It is also unscientific to blindly deny fate and its existence.
Fate exists objectively.
Destiny is the trace left by life when it travels through time and space during its existence.
Fate is a true portrayal of life.
In real life, there are indeed brilliant prophets who can predict people's past and future through their birth date, facial features and palm reading, and comment on people's good fortune and bad fortune. Therefore, people take it for granted that people's birth date, facial features and palm reading determine people's fate, so many people lament that they are ill-timed and worry that they don't have a good facial features and palm reading. This is really putting the cart before the horse. ! Yes, forecasters can infer a person's past and future by his date of birth, face and palm reading, and comment on his good or bad, but this does not mean that his date of birth, face and palm reading determine his fate. In fact, it is a person's fate that determines that he (she) must be born at this moment, and he (she) must have such a face and palm. Date of birth, face and palm reading are the inevitable products of fate. Based on this, forecasters can predict people's past and future by their date of birth, face and palm reading, and comment on people's good and bad luck.
So, what is the fate of people?
Phase is born by heart, and life is made by itself.
Everyone's fate is in their own hands.
Everyone's fate is the result of countless choices.
The shaping of a person's destiny is realized through people's ideas, judgments, choices and behaviors.
There is no secret in choosing, it depends on one's own wisdom-reason.
When you think of goodness, you get together; When you think of evil, the disaster continues.
Any person, when making any judgment and choice, will come up with many ideas in his mind, but there is only one choice in the end. He may choose a situation that he has considered carefully, or he may be inspired by a whim. During this period, there are countless cosmic information, often at critical moments, it is the unknown cosmic information that plays a decisive role, making this person make that decision (or change) his life choice.
In the universe, there is such a law or rule that anyone, anything and any time can't get rid of it, that is:
Homogeneous polymerization, same frequency resonance.
When a person makes any decision, when he thinks of goodness, it is the information and energy of the universe that can bring him happiness and peace. When he finally makes a decision, these information and energy appear in his heart (mind) in the form of inspiration, which makes this person make a lucky decision that changes his life.
When a person makes any decision, when he thinks of evil, it is the information and energy of the universe that can bring him disaster and misfortune. When he finally makes a decision, these information and energy appear in his heart (mind) in the form of inspiration, which makes this person make an unfortunate decision that changes his life.
If you have enough wisdom, then every choice you make will be correct, your destiny will be beautiful, and you will naturally get what you want and be smooth sailing;
If you lack wisdom, then every choice you make may be wrong, your fate will naturally be bad, and you will naturally have a rough life and accomplish nothing.
The first one is the last one. From the moment you choose, it is doomed that you are lucky or unlucky. If your choice is wrong, no matter how smart you are, no matter how superior you are, no matter how hard you work, you can't get rid of your unfortunate fate. If your choice is correct, then no matter how clumsy you are, no matter how difficult you encounter, as long as you persist, the god of luck will definitely come to you and the star of luck will definitely belong to you.
There is such a principle to follow when choosing, that is: take right and wrong, good and evil as the standard, and only choose right and kind.
In the universe,
No one can escape the laws of nature.
-more than a loss, insufficient income;
No one can escape the trap of nature.
-Skynet is long, but it is sparse and not leaking.
As the saying goes: self-improvement, morality;
Heaven rewards diligence; Heaven has no relatives, often with good people;
Charity is not just a celebration.
In this world,
You can only achieve yourself by achieving others,
Only by benefiting others can you benefit yourself.
The kind of person who only thinks about himself,
The kind of person who only knows selfishness >>
Question 2: Character determines fate, so what determines character? The most fundamental factor that determines fate should be the reason for the formation of personality, which is partly innate and partly created by the growth environment. For example, a child who grew up in a disharmonious family may be more sensitive and introverted. There is nothing fundamental about personality, or it may be that we haven't discovered it yet, because it is too complicated, and a person may have many kinds of personality. It may also be determined by a combination of genes.
Question 3: What factors determine a person's personality? The basic character is predestined, but the acquired environment will also affect the character. For example, the innate character is like a tree, the essence of which is a tree, but the acquired environmental care, such as fertilization and watering, can make it flourish. If it lacks nutrients, it may wither soon, but it will still be a tree and will not become a flower, because the innate nature determines its essence, and the acquired environment will only affect its prosperity without changing its essence.
Question 4: Character determines fate. True or false. Want a theory. Character determines fate. True or false. Want a theory.
