At the critical moment, Wang Leyan's parents firmly stated that they would not give up the fetus.
With tenacious perseverance, Chloe Wang survived and gave birth to a healthy son.
Unexpectedly, during caesarean section, Wang Leyan's brain stem bled again, resulting in paralysis of the lower body, facial deformity and blindness of the right eye.
Desperate, her husband, who once ran to Wang Leyan with flowers in his arms, filed for divorce.
Wang Leyan, who had high hopes and a happy family, suffered a double blow, and everyone thought that she would be devastated. However, like a phoenix, she embarked on a rather unexpected road.
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1982, Wang Leyan was born in an ordinary family at the foot of Huangshan Mountain in Anhui Province. Although she is in the countryside, she is interested in treating patients because her mother is a village doctor.
Due to the backward education level in rural areas, Wang Leyan studied harder and never gave up any opportunity to acquire knowledge.
After hard work, she was admitted to Xiangya Medical College of Central South University with high marks, majoring in "Neurology" and became a legend in their village.
The boring medical terms in others' eyes are lovely elves in her eyes.
Someone once asked her why she chose neurology as her major. She replied, "Because it is very difficult, someone must overcome intractable diseases such as cerebral infarction, Parkinson's disease and cerebral hemorrhage. As a young man, you should have the spirit of challenge. "
Interest and unremitting efforts made Wang Leyan stand out in medical school. Obtained Qiushi Scholarship and published more than SCI papers 10.
You know, many medical graduate students can publish seven or eight SCI in their study career, which is already top-notch.
Lei Wang
20 1 1, Wang Leyan successfully obtained the doctorate in neurology awarded by Xiangya Medical College. That year, she also gained love.
However, where to work after graduation has become a dilemma.
At that time, Wang Lei could have been admitted to a better hospital, but her boyfriend's home was in Nanchang and her work unit had been determined. In order to be closer to her boyfriend, Wang Leyan finally chose the Second Affiliated Hospital of Nantah.
In Wang Leyan's mind, family and career are equally important, and forming a beautiful family with her beloved is one of her life ideals.
Unfortunately, many people can only share joys and sorrows.
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After work, Wang Leyan was patient and meticulous with patients, kind and gentle with colleagues, and with extraordinary professionalism and good communication skills, he suddenly became the "red man" of the hospital.
Subsequently, Wang Leyan and her boyfriend entered the marriage hall. 20 13 years, they have the crystallization of love.
At this time, in Wang Leyan, both career and family have a bumper harvest, and they are well-deserved winners in life.
Lei Wang
What she doesn't know, however, is that at the age of 30, the gear of fate will turn in the other direction.
20 13 12 13, Wang Leyan, who was pregnant for four months, dragged her tired body home after a day and a night's work.
Looking at her hard-working daughter, Wang Leyan's mother was very distressed and told her to take care of herself and not be too tired. Wang Leyan comforted his mother: "I'm fine, but I can persist. Now the hospital lacks doctors and patients need me. "
However, just after saying this sentence, Wang Leyan ran to the bathroom. When she came out, her mother was frightened: Wang Leyan was pale and her face was covered with water.
Mother quickly helped Wang Leyan to the sofa. Wang Leyan said weakly, "I think something is wrong. This kind of vomiting is not like morning sickness. "
Wang Leyan's words haven't say that finish, her mouth, even her nose, began to shed a lot of liquid, also want to talk, she fainted before opening her mouth.
Soon, Wang Leyan was sent to the hospital where he worked and was diagnosed with "brain stem hemorrhage".
When Wang Leyan's mother heard this, she collapsed to the ground and cried, "A few days ago, my daughter said that she vomited more often and was often dizzy. She also said that her pupils were a little small. I should check it right away! "
But now, it is too late to say anything.
The brain stem is an important channel connecting the brain, cerebellum and spinal cord, which maintains a person's breathing and heartbeat. The mortality rate after bleeding is high. Even if you save your life, there will be many sequelae.
Seeing that Wang Leyan was completely unconscious, colleagues quickly cut her trachea, put on a ventilator and used all available drugs.
After more than ten days in the intensive care unit, Wang Leyan's vital signs have stabilized, although he has not recovered.
