What should you pay attention to during a funeral?

Funeral

Be careful when attending a funeral

(1): People who are chronically ill, weak, or have supernatural constitutions are not suitable to attend funerals. If you have to go, you must wear red underwear, underwear, and red socks to avoid the bad luck. If you suddenly feel unwell after returning from a funeral, you should find a trustworthy master as soon as possible to remove the darkness and cleanse the body.

(2): It is not suitable to attend the funeral if the wedding period has not been completed for 100 days, the monthly period has not been completed for 100 days, and those with wounds on the body that have not healed. If you have to go, in addition to using red underwear, friends with wounds on their bodies should also tie a five-color thread or nine-color thread on the gauze wrapped around the wound to avoid bad luck.

(3): People who are about to face major exams, people who are promoted, and people who are traveling far away should not attend the funeral. If you have to go, you need to carry the Wenchang Emperor's Tips Bag or the Kuixing Token with you to avoid it.

(4): As the saying goes, "Death first is the most important thing." When attending a funeral, everything should be done with the deceased as the most important thing. No matter what the relationship with the deceased is, everyone should be respectful. Do not judge the deceased or talk about right and wrong. In order to prevent the ancestors from choosing gifts and causing evil spirits to come.

(5): When attending a funeral, if you accidentally knock or damage the funeral sacrifices, you should contact the bereaved family in time, feel repentant, apologize frankly, and try to restore the original state. Don't ignore it, to avoid collision of evil spirits in the mild case, and continuous bad luck in the serious case.

(6): When attending a funeral, especially when the body is said goodbye and consecrated at the end, it is better for those who are weak and timid to not look at it. This is the best way to avoid it.

(7): When attending a funeral, if the mourning family brings mourning relatives, if they accidentally lose or damage the mourning cloth, mourning tablet, or green gauze, they cannot be replaced, let alone deliberately lost or damaged.

(8): When attending a funeral, the bereaved family must bring their mourning cloth, mourning tablets and green gauze in order of eldest and youngest. Never bring them by mistake or mix them to avoid collision and exhalation. Evil God.

(9): When attending a funeral, especially if the bereaved family has a counting house (that is, there is a special place to collect funeral gifts), the mourning family must first take out a red envelope (over 100 is enough) and put it in the counting house. , you can start collecting record bonuses.

Avoid attending funerals that conflict with the birth date of the deceased: due to the principle of "Ziwu conflicts with each other and metal and wood oppose each other", if the deceased was born in the year of Zi, then no matter whether the deceased's relatives or close friends, all the horoscopes of the deceased will be in conflict with each other: No one born in the year can attend the funeral ceremony. In addition, pregnant women and infants are also taboo to be buried, for fear of being contaminated with ominous atmosphere.

Don’t attend funerals if the zodiac sign of the deceased is incompatible with you: At the funeral, there is usually a sign indicating which zodiac signs are incompatible with the zodiac sign of the deceased and must be avoided. Some people will put a basin of water in the mourning hall to wash the guests attending the funeral to remove the ominous atmosphere.

Don’t cry when you are buried and drop your tears on the deceased!

During the enshrinement ceremony, relatives and friends of the deceased should remain calm. It is taboo for anyone to cry at this time, otherwise the deceased will not be able to bear to leave, and his soul will not be able to ascend to heaven and will stay in the funeral home. If tears are accidentally dropped on the deceased while crying, the deceased will miss the human world and be unable to reincarnate.

Don’t be buried in July: July is regarded as the ghost month by ordinary people. At this time, the gate of ghosts in the underworld is wide open, and many ghosts are exiled to the underworld. If you bury the person in July, it may attract more ghosts to appear, which will be more harmful to the bereaved family.

Avoid cutting hair and shaving beards during mourning:

According to folk customs, during a funeral at home, relatives are not allowed to cut hair or shave beards. Most people think that this is to express extreme sadness and sorrow, so that they cannot care about modifying their appearance. Its other purpose is to ward off evil spirits, to make oneself look different from usual with a slovenly appearance, so that the undead ghosts cannot recognize them and avoid being intruded.