Is there a fate?

I believe that the person I am with is predestined fate. In fact, everyone's fate is predestined, and everyone you meet is the one you are destined to meet. Who you marry is predestined, and we don't have to look for it. Just wait carefully, and one day someone will love you more than themselves. I believe that there are some people around everyone who believe in love, long for love and spare no effort to pursue love, but love has not treated them well. Deliberate pursuit often can't get true love, but waiting quietly will make you meet true love. I have always had a strong personality. Seeing that people around me have met someone, I also want to find the love of my life. My first object is my classmate, who is as strong as me and has similar personality. I thought that two people with similar personalities and hobbies would be very happy together, but on the contrary, similar personalities have become obstacles on the emotional road. When two people are together, they often quarrel, and the contradiction is getting bigger and bigger. The second date was a colleague. He was excellent and I took the initiative to pursue it, so I always felt inferior in front of him. How long can an insecure love last? Not long after, the two broke up. After two failed relationships, she began to distrust love and stopped looking for it. But at this time, the appearance of a man completely changed her. Xiaomi is a hothead, but this boy is very quiet. No matter what happens, boys can face it calmly and even comfort Xiaomi. The care of life and the complementarity of personality make the feelings of two people warm up rapidly. Their relationship has been stable since they established their relationship. This time Xiaomi finally found his love and married the person he liked. Everyone has a different temper and personality, and their experiences are different. And these often determine who you will marry in the future. People with the same personality often can't go to the end, while people with complementary personalities can die. All this, in fact, has long been doomed. Finally with my husband. In fact, this is the fate in the dark, and now life is very happy. In fact, the so-called destiny takes a hand is based on your personality, your attitude towards life and your own efforts, so that you have a greater chance to meet a good person.

If you love yourself, you will attract people who love you; Only by respecting yourself can you live with dignity in marriage; Your own ability determines what kind of man you can meet.

As beautiful as you are, you have to rely on yourself in the future.

Who you marry is predestined, and we don't have to look for it. Just wait carefully, and one day someone will love you more than themselves. "Love is actually an extension of self-will", which deeply touched me. Numerous poets and writers have praised the greatness of love, but this sentence tells us that love is not that great, it just comes from your need to realize your will. Each of us came to this world with our own ideas and pursuits, but not all of us can realize their pursuits because of strength, vision, opportunities and other reasons. Then, when we choose the other half, we often look for someone who can help us realize our pursuit and will. In this way, there is actually a force pushing us to find the right partner. It is a false superstition to say that who you are with is not meant to be, and it may be a prediction form of the other party in love. Who you are with depends on your own efforts, opportunities, places and fate. Only when there is a feeling of tacit understanding can the other party be together, instead of feeling that the two sides will not be together. If this statement is true, it is impossible, let alone doomed not to be together.