Selected articles of inspirational radio 1
If you can't be a good person, be a better person!
I used to think that actors are a magical species. They are naturally versatile. A person who can act seems to be able to sing, dance, folk art, sketch, musical instrument, cross talk and all kinds of martial arts. Put them in any spotlight and stand still.
It was not until I heard Wang talk about his experience in learning dance that I secretly discovered that except those who were born to make us angry? Other people's children? In fact, all walks of life are more lack of talents? Stupid person? .
She said,? When I was 6 years old, I first stood in the center of the dance studio. My mother walked me through the door and gave me a bad look. The information is enormous, including? Son, you have numbed me since I was a child, but I'm going to primary school soon. I still hope you can make one last attempt and be a good girl who knows how to dance. Mom loves you. If you can't dance well, you can eat vegetarian food with your dad tonight and go to bed after watching the news broadcast. Understand?
? I see, so the footsteps are particularly heavy. The teacher taught us to turn horizontally so that all the children could follow the track. Only I turned around like a headless fly, and a dozen students in the classroom bent down with laughter. This? Laughter? Suddenly shattered my fantasy of talent. So, from the age of six, I knew that once I danced, I would hear laughter like applause. At that time, I gave up learning dance. ?
I asked her, when you took the Beijing Film Academy, didn't you want to show it in the art exam?
She is a little complacent. /kloc-admitted to Beijing Film Academy at the age of 0/7. In the presentation of the art test, it is true that most female students chose dance, ballet, national style, classicism, and even jazz and street dance. I was the only one who sang a rock song with paranoia, and I thought it was so cool at that time. Later, in the report performance of the school, the seniors danced a duet "Cradle on the Cow's Back" on the stage, and my envy ran through the whole adolescence. ?
Her words reminded me of my classmates with excellent math scores in high school. I admire them as the most profound brand in my youth. Maybe everyone has an example in his heart, who was once the person we dreamed of becoming.
I am curious. You should be able to choose your favorite life and role now. It doesn't matter if you can dance, does it?
She smiled. I can't overcome my desire for dancing. Although I have no talent, I went to the dance rehearsal hall and tried again. Haha, still no, it's harder than I thought. I kept jumping for a month, but my movements were still not standard, and my coordination was poor, so I often couldn't keep up with the rhythm. I am sure that I will never have a chance to reach the standard of a professional dancer, but I laugh with my teammates and show them in the dance company, which is the greatest happiness. ?
? I really have no talent, but I can be better. I am such a stupid and hard-working self. Even, everyone can't be an excellent person, but can be a better self. ?
This last sentence really poked me.
Our current pop culture is particularly intolerable? Stupid yourself? And then what? Excellent others? I especially don't like a person who is not very outstanding but quite happy. Since ancient times, our aesthetic orientation is:? Where there is a will, there is a way. If we cross the rubicon, 120 Qinchuan will be Chu's after all. Hard-working people live up to expectations, and 3 thousand armor can swallow Wu. ?
In our philosophy of existence, there are too many strong thinking, even in the successful thinking mode, even? Work hard? The meaning of this word has also been misinterpreted? Efforts do not mean trying to be yourself, but to surpass others, become a top strongman in a certain field, and compare with others.
So, we believe? Don't make excuses for failure, just find ways for success? 、? Nothing is impossible, only those who can't do it. , our? Work hard? The winning and losing heart and desire are too strong.
However, not everyone's ideal is to be an excellent person, and not everyone has the opportunity to be a strong person? Genius and excellent guys are always limited editions of life. Many times, we can only do our best. Einstein's third small bench, though ugly, is better than the first two. This wise man with the largest brain capacity does not have an all-round genius, but he still has shortcomings. What makes him lovely is not that he has made up for his weaknesses by riveting hard, and he has become a perfect person without pain, but that he still has a childlike innocence and wants to be a slightly better-looking small bench, which is better than the first two.
This is the true meaning of hard work.
Even the most humble morning glory has its own unique beauty when it is open. It will never become a peony that attracts everyone's attention, but it still enjoys the process of blooming.
Not everyone's dream is to live in a big house, make big money and get ahead. Many people are calmly enjoying their little happiness and being a happy ordinary person.
Those who try their best but don't shine, but don't succeed, are still worthy of applause.
One is called. Chun-Li? Horse racing, which has never won, is the idol of the Japanese.
Chun-Li first appeared at Kochi Racecourse from 1998 to 1 1, and lost every race. I have been running hard for six years, but I have never won the first place. At the end of 2003, after Chun-Li set a record of 100 losing streak, NHK TV broadcasted it on the evening news. After losing a superstar in a row, Chun-Li suddenly became a household name.
In order to give Chun-Li a taste of winning the championship, on March 22nd, 2004, Wu Feng, the most popular Japanese knight, became the rider of Chun-Li. On that day, the audience had to wait in line for two hours before they could enter the stadium and buy horse tickets and various souvenirs. Even the Prime Minister is worried about the result of the horse race.
