In ancient times, it was the orders of parents and the words of matchmakers. Men and women can't make decisions about their own marital affairs at all, let alone fall in love freely. When men and women reach marriageable age, their families begin to look for marriage partners. It was very feudal and superstitious in ancient times. Whether two people are suitable depends entirely on the date of birth, and the eight-character combination is a match made in heaven. Lonely Chen and widowed Chen differ in birth date by two hours.
Loneliness refers to loneliness, which symbolizes that this person is only suitable for his own life, because the person born at this time is willful, which is not conducive to getting along with two people and will put the woman under considerable pressure. The parents of the woman's family will definitely not let her daughter marry when they hear that the man is such a birthday. It is obvious that they will be miserable and unhappy after marriage. Widowhood means that women born at this time are withdrawn and unwilling to communicate with others, which will bring great pressure to people and do not understand amorous feelings.
In the understanding of the ancients, midnight is the coldest time of the day, and men born at this time are a little chilly and have no masculinity. This is obviously nonsense. The climate has nothing to do with a person's personality. So do women. Noon is the hottest time of the day. Women born at this time are generally strong. To put it bluntly, it is a woman full of masculinity, referred to as a tigress. When a man marries such a daughter-in-law, he will be crushed to death by his wife, afraid of everything, and will be laughed at for being afraid of his wife.
Therefore, there is a saying that men are afraid of being alone in the middle of the night and women are afraid of being alone at noon. This statement has no scientific basis and is obviously unreasonable. Let's just listen. Don't take it seriously.