Some couples who live apart in two places may experience disharmony in their relationship and increase their chances of divorce. Although it is said that "distance brings beauty", for couples living in two places, distance brings beauty, and it may also bring about spiritual distance.
1. The relationship between husband and wife is not harmonious. The two places have been separated for too long, and their living environments are different. Gradually, even the same topics of conversation disappear. If the husband and wife have no words to talk to each other, how can they start talking about their relationship, let alone the separated people? The time is far away, sometimes even ten or twenty years.
Both husband and wife live alone. The long separation makes them feel strange to each other and even more lonely. Under such circumstances, it is easier for a third party to appear.
2. The probability of divorce increases. Same as the first one, when the relationship is so raw that it is equivalent to two strangers, and it can only end in divorce. Two-thirds of couples living apart in two places will have problems, but some choose to endure it and continue living, while others divorce directly.
Couples who live apart in two places must have their own difficulties, but most of them are due to financial reasons. Both parties have their own good jobs. Once they leave the original environment, their working and living conditions may change.
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Methods to maintain the relationship between couples living apart in two places:
1. Insist on communicating with each other on the phone every day.
For couples living apart in two places, it is very necessary to maintain a certain amount of emotional communication and phone calls every day. With the advancement of technology, today's "separated" life is easier than 30 years ago. Much easier. The young couple should contact each other every day as much as possible, preferably via video.
Sharing and sharing the difficulties, joys and other small things in life and work will increase the relationship between husband and wife, and will not gradually weaken and alienate due to separation between the two places. Occasionally, you can also write a long letter to express your feelings from a distance.
2. Understand, support and trust each other.
For long-term separation, one of the spouses will always be dissatisfied. In this case, both parties must be honest with each other and express their true thoughts. At the same time, they must understand each other and consider each other’s needs. Feel, think from others’ perspective, and learn to communicate skillfully.
Communication is the most critical factor in keeping a marriage relationship functioning properly. The more candid both parties are in communicating, the easier and more effective the communication will be. In fact, living apart in two places will also improve people's communication skills. This can make the relationship between couples who are far apart stronger.