntly, you use too much, which makes others feel self-defeating and makes people suspect that this person must have a body odor. Why else does it smell so good?
The second principle is to avoid people. What do you mean? Make up or tidy yourself, and don't perform in public. Make-up is a personal privacy behavior. Performing in front of others is suspected of attracting attention. Some of our comrades don't pay much attention. When they go to work for a meeting, they are fine. When waiting for the bus, they will take out a small mirror to look at themselves. Actually, she doesn't pay much attention to etiquette either. A clever woman should not say that she is not in public.
You don't have to put on makeup in front of your boyfriend or husband. Distance produces beauty. You clean yourself up in front of that guy He finds you beautiful, and your beauty will be discounted. He will say in his heart, I see, it affects your revolutionary image, so a smart woman should not change clothes and wear socks in front of others, including her husband. He is also an outsider, so it is necessary to be an outsider. Distance produces beauty.
4. Requirements for manners and behaviors Manners and behaviors are actually a matter of upbringing, grace and charm.
1), sitting posture, standing posture,
If the female teacher doesn't pay attention to these three points, you will be ugly. First, you can't stand with your legs apart in a small figure-eight or t-step Second, sitting opposite others, legs will naturally come together. If you want to wear pants, this leg can be slightly separated. If you want to wear skirts, especially miniskirts, you have to put your legs together, otherwise there will be serious technical problems and exposure. Third, the last question is whether you are wearing a skirt or trousers. As an educated lesbian, you can't squat in public, especially in front of outsiders. To adopt this posture, you can only be flexible by kneeling or turning your back on others. Sometimes if you want to find something, tie your shoelaces, carry socks and help children, you have to turn your back on others, otherwise that posture is extremely indecent. Walk dignified, don't walk with your hands in your pockets; Don't look around.
Don't run without special circumstances. Step by step up the stairs.
Look up, look straight ahead and smile.
The trunk is straight and the center of gravity is between the legs.
2) Shake hands, generally shaking hands with the right hand, generally not shaking hands with the left hand. If you shake hands, shake hands with others neither too long nor too short. Hold the other person's hand with appropriate strength and gently shake it up and down for 23 times. Some of our lesbians are too short and gay men are too long. Some lesbians shake hands with you like this. Hello, I won't look you in the eye and give you three fingers. I don't push or shake, just like a dead fish.
Who reaches out first? It is the high-ranking person who reaches out first. For example, when subordinates and superiors are together, superiors reach out first, junior and elder reach out first, and men and women reach out first. For example, I introduce Mr. Li and Miss Wang. Miss Wang introduced by the latter has a high status. Then Miss Wang was willing to say a few more words to Mr. Li, and Miss Wang reached out. Hello, my name is Wang Li. She can introduce herself and say what company she works for. If she wants to know this Mr. Li, I will introduce him. This is Mr. Li and this is Miss Wang. Teacher Wang just nodded to Mr. Li. Hello, that's all. Mr. Li will stop here.
There are also special circumstances, such as the host shaking hands with guests and reaching out in a different order. In general, when guests arrive, your host should reach out first. When the guests arrive, the host should first extend his hand to welcome them.