Personality refers to the relatively stable psychological characteristics of personality with core significance, which is manifested in people's attitude towards reality and corresponding behavior patterns. It is a personality characteristic that is most closely related to society and contains many social moral meanings. Personality shows people's attitude towards reality and the world around them, and it is reflected in his behavior. Personality is mainly reflected in the attitude towards oneself, others and things, as well as the words and deeds adopted.
Personality leads to behavior, behavior leads to results, and results converge into fate. This shows that "character determines fate"!
Based on the understanding of China's cultural consciousness, the so-called "destiny" refers to an individual's innate resources, that is, family connections, economic environment, personal physique, talents and so on. As the common people often say, "Dragon begets dragon, phoenix begets phoenix, and rats can raise holes."
The so-called "luck" refers to the individual's mastery and application of the opportunities and resources obtained, that is, the consequences of the interaction between personal behavior and the environment encountered, as well as the operation of capturing and utilizing opportunities.
The essence of "destiny" means that individuals make maximum use of the acquired environment and resources under the premise of having innate resources, so that their lives and careers can achieve maximum progress and development, and finally realize their life ideals and goals.
Understanding "sex" (personality) from a cultural perspective refers to the individual's core consciousness and the individual's "world outlook", which mainly includes "values" and "right and wrong". "Values" play a role in measuring the value of things, and "view of right and wrong" plays a role in evaluating things with morality.
Whenever people are faced with a problem, the brain should immediately start the "values", measure the value of the "problem" from different angles such as individual, collective and society, weigh the advantages and disadvantages of the "problem" and the gains and losses of dealing with it, and seek the best way to solve the problem; On the other hand, we use the concept of right and wrong to conduct a moral review of the "problem" itself and the way to solve it, and decide our attitude towards the problem accordingly.
"Case" (format) refers to the external form of human consciousness, which is the image "endorsement" of consciousness facing the world. Although "Ge" will hide his intention under the command of consciousness, as long as people move, the truth of his intention will always be revealed.
Therefore, from the level of consciousness, "sex" is the specific content of consciousness, and "case" is the manifestation of consciousness.
It can be seen that "personality" is the master of "behavior" and has a direct causal relationship with the consequences of "behavior", while the "behavior" of personal interaction with society is guided by consciousness and exerted by "personality". So who will bear the consequences of "behavior"? As long as the source is traced, it will be implemented on the head of consciousness, and the image of consciousness facing the world is "character"! What life (fate) does and encounters is to deal with the objective world with its own subjective consciousness. Except the factor of opportunity, the rest of the journey and ending (fate) of life must be taken care of by consciousness, and the image of consciousness facing the world is "character", so "character determines fate" is obviously beyond doubt.
Question 5: People who see the essence for one second and those who can't see the essence of a thing for half their lives are naturally different fates. If we appreciate or understand this sentence literally, that is, if we can see the essence of things in a very short time, we can distinguish between true and false and help us make more accurate decisions. But in fact, who can guarantee that we can really see the essence, or do you think what you see is just an illusion that others want you to see? So, can we really see that the fate of the first kind of people is really better than that of the second kind? Not necessarily, or rarely confused, unclear is another kind of happiness. (personal opinion)
Question 6: When determines a person's fate, what makes a person's personality affect his perspective on people and the world, and form different world outlook, values and outlook on life. A person's personality characteristics will determine his communication relationship, marriage choice, living condition, career choice, success or failure of starting a business, etc. , which fundamentally determines the fate of his life. If a person is compared to a building, then his personality is its steel skeleton. People's knowledge and learning come from concrete filled in bones. The steel skeleton determines how high and strong a building can be built. Generally speaking, personality is the psychological characteristics of people's attitudes and behaviors towards people and things, such as reason, calmness, tenacity, persistence, implication and frankness.
In today's highly developed information age, the same opportunities are in front of people at the same time. People have different personalities and different attitudes towards opportunities, so some people can succeed, and some people can only pass by success.
Personality determines people's way of doing things, and also determines their own path and destiny.
Concentration is the unity of goals, actions and directions. Can such a life have no achievements?
Question 7: Major is not the main factor that determines a person's fate. The theme of the debate is to help find information.
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The ancients had a saying: If you don't sweep a house, why sweep the world? What does this mean? I simply understand it as five words: start with small things!
Although we are all adults, we are also students, and we are college students. We should look like students when we arrive at school, but some of our classmates are just too lazy to do great things.
