Many people don't understand Andy's rejection of Shen Mengchen as a bridesmaid, and even feel a little surprised. Why didn't Andy's answer make both sides feel unhappy? The following explanations will be understood:
First, the relationship between Andy and Shen Mengchen is relatively good, so it can be said directly:
The relationship between Andy and Shen Mengchen seems to have been very good, which has been reported in many news! If it were anyone else, it might be unpleasant because of Andy's words. If you are your good friend, it will obviously have no effect. This truth is actually very simple. If Andy and Shen Mengchen have a good relationship, they will explain the reasons in private, so Andy and Shen Mengchen are well aware of it, so there will be no unpleasant feelings. This is the power of friendship and the reason why everyone understands each other, so it's no mystery.
2. Being a bridesmaid is exquisite, so it won't be unpleasant:
According to the tradition in China, there are many exquisite things if you want to be a bridesmaid. For example, bridesmaids must generally be unmarried women, and all members of the family must have grandparents, fathers and mothers, so that girls can qualify as bridesmaids. In addition, the bridesmaid's birthdates and the bride must conform to each other and must not conflict with each other, so Andy and Shen Mengchen are likely to have problems in this respect, so they can't be bridesmaids!
Third, it is not a good thing to be a bridesmaid: everyone likes to be a bridesmaid when their friends get married, but it is not a good thing to be a bridesmaid. Because there is a legend in China about being a bridesmaid, that is, the more times you are a bridesmaid, your marriage will be very unhappy, and it is in direct proportion, so many people don't like being a bridesmaid, so there will be no unhappiness between the two sides!