3), eyes, a person's expression is reflected by eyes and smiles. I'll talk about this alone. First of all, talk about eyes. What should I pay attention to? Eyes should pay attention to such a habit, that is, pay attention to four words. We still have people in our eyes. In daily work and communication, we should form the habit of staring at each other. I'm just saying, you talk to people, say welcome, say goodbye, and don't look at them from beginning to end. They're not happy. Of course, further, from the perspective of politeness, you can look at others from three angles. Which part do you look at from the first angle? The second angle is the length of time you watch. Third, where do you look at others? This is very particular. For example, in general, when talking at close range, the two of us look at each other's eyes or heads at a distance of one or two meters. Especially when facing the opposite sex, you should get into the habit of not looking at the middle, especially the bottom, otherwise people will say you are bedroom. The second is to pay attention to people's perspective. Some comrades have bad habits, but they don't like you. When he looks at you, he makes you angry to death. He doesn't look directly at you, but stares at you out of the corner of his eye. For example, if you are here, that's how he sees it. You should get into the habit. When talking to others, turn around and face them. There are even more hateful comrades. He scanned you with an omni-directional laser and suspected that you were a thief. Psychologists tell us that when you communicate with a person, for example, two people sit together and chat, how long should you look at each other? For example, we sit together and talk for ten minutes. How long should you look at each other? 1/3 to 2/3 is better. For example, if you chat here for 10 minutes, it should take four or five minutes to meet. It takes you less than 1/3, which is suspected of contempt and contempt. You/kloc-look at others 0/00% of the time, which shows that you have a crush on him. Under what circumstances should I see him? Show your understanding, support, recognition, approval and attention. For example, you told me, you said Mr. Liang, the question you just talked about is too important. At this time, when you look at me, your eyes can be vivid and your eyes can be distracted. So when we pay attention to expressions in interpersonal communication, you should pay attention to your eyes.
4) Gestures should be natural and moderate, with soft curves, slow movements, moderate strength, swinging from side to side, and should not be too wide;
The conversation posture is mainly standing posture, which is natural and cordial. Put your hand on your abdomen when you talk, and put your hand on your abdomen when you listen. Put your hands on your legs when you sit down and talk.
For children, you can sit, squat and cuddle, and try to keep the corresponding height with the conversation party.
5. Language requires civilized language:
1. Please use:
Take the initiative to ask hello, who are you looking for? what can I do for you? Can I help you?
Sorry, I'm not sure about it. I can ask for you.
2. For colleagues: when you go to work in kindergarten, you should ask the staff in the park. Hello. Good morning? Or nod. In front of children, colleagues do not call them by their first names, but call them from the perspective of children: Teacher X, Aunt X, and the conversation does not involve other people's privacy.
3. Use polite language to children and parents.
Greetings to you! Hello, children! Hello, baby! Good morning! Wait a minute.
Please wait a moment, please bother you, please help me, and so on.
Thank you. Thank you very much. Wait.
Sorry, sorry, sorry, please forgive me, and so on.
Goodbye, see you tomorrow, see you later, and so on.
Tolerance is ok, you're welcome, it should be, and so on.
6, clothing requirements:
1), you need to abide by the three-color principle. What is the three-color principle? As I said just now, there are no more than three colors in the whole body. The third is overexposure. First, don't show your chest. Second, don't show your shoulders. To put it bluntly, you don't wear sleeveless clothes. You can't wear sleeveless clothes to work, because sleeveless clothes will show armpit hair and maybe a circle of underwear. If a teacher doesn't pay attention, I will say hello to you, a bunch of bright ones.
Underarm hair, swaying in the wind, not formal enough. Do not expose the chest, shoulders, waist and back. Fourth, don't be too perspective. Pay attention to important occasions, underwear can not be seen through the coat, what color, what style, whether it is long or short, and whether there are patterns, which is very impolite. Fifth, it is too short. Skirts must be knee-length or below. In the international community, especially in western countries, black leather skirt is regarded as a kind of clothing in a special industry. Princesa is used for identification. Sixth, it is too tight. Teachers are not allowed to wear six clothes, which are too messy, too bright, too exposed, too transparent, too short and too tight. This is what we call dress etiquette.
2) Don't wear ornaments that distract students' attention. Female teachers do not wear long and thick necklaces, bracelets and earrings, and no more than one bracelet. Don't dress yourself up as a tree
7, conversation etiquette:
In daily communication and work, everyone talks with others. Generally speaking, we should pay attention to the following five points, which are called five don't talk. This is actually an attitude problem. First, don't scold others. Second, don't be cynical. Third, don't correct each other. Fourth, don't question others casually. Fifth, don't just supplement others.
There are three main points about the form of conversation. First, civilized conversation. Second, speak politely. Third, speak in a standardized way.