Without any miracle, Chun-Li came to 1 1 horse, which was the failure of 106, but it didn't hurt the enthusiasm of the audience. Many people also offered to help Chun-Li make a movie, and she must make it back? The heroine? .
Why is a horse that often loses so charming?
Maybe many people see the epitome of their lives from her? Although I have been failing, I still insist on running. Win? It's skill, you know? Win? No, are you willing not to give up and strive for a better result for yourself? Is it open-minded? Work hard? The true meaning of this word.
Just like each of us, we can't be excellent others, but we can be better ourselves.
Selected articles of inspirational radio II
Ant spirit, try to climb forward.
When I was a child, I watched ants crawling on the ground. I thought it was fun at first, but then I felt thoughtful. Now it's almost the age of no doubt, so I just sit around and pick out that scene to ponder, and suddenly I have the nerve? Looking back suddenly, that person was in the dim light? General understanding. Although it is not elegant, write down the right side as a mark of the passage of time.
If people are compared to ants, no, I mean, if people compare themselves to ants, then people living in the world are like ants crawling on the beach. What is the end of the sand? No one can answer. If you have to say it, it's the grave.
Life is the distance between life and death.
Ants never care what will happen ahead. It just crawled forward with its head down, carefully and carefully, leaving a string of neat or askew marks on the sand. When people see this trace, they will say, an ant crawled over. This should be regarded as the value of ant life.
Is anybody there? Why do you have to make sure that there must be a garden in front of you, where birds are singing, smoking, flowers are green, people are applauding and cheering, and then you spend some effort to climb there? For these people, where they finally climb is undoubtedly the standard to judge whether life is valuable or not. Not many people pay attention to the footprints and traces left behind.
People living in the world should do their part and climb forward like ants. Along the way, you will naturally leave a string of footprints behind you. This is the true value of life. Otherwise, people only deserve to stay where they are. No one can guarantee that there will be a garden ahead.
Then compare people to ants. When an ant just climbed out of the hole, it was very free and easy. It crawled all the way, saw a grain of rice, picked it up and put it on its back; When you meet a leaf, pick it up and carry it on your back; When you touch a grass stalk, you still pick it up and carry it on your back.
In people's dictionaries, this rice grain may be a position, a title; That leaf may be the reputation of a family; What about straw stalks and pebbles? It may be a lot of money or an opportunity to study abroad.
Or ask, can there be ants with nothing on their backs?
There really isn't, and there can't be. However, it is one thing to take it with you, but it is another thing to take it with you. Legend has it that two monks rushed to the river and were caught in a heavy rain. A woman was soaking wet and shivering by the river. Monk Jia picked her up flat and waded across the river. Monk b has been worried about this. Staying in a hotel at night, he finally couldn't help it and asked. Buddy, Buddhism forbids women. Why did you pick up that woman and have an intimate relationship with her? Monk Jia said:? I put her down a long time ago. Why are you still carrying her? The heavier your back, the more you have to put it down. To do this, there is no other way but to take those things seriously. Unfortunately, we see too much on our backs, more in our hearts and more on our backs. To make matters worse, I have never carried it on my back. Seeing other ants carrying it, I blushed and felt hot, and my heart suddenly got ten points on my back!
When you unload those things from your heart, people will be more relaxed, refreshed, leisurely, free and relaxed.
Comparing people to ants is neither contempt nor inferiority. Instead, it is a compliment to people.
Ants just live according to their duties. It is industrious, industrious, tenacious and thrifty. It never makes a declaration, nor is it self-righteous. It raised two tentacles as a flag to show off.
Is anybody there? There are so many living people like ants in the world, we want to build a monument for them, just write four words: ant spirit.
Inspirational Radio 3 Selected Articles
Find yourself before being yourself.
When I was a little girl, I always dreamed of growing up quickly. I remember when I was in primary school, I often hoped that I would become an adult when I woke up, and I could make my own decisions and do whatever I wanted, without being restricted by adults everywhere.
When I was in college, this idea suddenly changed dramatically. I don't want to enter the adult world when I grow up. At that time, I felt at a loss about life. I didn't know what I really wanted to do, let alone my future. Even if I study my favorite painting and art, it doesn't mean that I have no uncertainty about life.
So after graduating from college, because I can't see the future, I naturally go to graduate school and continue to study at school. Unexpectedly, after I got my master's degree, I still didn't find the answer, and I still felt very uneasy about the future.
But this is a necessary process, and many people will encounter the problem of self-identity. Are you online? Be yourself? Do you have to do it before? Find yourself? In this process, there may be lonely times, in addition to the confusion about the future, and sometimes even dissatisfied with their appearance.
At this time, the fastest way to start is of course to explore and transform the appearance. When I was young, I used myself as an experiment. I have long hair and short hair. Sometimes I blow-dry my hair, and I have burned it black and straight; I have worn very elegant clothes and made very masculine dresses. I have applied black nail polish and even green lipstick. These completely different clothes and external images are actually a kind of catharsis when I can't find an exit in the process of finding myself.
