Later, after getting married and having children, my daughter-in-law branded him a big cake when she left because she wanted to go back to her family.
His daughter-in-law put this cake around his neck and told him to eat it when he was hungry. How can this cake last for three to five days?
When the wife came home, she saw that her husband was dead, and the cake around her neck only bit the one near her neck.
Seeing such a story, we are all thinking, are there really so lazy people in this world who starve themselves to death?
In fact, in our life, there really is such a person who starves himself to death.
A child was born in an ordinary family in Henan. Because he is the only child in the family, his parents love him very much and named him Suo Yang.
Having children at home, parents are naturally very happy, and they put all their lives on Suo Yang.
Suo Yang was brought up by his parents since childhood. People of his age have learned to walk, and Suo Yang's parents still hold him in their arms.
Until Suoyang was 4 or 5 years old, other children were playing outside, and he was still in his parents' arms. Even the simple eating and dressing are helped by his parents.
In order to be with the children at any time, Suo Yang's parents put Suoyang in a bamboo basket and take him with them when they go to the market or work in the fields.
After school, Suo Yang still went to school behind his parents' backs. During school, Suo Yang never did his homework.
His teacher also said, "Suo Yang is actually very clever, but he doesn't study or do his homework at all. As long as we are strict, Suoyang will tell his parents the next day that his parents will find a school. "
From then on, the teacher didn't dare to discipline Suo Yang often. Suo Yang has no friends at school because of his parents' overindulgence.
For these, he doesn't care. Later, he felt that going to school was really boring, so he dropped out early.
With the growth of age, Suo Yang's parents still dote on him, and Suo Yang is increasingly inseparable from his parents.
Parents think there is nothing wrong with their children, but in the eyes of outsiders, Suo Yang is a "giant baby".
However, this day did not last long. Suo Yang's father died unexpectedly, leaving only their orphans and widows.
The death of my father is undoubtedly a heavy blow to this family. Their lives became very tight, and my mother supported this family by herself.
His mother felt sorry for the child without a father, and she refused to let Suo Yang do anything.
However, after living like this for a long time, Suo Yang's mother is also very tired. Sometimes when he asks Suo Yang to help her with her work, Suo Yang gets very angry and insults her mother.
When my mother saw this, she never asked Suoyang to help her with her work. After years of fatigue, Suo Yang's mother fell ill and died because no one took care of her.
Even though he lost his parents, it didn't change Suo Yang. He doesn't know anything. He hasn't washed his face and changed clothes all day. If he is hungry, he goes out to beg.
After his cousin knew his situation, he helped him find a job, but Suo Yang, who had never suffered since childhood, couldn't go out to work for a day.
He still returned home, because there was no food, he sold everything that could be sold at home, changed it into money and bought the best food.
Everything at home is sold out, so he has no money to buy rice, so he can only starve at home. Neighbors feel sorry for him, so they will give him some vegetables, rice and noodles.
When Suo Yang saw these things, he never took the initiative to do them. He let them break down.
Suo Yang is back to her original appearance. If there is really nothing to eat, he will go out begging, or eat others' leftovers in the restaurant.
The weather gets colder and colder. Suo Yang burned all the wood in the house to keep warm. Once, it snowed for several days.
His cousin was very worried about him, so he went to see Suo Yang with food and a thick quilt. When he entered the house, he didn't move when he called Suo Yang.
When he came into contact with Suo Yang, he had lost his breath and his body was stiff. Suo Yang died at the age of 23.
Suo Yang's cousin is also very helpless about this ending. He said, "He is the most handsome, intelligent and lazy of our eight cousins."
If Suo Yang was not so lazy and his parents didn't spoil him so much, he wouldn't have died young.
His deeds were also used as negative materials and made into movies.
Suo Yang's experience is not worthy of sympathy, which also warns parents not to spoil their children too much.
While caring for children, don't cultivate children's lazy thoughts, and let children become what we expect in our hearts.