If you need to rely on Feng Shui to resolve the marital crisis, it means that you still want to maintain the relationship and work hard for the best. While Feng Shui may not be able to save a marriage, at least try hard.
I once read an article by Master Nan Huaijin about Feng Shui. He said that there is a certain truth in Feng Shui. In ancient times, it was called "Kanyu Study". "Feng Shui" actually refers to the geography of China in the past. In the past, China looked at "one virtue, two fates, three feng shui, four accumulated yin virtues and five readings." The master said: "If you understand these, you should stop looking at feng shui and rely on your own efforts for everything."
Some people say that "if you believe in Feng Shui, you have it, but if you don't believe it, you don't have it." Others attribute it to "superstition." In fact, this is not the case, sometimes this thing is really evil. I know a master who will show people's houses and furniture. Once he saw a pot of cactus in the bedroom of a house and suggested that the owner move it to the balcony. The owner was confused and asked him why. He asked: You two Do you often quarrel? Carrying it on at every turn?
The master also feels that the master is a god and knows everything. Cacti may absorb formaldehyde and purify the air, but the harmonious relationship between husband and wife is more important. Moreover, plants such as pothos can also have the same effect and are safe. Prickly cactus is really not safe to put in the bedroom. After moving out of the bedroom, the couple later told others that their relationship was indeed closer than before, and they seemed to argue less.
The so-called "Feng Shui" actually means "go with the wind and flow", which means to avoid wind and water. You might as well ask a Feng Shui master to take a look and give you some suggestions for your home decoration and furnishings.
If you are already married, don't discuss the so-called "numerology incompatibility" and other feng shui issues. The important thing is how to resolve them. For example:
1. There should be no mirrors in the bedroom. It is said that people are very suspicious and do not understand each other.
2. The door cannot face the bathroom. Most of today's houses are designed uniformly by developers. If the door is really facing the bathroom, it can only be adjusted through home placement. I have actually lived in a dormitory where the bathroom is right in front of me as soon as I open the door. It looks awkward, especially if the bathroom is not closed, it feels filthy. If it were a wedding room, how could one be in a good mood?
3. If the bedroom area is too large, you can add screens and furniture. There are more than 9,000 rooms in the Forbidden City, and the emperor's bedroom is only a few dozen square meters. A bedroom that is too large will make people feel insecure and lead to a weak relationship between husband and wife. It makes sense to think about it.
4. The room should be well ventilated and bright. If the light is too dark or not ventilated, it will make people feel bad, which can be adjusted through soft furnishings such as lighting.
5. Pay attention to hygiene and organize and store things well. A neat and clean home will make people emotionally stable. Many quarrels are due to trivial matters in life. A clean and tidy home and a capable couple are usually harmonious.
Marriage requires management and the joint efforts of both parties. The "intimacy" theory of psychologists tells us: Marriage is a matter for one person, not for two people. One person cannot control and change another person. When we can become a better version of ourselves, we can make the other person change by changing ourselves, thereby achieving a more intimate and harmonious marriage relationship.
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