What if the eight characters don't match?

People often ask Tao Yunge, are husband and wife incompatible or lovers? Is there any way to solve it? This situation accounts for a large proportion of eight-character marriages, but most of them are only slightly inconsistent, and only a few are seriously inconsistent. Modern people are free in personality and less bound by traditional ideas. If they encounter differences, they will break up. Unlike in ancient times, women had no right to speak, and even if husband and wife disagreed, they could only submit to humiliation. Tao Yunge will explain the judgment method and its solution of eight-character incompatibility. The so-called eight-character is to look at the relationship between men and women. If there is an obvious relationship between the four pillars, no matter where they fall, it is not good for the man or woman's family. Both parents will consider these issues: First, they are afraid; Second, fear of children's future careers; Third, fear of grandchildren will lead to the premature death or unhappiness of the younger generation. As we all know, there are four pillars in the eight characters, and the annual column represents adolescence and also represents the grandparents' relationship of the parties; The moon column represents youth and the relationship between the parties and their parents; The Japanese Lord represents the middle-aged period, where the husband and wife palace is located, and represents the interaction between the parties and their spouses; The time column reflects the relationship between old age and children. First of all, Tao Yunge explained the traditional marriage method. Chinese zodiac marriage: Chinese zodiac marriage. This law holds that a man and a woman who punish, hurt and conflict with each other in the birth year are not suitable for marriage, but for people who live in harmony with each other. If ugliness is punished, ugly people are not suitable to marry people born in ugly years; If children don't hurt each other, children born that year should not marry people born that year; Meridians collide with each other, so children should not marry people born at noon; Yin and the sea are in harmony, and those born in Yin should marry those born in the sea. Tao believes that it is one-sided and undesirable to judge the disharmony between husband and wife only according to the punishment of the zodiac, which is easy to beat Yuanyang by mistake, which will only ruin the happiness of young people and seriously violate the meaning of marriage and the morality as a researcher of Zhouyi! Eight-character marriage: The following are the details of eight-character marriage summarized by Tao Yunge. If you can't analyze the situation according to the eight characters of both parties, please consult Tao Yunge Feng Shui. 1, if you get married in eight characters, you must analyze the eight characters of the core monument in life in detail, which is largely related to his own chart. A person with a good marriage, no matter who he marries, will not have a bad result, while a person with a bad marriage, no matter who he marries, will not have a good result. Therefore, the marriage book will first calculate the core historical sites of this person's life, including stability, extramarital affairs, child transport and so on. 2, the eight-character marriage should pay attention to the complementarity of the five elements rather than the complementarity of the gods. Traditional marriage often thinks that the two sides use the same god, but the use of god is incompatible. This is absolutely wrong. Using God is the core of the eight characters. According to the basic principle of choice, the rich should vent and the weak should help. This is mainly reflected in luck, because luck can make up for congenital deficiency, but it is not suitable for marriage or making friends. For example, one party regards God as gold. Most of the characters are short of gold, and the other side is also short of gold. Naturally, how can two people who are short of money help each other? Only those who have a strong message of gold in the eight characters can influence those who really need gold around them. This is the true principle of mutual assistance in marriage numerology. As we often say, people who lack gold should wear gold ornaments, so it will be more natural for you to bring a gold wife than to match it. According to statistics, more than half of the family divorces are caused by the lack of calm or tolerance of both parties. When considering the marriage stability coefficient of both parties, we should also consider the complementarity of their temperament, including the attitude when encountering major problems, such as one party's peach blossom is too strong, the natural stability base will be reduced when encountering straightforward and perfect people, and the stability coefficient will be appropriately improved when encountering tolerant or optimistic people. 4. Evaluation of the ability of eight-character marriage to overcome extramarital affairs, equal romantic love between smart men and smart women, equal extramarital affairs between smart men and smart women, equal divorce between smart men and smart women, and equal plain marriage between smart men and smart women. When getting married, we should consider the attitude, intelligence and talent of both parties to life, especially the happiness index, extramarital affair index and the tacit understanding between the two parties after marriage, and fully refer to the factors that determine a person's intelligence and thought, such as the success or failure of financial officials and the injury of Xianchi officials, and comprehensively calculate the level of extramarital affair index. Under the influence of modern family planning or social environment, even if the number of children is prosperous, it is difficult to regenerate seven or eight. The marriage book comprehensively calculates the success or failure of the god of food in the fate of the injured official, which can not only refer to the number of children, but also include the aspects of having children sooner or later, children's health and excellent intelligence. In the process of feng shui layout and survey for customers, the most effective way to solve the couple's eight characters is through feng shui layout. First, the bedroom of both husband and wife must be square, which can make your relationship develop more steadily and firmly, and both husband and wife will be in a state of loving each other and living in harmony. If the couple's bedroom is long and narrow or irregular, their temper will be impatient unconsciously, which will lead to constant quarrels and affect their feelings. If there are congenital defects in the apartment, you can hang a love kit of Tao Yunge on the bedside table to enhance the relationship between husband and wife and avoid the interference of irregular apartments. Second, the lighting in the room must be soft. Soft rooms can enhance the interest, but you must avoid the room being too dark. If the room is too dark, there will be more and more misunderstandings between husband and wife, which will affect the mood. There must be enough light in the room, remember that the room should not be too closed, and the window should be exposed to the sun. Third, the room hangs pictures Generally speaking, only photos of male and female hosts can be placed in the bedroom. It is best not to put photos or paintings of other men and women, or there will be signs of a third party. You can't put abstract paintings in the bedroom. I've seen people put down abstract paintings with eyes as the main body in their bedrooms, but I didn't know it would attract villains. It's like being peeped, and the main fortune is easy to decline and be easily replaced by others. Fourth, don't put the bed near the window. If there are windows in the bedroom, it will be better ventilated and make people more cheerful. However, the window actually has a symbolic meaning. Therefore, in many love stories, there are often scenes in which the protagonists pour out their feelings to each other and stay together for life. Therefore, we can't be careless about the bedroom window. First of all, try not to get close to the bedside window. Preferably a small aisle. Moreover, if the bed is facing the window, it is not good, and it is easy to be disturbed by a bad magnetic field when sleeping at night. After a long time, the relationship will gradually crack. The above is Tao Yunge's summary of the incompatibility between husband and wife, and the way to resolve it through Feng Shui. If you have any questions, please consult Taoyunge Feng Shui.