To be a good stepmother, first of all, don't put on airs with your elders in front of your children, speak kindly, put yourself in the position of friends, talk as little as possible and listen to each other's demands, slowly straighten out your relationship, and don't speak ill of your children in front of your husband.
If a husband and wife talk about children, they must protect the children, persuade their husbands to be better with their children and reason with them.
If the child does something wrong, don't rush to criticize and preach, and then analyze with him after understanding the situation. Where is the mistake, we must also affirm the correct place of the child. Leave a positive image of yourself in the child's mind.
When a child is criticized by his father, don't say this and that. When they are in conflict, suppress their father's irrational words and actions. Care for children like your own mother, and pay attention to care rather than spoil.
We must pay attention to the things we should care about in our daily life, such as an umbrella in rainy days and a dress in winter. If you don't see anyone when you come back, you should take the initiative to meet and find them. Go home and say hello. Let your child truly feel your love for him.
Especially when the child is sick, when he is most vulnerable psychologically, he is particularly eager to get the care of maternal love. Your warm words and your actions of pouring water to feed medicine will be deeply rooted in the hearts of children.
At first, the child may resist and not accept your care and love. No matter what his attitude is, just stick to it. But from the bottom of your heart, you should recognize that he is your child, and everyone's heart is flesh. Nowadays, children are smarter and mature earlier. As long as they persist, they will be moved by each other.
Stepmother said it was really difficult to do, and it was not difficult to say it was not difficult. As long as you really love each other, you will certainly receive unexpected results in the future.