The husband always wants to hide private money. In a marriage, a woman finds that her husband always wants to hide private money. Have you ever thought about why? The behavior of hiding private money means distrust of the other half. , but everything happens for a reason. It may be that when a man hides his private money, you may be too strict in your control, control the finances, and give the man too little pocket money. It may also be because the man has some use for the money and is too embarrassed to tell you. What are the reasons why my husband hides private money behind his back? Let’s analyze it in detail below.
1. The wife is usually too strict with her husband.
Generally, a man who loves his wife will give his wife financial management, turn in his salary every month, and only receive part of his pocket money. . But some women are too strict with their husbands, or even harsh, and give their husbands very little pocket money. Although this is for the good of the family, saving food and expenses to give their children a better life, this will make men feel very uncomfortable. There is no freedom, it is very shameful to have no money, and it depends on a woman’s face to buy anything, which leads to men hiding their private money.
As a wife, you should understand that it is not easy for your husband to make money. Since he leaves the money to you to manage out of love and trust for you, you should also give him enough pocket money within a reasonable range. , to meet his face and daily needs.
2. Men need money to eat with friends
As a man, some social activities and dinner parties are unavoidable, especially when you go out to eat and drink with friends, you can't always let your friends treat you. , which makes me look stingy and shameless. If the pocket money given by his wife at this time is too small and is not enough for him to pay for meals and makes him lose face in front of his friends, then he can only secretly hide some private money for backup. After all, children nowadays have pocket money when they go out, but as a grown man, he can't even afford food. This is unreasonable.
3. It is a habit of men to hide private money so that it can be easily used and withdrawn at any time
It is true that many men hide private money out of habit, so that it can be easily used and withdrawn. Judging from my wife's face, I save myself the trouble of asking my wife for money. I usually buy a pack of cigarettes and some drinks. It's very convenient if I have some private money. As a wife, you must understand your husband’s daily needs, and the money you give your husband must meet his needs for tobacco and alcohol.
4. The man is disappointed with the marriage
The man secretly hides his private money. It is also possible that he is disappointed with the marriage and his wife and does not want to directly ask his wife for money. , don’t want to communicate with the other party, hiding private money can save a lot of opportunities to talk to the other half. If a woman discovers that her husband always likes to hide private money, she should pay attention. He may have another woman outside, and he may also be disappointed in you. Your marriage may be broken. As a wife, you must actively communicate with your husband and find a way out. If something goes wrong, don't let your marriage lead to separation.
There is a reason why your husband always wants to hide his private money. As a wife, you should understand this behavior, find out the reasons why he hides his private money, and prescribe the right medicine.