Look at our surroundings. The school streets are littered with rubbish, and the white walls of the teaching building are marked with pens, shouts and screams after power failure, and so on. These uncivilized phenomena and uncivilized styles should not be done by our college students. Is this a big deal? No, it's no big deal, just some trivial things, but why are these trivial things repeatedly banned? Is it because these are small things? Is it because we are both college students? Is it because we are all intellectuals?
We college students who think we are sedan chairs in heaven always think we are extraordinary and noble. Actually, it's not. Anyone who makes great achievements at any time and in any country starts with small things. Didn't our great savior Chairman Mao also work as a volunteer librarian in Beijing Library when he was young? At that time, he was looked down upon and despised, and he had no position at all, but he did not feel inferior. On the contrary, he worked harder and studied harder, and later devoted himself to the revolution. Speaking of which, I think of our school's library volunteer management service. This club may be unfamiliar to some students and has a low status in the whole school. Students think that the volunteer librarian goes to the library, but in fact, he just helps clean and clean the windows. Actually, it is not like this!
Of course, our volunteer librarian can't compare with Chairman Mao's library assistant. His job is paid, eight dollars a month. Where's our volunteer manager? No salary, voluntary service for the students. Volunteer administrators go to the library to help teachers sort out books, help teachers complete the registration procedures for borrowing and returning books, and be good teachers' assistants. Volunteer administrator's work is glorious!
How can you become a software engineer if you can't even type?
How can you become a writer if you haven't even published an article?
If you can't even swim, how can you become an excellent sailor?
Everything depends on people's efforts. Not everything needs us to do, but we should work hard to do something, even small things!
I have a dream that one day, there will be no more garbage on the roadside of school!
I dream that one day, there will be no pen handwriting on the walls of the teaching building!
I dream that one day, my classmates can sweep the whole house before sweeping the world!
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I have read such a short story: In the Eastern Han Dynasty, there was a young man named Chen Fan who lived alone in one room and was filthy. Qin Xue, a friend of his father's, criticized him and asked him why he didn't dress up to meet the guests. He replied, "When a man is a man, he should clean up the world and settle down?" Qin Xue immediately retorted: "How can we sweep the world without sweeping a house?"
Come to think of it carefully, the reason why Fan Chen doesn't sweep the house is nothing more than disdain. It is valuable to be ambitious and want to "sweep the world", but I don't agree. I have to take not sweeping the house as a manifestation of "abandoning sparrows' small ambitions and soaking up the ambition of a swan"
Everything is always from small to large, as the saying goes, many a mickle makes a mickle, and we must follow certain steps and procedures. The Book of Songs? There is also a saying in "Four Wonders" in "Daya" that "the widow is punished, and the brother is at home", which means to set an example for his wife and spread it to his brother before further governing a country. Imagine a person who doesn't want to clean the house. When he sets out to do a big thing, he will inevitably ignore its initial links and basic steps, because for him, it is nothing more than cleaning the house. Therefore, this cause is as flashy as a building without a good foundation, and even an earthquake of magnitude 3 or 4 can't stand it. It is really "in jeopardy."
This reminds me of the basic problems of learning that many teachers have said. In the process of learning, we often attach importance to delving into some comprehensive and complex big problems, but unconsciously give up the in-depth understanding of basic knowledge. Now regret can't save the lost time, so we have to consolidate it from the beginning, but the impression is much lighter. This kind of thinking has made me suffer a lot, so the deeper my understanding of "sweeping the house", the more important it is.
"A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." "Opportunities only favor those who are prepared." These are >>
Question 8: Why is everyone's fate different? People are alive.
In order to experience joys and sorrows, birth and death,
To find out why people live.
In order to realize their ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values.
Live very tired and hard.
Because the society is unfair, living is very helpless.
If you are sad, you should cry. Find something to do and you won't be bored.
Because that's what life is all about
No one's life is smooth sailing.
As long as you work hard, it will be wonderful!
Be optimistic when you meet anything.
Keep a normal heart.
Just remember: if you don't give up this second, there will be a miracle in the next.
Life is doomed to fall and wait.
Look up bravely.
Sunshine is always after the storm!
Let me give you an opinion. Do you think so?
1. See the world with your heart. Not everyone in this world is going well, it's up to you to solve it yourself. For example, if you were hit while walking, others would apologize to you. Sometimes you still feel angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually worse than you. Think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day?"