When a person's appearance can have such a huge gap, it actually shows how strong his inner hesitation and loss are.
From college until I was 30 years old, I told fortune everywhere like a headless fly, because I didn't know what I wanted, what I could do and where I should go in the future. All forms of divination, from bird divination, turtle divination, eight-character divination and purple divination to constellation and tarot, are a combination of Chinese and western, regardless of sects, from fortune tellers who set up stalls on the roadside to numerology masters who serve retired generals. As long as I know, I will try to find the answer at home, hoping to guide me to a bright road.
I also held several solo exhibitions, but in the end I didn't even sell a painting. So all kinds of concerned eyes and voices around began to appear one after another. Many relatives and friends came to whisper to my parents privately: You have spent so much money and time to train this daughter, but can she really make a living by painting? What will you do for a living in the future if this goes on? Often asked by parents to be speechless. On the one hand, they are secretly worried, on the other hand, they feel disgraced.
In fact, how can an artist's achievement be decided by several solo exhibitions or selling several paintings? The concern of those relatives and friends was actually quite stressful for me at that time, but I couldn't swallow it back. You know nothing about art! ?
When I think hard about where the future is, I am also overwhelmed by one blind date invitation after another. At that time, the phone at home kept ringing every day, and a lot of people rushed to introduce me to someone. My parents were also very happy to see it. I hope I can find a good man to marry before I am 30, otherwise it will be too late.
I obediently joined one fraternity after another and was highly recommended by distant relatives and neighbors, but my parents never asked me what kind of boys I liked from beginning to end, but arranged for me according to their expectations. For example, if I study for a master's degree, I have to find a boy with equivalent academic ability. Otherwise, my family background is better than ours, and at least my life can be very good.
As you can imagine, I ended up with these blind dates because none of them are my type. When I was in my thirties, these phone calls for arranging blind dates suddenly stopped. Everyone laughed and said that the Qu family had a 30-year-old daughter who was not married, as if my taste appreciation period had passed and I was kicked out of the marriage matchmaking market overnight. Although it sounds a little sad, I feel relieved, and the pressure of being urged to get married disappears instantly, hahaha! I can finally start my own life.
Confucius said:? Stand at thirty. ? When I entered the age of thirty, it seemed that I really began to be independent. For me, the age of 30 to 40 is a period of struggle in life; I feel that 30 is really close to 40. At that time, I suddenly had a sense of crisis. I feel that if I can't grasp the next decade, my life seems to be really over.
It seems that time is up, and I begin to enter another stage of my journey, thinking: who am I, why am I here, and where is my future? I ask myself these questions that I can't find the answer at the moment. To this day, I am still piecing together my own appearance.
Sometimes I see myself on TV and suddenly find out: Oh! So I am like this! ? Sometimes when I see myself in the eyes of students, I realize: Oh! So that's what I am! ? At this stage of middle age, people can also explore their own faces and different possibilities. It's really a super happy thing, and it won't be terrible because of age!
I admit that I am a late bloomer, both physically and psychologically. I started my first job at the age of 32, much later than the average person.
When I was twenty-five, I graduated from Columbia University with a master's degree. Almost all my classmates entered the society and started working at that time. By the age of thirty-two, many people have achieved a little. Some people work in banks, some in the media and some in foreign companies. They all look so glamorous, and everyone's life sounds colorful. When my friends talk about me, they will say that Jiarui Qu is an artist, so he can't be treated by ordinary standards. It's just that it doesn't sound good in my ears at all.
During that time, I was full of resentment and dissatisfaction with the world, but I was just cynical. I have never reflected on why my life has not improved. I feel that the world owes me too much and is unfair to me. I am so talented, but no one has seen me. I hate it when I think about it.
But I am lucky. I knew that I like painting since I was a child, and I was able to combine my interest with my work. In those days full of resentment and anger, I have an interest that can accompany me and express my emotions through constant painting. This process of self-exploration gave me self-confidence, made me identify with myself, and helped me find the answer to my life.
Even if you can't combine your major with your interest, you can still find one or two things you like, try your best to devote yourself to them, and even reach the professional level.
If you like singing, you must enjoy singing; If you like dancing, you should dance as much as you like. Persistence in learning makes interest not only a matter of killing time in spare time, but also a way to accompany us and even discover ourselves in a deeper level, which becomes another specialty of our own.
How long does it take to find yourself? Actually, not necessarily. I even think that people have been exploring themselves all their lives. We are like a rich treasure. If we keep digging, you will see a lot of ourselves. So I have such potential! So I can do such a thing! So there is no end to finding yourself, but you must start from the process to get it? Did you find it? The fun of.
The above are three selected inspirational radio articles that I carefully sorted out and recommended to you. I hope you like them.