First, get married late.
In ancient times, people put forward the boundary of late marriage after the age of 28. At this age, my career is basically stable, my outlook on life and love is relatively mature, and I have experienced all setbacks. It is said that treating and choosing marriage wisely can avoid the formation of marriage disaster.
Second, find someone with a history of marriage to marry.
If there is obvious information in the eight characters that marriage is not smooth, you can find a divorced person to marry. This is a marriage for yourself, but it is a marriage for the other party. Generally speaking, this marriage can also be regarded as two marriages, so the second marriage is avoided. Objectively speaking, people who have experienced marriage setbacks will treat marriage correctly and calmly and accumulate some mature experience, thus cherishing hard-won marriage.
Third, find a person who belongs to the zodiac to get married.
People with disharmony have a high probability of divorce, but people with harmonious feelings often feel sorry for each other. Take Qi Mei as an example, the probability of divorce is very small, so it is also a good way to adjust the unhappy marriage, and it is more effective from the beginning of choosing love. Of course, the zodiac is only a general reference, and the details still depend on the eight-character marriage, but the zodiac is a relatively simple reference method, because it is impossible to ask the other person's birthday directly when interacting with others.
Fourth, find someone who has a sheep blade day in the eight characters to get married.
The reason is that the two sides are tied to each other, which may also avoid second marriage.
Fifth, adjust from the direction you like.
Every Chinese character is conducive to the preference of love and marriage. If you can find this position and "Taobao", maybe you can find a suitable marriage partner. Similarly, if the marriage is not smooth, you can also strengthen the feng shui in this direction.
Sixth, adjust the color.
Each constellation is also the favorite color of marriage and love. Color is the direct embodiment of the five elements, and color can affect people's mood and psychological state. If you can wear this favorite color when dating, you can adjust their sexy mood, enhance their feelings and increase the possibility of success. Similarly, if two people's feelings are cracked, they can also achieve pleasing effects by adjusting the space and color of clothes, which is also conducive to emotional marriage.
Seven, from the goods adjustment.
Including five-element ornaments, feng shui mascots to help people feel happy, etc. Sometimes it is found that some couples often quarrel because an item in the bedroom belongs to the owner or likes to make mistakes with the five elements. If someone is a rabbit, but sleeps in a golden phoenix bed decorated with phoenix pictures, he is often annoyed and angry. Everyone and every couple have different preferences in using the five elements, and they need to be adjusted according to different people. Therefore, it is best to adjust some items that are suitable for both parties to use the five elements and are compatible with the genus.
Eight, acquired psychological adjustment
It is often said that the essence of Wang Fu and Foucault is the personality problem in life, which leads to the way of doing things. For example, some people will always take care of each other's feelings and respect each other's ideas, but some people are self-centered, like to blame each other, criticize each other, or be skeptical about each other, or pay too much and be too patient. These are all incorrect ways to treat feelings. When such problems arise in life, we should know more about ourselves, restrain ourselves and correct our shortcomings. Although fate is generally fixed, it has a floating range. If all this is difficult, I can't do it, and I can't control it, then no one can help, and I can only be a slave to fate and be at its mercy. ?
Of course, this is just a superstition. As contemporary young people, it is natural to believe in scientific theories. So far, the most authoritative is the Oak Marriage Quality Assessment of the University of Minnesota.
His test contains more than 65,438+000 questions. From eleven aspects, such as sexual life, personality compatibility, financial management, sharing and communication, conflict resolution, marriage expectation, leisure activities, relationship between relatives and friends, role equality, religious belief and children's education, this paper analyzes the scientific reasons leading to unsatisfactory marriage. It will also provide suggestions for couples to improve the quality of marriage and reduce the risk of divorce.