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"There is only one action between you and your dream": Douban scored more than 8 points, and was edited by the action school.

Let's first understand the action school:

Action school originated from Liu Xiaoqi, the founder of Action School Sophia Kao, and a group of post-90s teams who love learning and sharing, and formed a youth community, calling for more young people to take action. Their sunny, upward and highly mobile characteristics quickly infected a group of high-quality young people on the Internet platform.

Nowadays, the Action School is a highly sticky pan-post-80s and post-90s learning community, with the concept of "learning, acting and sharing the list of achievements", attracting millions of young people to participate in dream practice. We mainly export high-quality international courses and excellent reading materials such as "light reading and speed reading" and "SuperWriter international writing class" to create a learning platform to help young people realize their dreams through action.

Here is a brief introduction to "There is only one action between you and your dream" compiled by the action school.

This book provides innovative ideas and methodological guidance from four aspects: learning, action, sharing and guidance. Twenty-three well-known authors, including Sophia Kao, Susan Mine, Wanfangzhong, Daniu, Classical and Akiba, set out from their practical experience to build innovative learning thinking, sort out efficient action methods, break the thinking framework, share dry goods in the workplace and improve themselves, and help you easily find an efficient path to realize your dream list.

This is a popular living method written by media activists for millions of readers to store energy in an anxious and utilitarian world, and provides a set of concise and practical books on growth learning methodology.

Learning this part mainly includes five articles in the picture. In fact, I especially recommend the six-step method of Sophia Kao's dream list:

(1) brand-new blank notebook

(2) Start writing down what you really want to do.

(3) Cross out things that you don't really want to do.

(4) Decompose your implementation logic

(5) Imagine your efforts and success for your dream.

(6) Action! Do it!

As the epic says:

(1) This is an era when content is king.

(2) Creativity will become a basic quality of human beings.

(3) People's personality is constantly released, and interest is becoming a means of making a living.

(4) Freelance occupation is on the rise.

(5) In the future, everyone is a WeChat merchant and everyone is from the media.

You can't hire any more excellent talents unless you cooperate with him.

(7) People's relationship will switch from "relationship-driven" to "interest-driven"

(8) "Quality of life" replaces "Quality of life" and becomes the first pursuit.

The action part is the part with the most articles, among which I am most inspired by six brand-new core competencies, which I can share with you to see if I have these six competencies.

(1) Sense of design: We can improve our aesthetic ability and sense of design by going to museums, art exhibitions, enjoying beautiful things and reading fashion magazines.

(2) Story power: Tell stories to deepen the other person's understanding of something or a truth. The first is to write your own story, and the second is to listen to other people's stories.

(3) Symphonic power: read more books of different majors. Every time you read a book with a different major, you will open another window to see the world.

(4) Empathy: First, get rid of narcissism. Narcissists don't want to spend any extra energy on others. The second is to be interested in others as much as possible. Finally, try to learn some communication and empathy skills, such as listening.

(5) sense of entertainment. If a person does not have the ability to play, he is often not creative, and a person who can play is often more efficient.

(6) sense of meaning. Nietzsche said, "People who know why they live can tolerate any kind of life." First of all, we should find value in ordinary work, and secondly, we should be good at finding the meaning of growth in setbacks, failures and sufferings. If we can see through this, we will not be easily defeated by suffering.

First of all, I want to send you a word:

A job that really makes us happier constantly, like a marriage that makes us happier, requires us to work very hard every day.

About career planning, autumn leaves give us a new interpretation:

(1) Young people's life planning can never keep up with the changes in reality.

(2) A person runs slowly, not because he loses at the starting line, but because he doesn't have an inner goal.

(3) Make capacity planning first, then career planning, and finally life planning.

The so-called ability planning is the skills you can use in the general direction of your career. When you are too young, don't rush to determine your career plan. But to analyze what abilities or professional knowledge you want to do in your career, and do a good job in ability planning and knowledge planning.

The biggest inspiration given to us by this part is that we should first like ourselves from the heart, then maintain a good relationship, and finally cultivate a sports hobby, so as to change ourselves.

How can I become like myself?

(1) Start with small things and be strict with yourself.

(2) Control your time

(3) Let life be self-disciplined

(4) Take part in sports and exercise more.

(5) Have a hearty meal

(6) Intimate relationship

How to establish and maintain a good relationship?

(1) Spend time together

(2) Communicate topics that both parties love to talk about.

(3) Do something for the goals of both sides.

(4) Sincere praise

(5) small gifts.

The best gift is that he can really use it, but it is a grade higher than what he usually uses, and he will not buy it at ordinary times.

Finally, cultivate a sports hobby.

For example, many people like running, and some people like playing ball. Moreover, I like swimming, and I feel particularly comfortable and energetic after swimming.