It is difficult to last long if the affection is too deep.
Too strong and easily insulted.
Love is deep and does not last long. Being strong is humiliating. A humble gentleman is as gentle as jade. It was given by Emperor Qianlong to his brother Chen Jialuo. It appears in Jin Yong's novel Sword, Enmity and Enmity.
Some people pointed out that the "Speaking of a gentleman and treating him as warm as jade" in "The Book of Songs" can be considered as one of the latter. The origin of the horoscope. As for the change of "Yan Nian Junzi" to "Qian Qian Junzi", it is not difficult to explain. It is quite common for literati to slightly change one or two words when using an allusion in their compositions, and sometimes even the meaning of the allusion is changed. For example, Mr. Dongpo's "golden flowers of tomorrow" are now mostly written as "golden flowers of yesterday". What's more, "a humble gentleman" has long been seen in the "Book of Changes": "A humble gentleman uses the rivers" and "A humble gentleman is humble enough to feed himself." Jin Daxia has learned a lot. He knows Yi Xue very well, and he can pick it up easily, and it is natural.
It is a matter of course that "warm as jade" should be written as "warm as jade".
In the Book of Rites, Confucius said: "A gentleman is more virtuous than jade, which is gentle and benevolent." With Jin Daxia's writing skills, this sentence alone, even if there is no "warm as jade", originally created "warm as jade". "Jade" is not unusual either. What's more, in [Ming Dynasty] Deng Zhimo's "Sa Zhenren's Dao Curse of Jujube" contains the sentence "When I see a gentleman as gentle as jade, I really love him." It can be seen that Jin Daxia is just borrowing idioms from ancient times. However, if you want to have such a profound ability to borrow kung fu, you have to study ancient and modern techniques and have extensive knowledge and memorization.
The author has little knowledge, so I have not found the source of "Strength will be humiliated, and deep love will not last long". Although I have seen what Mencius said: Benevolence brings honor, unkindness brings disgrace. But the wording that I think is closer is the sentence in "Siming Shihua" written by Xie Zhen of the Ming Dynasty: "Too clear means cold, and thin Qi will shorten your life." Could it be that this is Jin Daxia turning stone into gold and creating "Strong extreme will lead to death". What is the origin of "humiliation, deep love will last forever"? If this is really the case, then Daxia Jin can turn decay into magic, and he is truly a first-rate talent! No one can match it.
Although the word "humiliation" has multiple meanings, its original meaning here should still be "shame". Of course, the word "humiliation" here may also have the ancient meaning of "burying", but I foolishly thought that Jin Daxia would never be so difficult for so many ordinary readers.
The meaning of the four words "Strength is humiliating" should be the same as "壣壣的人也就是狠". If there is a scholar who is extremely intelligent and interprets the word "humiliation" as the word "hidden" and realizes the principle of "great sound and great sound", he might actually be a rare close friend of the great hero Jin.
There is basically no ambiguity in the word "Shou", it means long-lasting. However, if "deep love will not last long" is understood in conjunction with "extreme strength leads to humiliation", it will mean "overly deep feelings will not last long", which is not the meaning of "people with deep feelings will not live long" as ordinary people understand. .
Attachment: dictionary definition
Humiliation: shame
Humiliation, shame. ——"Shuowen"
Serve everywhere and live up to your orders. ——"The Analects of Confucius·Zilu"
When I see Xiangru, I will humiliate him. ——"Historical Records·Biographies of Lian Po and Lin Xiangru"
Humiliation: burying
Unkindness is humiliation - "Mencius"
Thousand-mile horses are always there, but bole is not always there Yes, even though there is a thousand-mile horse, it will be carelessly grown and be dead in a stall, never being called a thousand-mile horse. - "Han Yu·Ma Shuo"
Shou: long, life
Shou means long. ——"Shuowen"
Shou means life. ——"Han Feizi Xianxue"
Although the turtle lives a long life, it still has its time.
——Cao Cao's "Stepping out of Xiamen"