At this time, there is a difficult problem in front of Wang Leyan's family.
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During Wang Leyan's coma, the fetus in her stomach was still growing tenaciously, but no one could guarantee whether the fetus was healthy because of the large amount of drugs used in the rescue.
Moreover, in the follow-up treatment of Wang Leyan, if the fetus is taken into consideration, we should use drugs carefully, which will affect Wang Leyan's physical recovery.
Wang Leyan's husband thinks: Adult's business, children will talk about it later.
But Wang Leyan's parents insisted on keeping the children.
Wang Leyan's mother cried and said, "I used to be a doctor, and I know the harm of brain stem bleeding. But I also know that if this child is gone, my daughter will be very sad when she wakes up, and she may lose the confidence to live. "
In order to reassure the son-in-law, the old couple promised that if the child had problems, they would raise it.
In the end, the family finally reached an agreement and started the peak confrontation with the disease.
Because she can't swallow by herself, transfusion alone can't guarantee the nutrition of Wang Leyan and the fetus. Every two hours, her parents and husband will feed liquid food into her body through a nasal feeding tube.
Besides, we have to deal with Chloe Wang's fever from time to time.
Several times, Wang Leyan suddenly had a high fever, which once reached 40 degrees, but because she could not take medicine, she had to be put on a bed full of ice to cool down.
At this time, Wang Leyan has not fully awakened, but the discomfort of "two worlds of ice and fire" makes her constantly writhe and groan.
When parents saw their daughter like this, they were so distressed that they hid their faces and wept.
Happily, the fetus in Wang Leyan's womb seems to feel the mother's hard work and is growing up obediently, and Wang Leyan is waking up day by day.
April 20 13, Wang Leyan finally gave birth to a baby boy by caesarean section. Fortunately, this brave child is very healthy as his mother.
However, just as the whole family was immersed in the joy of the birth of a newborn, bad luck came to Wang Leyan again.
Wang Leyan's illness recurred and his brain stem bled again because of the injury and heavy pressure caused by giving birth.
Through the efforts of doctors, Wang Leyan's life was saved, but it left serious sequelae: paralysis in bed, blindness in one eye and facial distortion.
After Wang Leyan was paralyzed,
It is totally unacceptable for Wang Leyan to watch himself regain consciousness.
What depressed her most was her husband's next decision.
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In fact, during Wang Leyan's pregnancy, her husband always took care of her, talked with her and encouraged her.
However, since Wang Leyan was paralyzed in bed and his face was deformed, her husband went home less and less, and even looked after the children carelessly.
After a while, he filed for divorce on the grounds that he could not face such a wife and could not bear the burden of life.
Although the pain was beyond measure, Wang Leyan accepted her husband's request calmly, and the children, house and savings were hers.
The husband who knows that he is indefensible has repeatedly said that in addition to going out clean, he will give child support every month.
After her husband left, looking at her elderly parents and young children, Wang Leyan pinched her thigh and became more sober.
"In this world, only oneself is the most reliable. Sorrow and complaining are meaningless. I must accept the reality and face what happened to me bravely. Most importantly, I have a child. "
After that, she actively carried out rehabilitation training every day: tied to an upright frame to practice standing, lifting her arms and legs were simple movements, but every time, she was sweating with pain.
Wang Leyan and his parents.
But looking at her son's tender smiling face and parents' tireless care, she is full of infinite strength and continues to recover.
Many things happen. After constant practice and standing, a few years later, Wang Leyan sat up. He could stand up and even walk a few steps with the help of auxiliary equipment.
In recent years, Wang Leyan's son has grown from a babbling baby to a sensible little man.
He will take the initiative to help his mother push the wheelchair, choose vegetables for grandma and grandpa, and sing what he learned in kindergarten to his family.
Wang Leyan's son's name is "Philip Burkart", which was named by his grandparents. I hope he will think of Philip Burkart after drinking water, and don't forget the price his mother paid for giving birth to him.
Wang Leyan and his father.
However, Wang Leyan Wang Leyan said, "I should be very grateful to my parents for the birth of my son. If it weren't for their encouragement and persistence day after day, if they didn't try their best to save my children, I would have been gone. "
At this time, Wang Leyan, who decided to live a good life, began to think about what he could do for the society.
