What are the Hakka customs of "playing house"?

There are several customs for Hakka people to go through the house: selling well, obeying the rules, really going through the house (heir), going through the house (adoption) and setting up a second house. \x0d\ 1, symbolic (behave well) \x0d\ Some children are sick or often cry after birth, and some people think that their families are not rich enough (little surname). Some people have good feng shui when they have sex, but they feel that life is hard when they are born, so they have to have sex with their parents. Some children are born elves, lively and lovely, and the other party asks to play at home. The main purpose of symbolic communication is to make children grow up healthily. Symbolic children who walk through the house call their adoptive parents godparents. \x0d\ Biological parents should choose a good day to bring their children, three animals (pigs, chickens and fish) and fruits; Evergreen grass, cypress leaves, and a 9-foot-long cloth belt (meaning long life and grandchildren) are pasted with red paper and worshipped at the godmother's house. Take the children home after dinner; Godfather and godmother will give the adopted child a pair of chopsticks, a bowl of rice, the child's shirt and trousers. \x0d\ Symbolic communication is very casual. Both parties can communicate frequently if they are happy with each other, but they can forget if they are unhappy at any time. \x0d\2。 Real sexual intercourse (heir) \x0d\ Real sexual intercourse usually takes place within the clan and between brothers, uncles, relatives and friends. In the past, some people only had girls and no boys. In order to inherit the family incense and property, some people wear hemp clothes to mourn after death. The real passing of a house means that one of the brothers, uncles, relatives and friends who have two or three boys agrees to give one of them to a family without a boy after consultation, and the family that accepts the boy is called Li Si. This kind of sexual intercourse is not necessarily a young son, as long as it is an unmarried man, it can be given to others. \x0d\ has a * * * * relationship. When you go to other places or neighboring villages to buy a boy (usually under 4 years old), the sold boy doesn't know his birthplace, parents and other relatives. The purpose is to prevent him from looking for relatives when he grows up and having the idea of returning to his hometown. Parents of both sides must also make it clear that the sold boy cannot have any contact after changing his surname. \x0d\3。 Entering the house (adoption) \x0d\ refers to a family that only gives birth to a daughter but not a boy. In order to inherit the incense and family business, people took care of it in their later years (that is, men lived in women's homes), and families with more brothers generally entered the home. \x0d\ Another form of entering the house is that a man dies young and his wife invites him into the house; Some of these men have to change their surnames according to their ex-husbands. \x0d\4。 Without the real adoption conditions, Ding Liangfang adopted a method called Ding Liangfang (also called semi-adoption). That is to say, if you marry two wives, the children born to each wife will belong to each room or surname (regardless of family or foreign surname). \x0d\ No matter whether you really go through the door or enter the house, you should carry out a custom ceremony, such as writing a commemorative book, paying homage to your ancestors, hosting a banquet, inviting relatives and friends and telling them.