Everyone’s destiny is different. Some people have a strong marriage bond, and some have a weak marriage bond. It is easier for people with a thick marriage bond to get married, but it is difficult for people with a thin marriage bond. People without a marriage bond cannot get married. . But it's not certain.
Personal behavior will affect marriage and fate. The reason why two people can get married is that their blessings are equal. Of course, this equivalence is not necessarily completely equal. Within the range, there is room for movement up and down. This is why some people have thick marriages and some have thin marriages. People with thick marriages have a relatively wide range of permission, while people with thin relationships have a relatively narrow range. Only within this range can the relationship be met. Got fate. If either party does something that harms their own blessings, it will affect the fate of the marriage, so their own behavior is very important. Married life is inherently a blessing, because we get happiness from it. Blessings are consumables, just like lifespan. Once they are consumed, they are gone. Therefore, some people will get divorced because their blessings in this aspect have been consumed. . It is for this reason that any behavior that harms the blessings of marriage before marriage will affect the marriage, such as premarital sex. If you feel pleasure during premarital sex, you will consume the blessings. The more premarital sex, the more blessings will be consumed. Many, the same thing, reading vulgar novels, CDs and books, peeking at beautiful and handsome men on the street, wearing revealing and sexy clothes, using foul language, these behaviors that can give people pleasure will consume the blessings of marriage, and of course the blessings of each thing will be consumed. It doesn’t matter. In addition, reading romantic novels and dramas will also advance your emotions and consume your blessings in marriage. Therefore, if you read too many novels, don’t blame your partner for not being romantic, because you have advanced your emotions and you are empty. . When one's own blessings are damaged too much and exceed the equivalence range of marriage, the original fate will no longer be equitable and will be broken. People in marriage are prone to divorce. Cohabiting before marriage is very damaging to a marriage. Many people think it's okay and it's a social trend, but it's actually harmful. Many people live together before marriage and have sex, and then the same two people can get married. That is because they are originally destined to have equal blessings. The blessings reduced by cohabitation before marriage are also equal, so they will still get married, but the two people will still get married. Personal blessings will be lost. If their marriage is weak, it will be difficult to maintain the marriage. But if the person you have sex with before marriage is not the one you are destined for, the loss will be great, because your blessings will be damaged, but the person you are destined for will not be damaged, it will not be easy to be reciprocal, and the fate will be easily broken. Yes, premarital sex is the most harmful to a marriage. Of course, some personal behaviors, such as masturbation, are also very harmful to a marriage. Of course, it also depends on the strength of the marriage between two people. If the marriage between two people is really strong, if two people have been married for several lifetimes, it can withstand consumption, but it will be damaged. Some two people have been married for several lifetimes, because Being too indulgent before marriage will consume all the blessings before even getting married. Therefore, premarital sex, masturbation, watching vulgar novel CDs, and spreading pornographic materials are all harmful to luck and marriage.
Of course, if your fate is damaged or broken, it can be repaired. That is to find ways to repair these lost blessings. First of all, you must control yourself in your private life. This is fundamental. You must start from Repent your past mistakes in your heart. If there is no intention of repentance in your heart, the effect of reparation will be small. There are many articles on repentance on the Internet that you can refer to. At the same time, persuade others to stay away from sexual immorality and spread more articles in this area. Helping others stay away from sexual immorality will increase your blessings accordingly. The more you help, the more you will increase. Report more pornographic websites and improve your own ideological realm. Increase your own blessings. The more blessings you have, the higher the blessings of the other half who may be combined with you. Of course, controlling yourself in private life is fundamental. Without this, it will be difficult for other things to work. If you feel that your fate is broken or if you want to get married, you can worship Guanyin Bodhisattva. Guanshiyin Bodhisattva can arrange marriage, because there are actually many people in this world who are equally blessed as us, but many of them don't have the fate to meet, so worship more Remember Avalokitesvara Bodhisattva more often. Bodhisattva will arrange such a fate. If nothing happens, just think of Avalokitesvara Bodhisattva more often. You must recite it frequently and into your heart, so that Bodhisattva can sense it. Just like us people in other places reciting our mothers, if we recite it more sincerely, our mother will feel it. The same goes for reciting the Bodhisattva. As long as you sincerely read, worship and seek, combined with regulating your own behavior, accumulating virtue and doing good deeds, you can seek it. Respect and sincerity are the most important. It does not depend on the amount of money or the amount of incense burned, but where is the expression of respect and sincerity? Of course, when worshiping the Bodhisattva, you must be respectful and have true faith to have this power. What's more, it is reflected in one's own behavior, truly abandoning evil and doing good. This is called true respect and sincerity. Many people now don't understand this truth. Just blindly worshiping Bodhisattva, burning incense and donating money, but not regulating your own behavior and not being truly respectful, so it is not very effective. Some people feel that they are spiritually enlightened, and many of them are things that are inherent in their destiny, rather than being sought.
Of course, people in marriage must also cherish these blessings and not be too indulgent or indulgent, because they are all consuming blessings. The more indulgent they are, the more they will be consumed, and those with less blessings will be more likely to end up with it. Divorce is like the promotion of sexual openness in foreign countries, but their marriages are in a mess. Now many couples in our country hate each other in their 40s. This is generally related to the openness of sexual concepts since the reform and opening up. And a marriage that treats each other as guests is the easiest to last.