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When Wang Leyan first chose to be a doctor, his dream was to relieve the pain of patients. Now, although she can't work in the hospital, she still doesn't want to give up her dream.
She said: "I am physically disabled, but what I have learned is still in my mind." It is not easy for the country to train a doctor of medicine. I always feel uneasy if I don't do something for the society. "
But what should we do?
Wang Leyan thought of "online consultation".
After talking with colleagues, Wang Leyan learned that more and more patients are afraid of trouble or have no money, and hope to get a preliminary understanding of their illness through the Internet before deciding whether to go to the hospital for treatment.
However, at that time, "online consultation" was just emerging. How can we get everyone together and speak freely while asking questions?
After much consideration, Wang Leyan decided to create a forum to provide free medical consultation for elderly patients.
Because Wang Leyan can only use the finger of one right hand flexibly, she must practice typing with one finger in addition to her rehabilitation training every day, and then learn computer programming to create forums.
During this period, Wang Leyan's parents supported her unconditionally, so that she could do what she wanted without any worries. Her friends also tried their best to help her and make suggestions for her to create a forum.
After two years' efforts, the "Flower Forum" was finally formally registered on 20 16.
Wang Leyan Founding Forum
Wang Leyan's mother recalled the situation at that time and felt extremely distressed for her daughter: "Her limbs were inherently inflexible, one eye was out of focus and the other eye kept jumping. In addition, she can only type with one finger, and it takes 1 minute to type two or three words. "
The formal establishment of the forum is only the beginning, and a series of questions such as the follow-up membership review and answering questions all fall on Wang Leyan's shoulders.
Because the typing speed is too slow, the enunciation is unclear, and it can't be answered by voice, sometimes it takes Wang Leyan two hours to answer some patients' questions.
At first, the patient complained that Wang Leyan was slow to respond. Every time, Wang Leyan sincerely apologized and explained his situation to them.
As time goes by, Wang Leyan's typing speed is getting faster and faster, and she is more familiar with the operation of the forum. With a fixed time to answer patients' questions, her "fans" are also increasing.
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In the past few years, the forum has more than 6,000 permanent members.
These members, including the patients themselves, their families and some volunteers who were moved by Wang Leyan's deeds, volunteered to contribute and share the daily affairs of the forum. Wang Leyan also has a friendly name-"Dr. Lei".
With the increase of membership, Wang Leyan is busier.
Because medical technology is constantly updated, Wang Leyan has to keep learning, especially when she encounters some problems that can't be accurately judged. She always looks through all kinds of books and consults experts in this field, and only by combining various aspects can she give patients an accurate answer.
Lei Wang
Some patients call Wang Leyan a "living Buddha". When they couldn't go to the hospital, they gave a diagnosis and treatment plan and saved their lives.
There are also patients and people who come here. Seeing that Wang Leyan was so difficult, they offered consulting fees, but they were all rejected by Wang Leyan.
She said: "My original intention in establishing the forum was to provide free medical consultation services for patients in need. I can't start charging because the forum has developed, which goes against my original intention. "
Fortunately, Wang Leyan's selfless dedication touched many doctors, and more doctors joined the "Flower Forum" to provide medical consultation services for the elderly.
Wang Leyan is glad to see his forum playing an increasingly important role.
She said: "I joined the party a long time ago and always hoped to make some contributions to the country and the people. I can help others. I feel that living is meaningful and valuable. "
Besides the forum, Wang Leyan's son also made her feel proud and gratified.
Wang Leyan and his son.
This little boy named "Philip Burkart" is as motivated and caring as his mother.
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Although Wang Leyan and her family still have to face many difficulties in life, Wang Leyan feels that she is full of vitality and hope now. As she herself said, "I have survived the most difficult days, and even if there are difficulties ahead, I will definitely break through."
Yes, the road of life has flowers and applause, as well as thorns and bumps.
When we encounter difficulties, do we choose to get up and go forward and bloom the most beautiful flowers in the swamp paved by God, or do we choose to give up and waste our lives in the mire?
Wang Leyan's choice gave us the best answer.
Best wishes to Wang Leyan and Dr. Lei!