If you think you are in a bad mood, don't think about it. If you are still thinking, keep yourself busy, let yourself have no leisure to think, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and don't fall in love with bed when you wake up in the morning. Get up when you should, get busy, open the window, breathe the fresh morning air, relax yourself and imagine yourself as a happy little angel. ...
Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, no interference and free movement. Take a comfortable posture, standing, sitting or lying down.
4. Move some key joints and muscles of the body. When doing it, the speed should be even and slow, and the action does not need to have a certain format. As long as you feel the joints relax and the muscles relax.
Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, and say "relax" in your mind every time you exhale.
6. Pay attention to some daily items. For example, look at a flower, a candle or anything soft and beautiful, and observe its nuances carefully. Light some spices and gently suck its fragrance.
7. Close your eyes and try to imagine some quiet and beautiful scenery, such as blue sea water, golden beach, white clouds, mountains and running water.
8. Do some favorite activities that have nothing to do with the current specific matters. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening to music and watching TV.
9. Life is easy, life is easy, but life is not easy. Don't worry, there are almost as many people in this society as you, but they all live happily. Not everyone can succeed. As long as you work hard at everything and take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter what your life is like, I believe it will be wonderful. Come on!
Finally, I wish you a happy life every day! ! !
Question 9: Who knows where I can see Liang Guang's film Love Medicine and buy a CD?
Question 10: The reason of Ji's fate determines a part and key part of Ji's fate, which is her own talent. Akashi Ji's attitude is modest and kind. She doesn't pretend to be a queen. She treats Sharla Cheung with a supercilious attitude, just right; Willing to hide in the dark and finally calm Sharla Cheung's anger; The beautiful house where my daughter lives has been decorated in a timely and elegant way, which has become the object of the harem to emulate; She is so accomplished in musical instruments that even Genji admires her ―― Mrs Akashi's talent is really extraordinary. Because of this, it is difficult to survive in a court that catches a little scandal. As the birth mother of the imperial concubine, Ms. Akashi is still respected by female officials and regarded as a person with excellent destiny and character. Elegant cultivation also enhanced her composure, and Guangyuan also commented on her: "The talent is deep and bottomless." Another part of the reason that determines Ji's fate and situation should be her obedient attitude and thought. God's will and personal wisdom can only partially protect themselves. The woman who can meet Genji should be said to have some providence, and Akashi Ji is not the only one who is smart and decent, such as Sharla Cheung. But it is no accident that Akashi lived the longest and had a relatively good ending. In Tale of Genji, the submissive character of a girl is very important, which is the main criterion to measure the quality of a girl and the final watershed of a woman's fate. In today's words, obedience was the requirement of society at that time, and it was also the requirement of men headed by Genji. Obedience is not only manifested in superficial good character; More importantly, it also includes psychological complete abandonment of self, complete conviction and satisfaction from the inside out; The latter is more important than the former. In the most popular words, obedience means that you can't have your own requirements. Sharla Cheung's jealousy, Otokoyo's worship of life and soul, his indulgence of the hazy truth and his becoming a monk are all because we can't completely give up our persistent feelings, dignity and even desires. It is difficult to suppress the grievances in their hearts. Their small demands on life were contrary to the social rules at that time, so they were disobedient and eventually unfortunate. Sharla Cheung's resistance seems gentle and euphemistic, but in fact she is the most stubborn and resolute. Her non-cooperation under Genji's great love is essentially the result of the fierce conflict between two views on love. On the contrary, people who are obedient and can completely give up on themselves will have a much better ending. In the case that the above-mentioned women died and scattered, Ji, Hua and Cai Mei survived because of thorough obedience. Akashi Ji seems to have an idea and refuses to bow easily, but because she knows how to choose, although she is extremely reluctant to choose the key step, she finally obeys Guangyuan's meaning, so that Genji can easily strike a balance between several women, saving a lot of trouble. She is smart, strong, and has the means to restrain and protect herself, which is also the price she pays, the main reason why Genji is happy and thinks she is sensible, and the important reason why she has a smooth journey. Of course, obedient people are very different. There, it is calm obedience, while Ji is painful and helpless obedience. What do you think of Akashi's obedience? Judging from the characterization, all the above characters are successful. Even in the sense of social progress, we can't expect too much of Akashi Ji, even if the flowers are scattered. Everyone can't be asked to destroy herself to achieve the so-called social progress, and it is her freedom to choose what kind of lifestyle.