The "straightness" of straight men can make people very helpless and girly, which is simply a contradiction. They are synonymous with directness and directness. They never express and do things in a roundabout way, but go straight.
The straightforwardness of straight men is manifested in all aspects. First of all, the best example is that they are talking. I have a high school classmate who is a representative of straight men. A girl deliberately asked him who looked better, her or the girl next to her. The boy said that another girl looked better, and another girl comforted her to ease her embarrassment. If I ask him, he will definitely say that you look good. As a result, the boy said without thinking: no, you look good. They don't think too much, just express their truest thoughts directly.
On the other hand, in behavior, they do everything directly, even if they confess to the girl they like, it is a matter of one sentence. Although they won't think carefully about anything for girls, they will be willing to do anything they can for girls. They are more willing to contribute than those trivial things.
It is precisely because boys are too direct that they don't understand girls beating around the bush and think girls are too complicated. In fact, they don't want to spend their time on unnecessary tactfulness. They think it is incredible to be able to read a girl's mind. The direct way will make people like their thoughtlessness, but at the same time it will also make people hate their carelessness. Sometimes their directness will make people feel a little hurt, especially for a girl, which will make people feel shy or embarrassed.
What are the personality characteristics of straight men?
First, the lack of romantic sentiment that girls like. Most girls are more emotional, especially when they are in love. They all hope that their boyfriends will create some romance from time to time.
But if you are surrounded by straight boyfriends, you should give up this idea as soon as possible. Because one of the most iconic characteristics of straight men is that they don't understand amorous feelings! For example, girls say: it's so cold today! This is obviously to get closer to boys.
But the straight man just said, then go home quickly! Don't freeze. Tell me, how can such a straight man make girls like him? Second, I seldom consider the emotional intelligence of straight men from the other person's point of view. Generally, they are relatively low-key and self-centered in life. They seldom think from each other's point of view and say whatever comes to mind, especially when expressing their feelings. Not that delicate.
So the girls around me are afraid of more disappointment. For example, if a girl is a little fat, you can say: You are lucky, so cute and so on.
And straight men will say, look, the waiters next to you are thinner than you. How can a girl like someone who talks like this? Third, the tendency of male chauvinism is serious. Most straight men tend to be male chauvinist. They are not only self-centered, but also ask girls to do something. They can't refute their views.
Traditional thinking, which is why it is more painful for girls to fall in love with straight men. In particular, such people never give gifts to girls, and even if they do, they will give some gifts that make girls dissatisfied.
After Shu Jun's explanation and analysis of the characteristics of straight men, it can be seen that it is not unreasonable for girls not to like straight men.
What are the personality characteristics of straight men?
First, the lack of romantic sentiment that girls like.
Most girls are more emotional, especially when they are in love, and they all want their boyfriends to create some romance from time to time.
But if you are surrounded by straight boyfriends, you should give up this idea as soon as possible. Because one of the most iconic characteristics of straight men is that they don't understand amorous feelings!
For example, girls say: it's so cold today! This is obviously to get closer to boys.
But the straight man just said, then go home quickly! Don't freeze. Tell me, how can such a straight man make girls like him?
Second, rarely stand in each other's perspective.
The emotional intelligence of straight men is generally low, and they are more self-centered in life. They have something to say, and rarely think from each other's perspective, and say whatever comes to mind, especially when expressing their feelings.
So the girls around me are afraid of more disappointment.
For example, if a girl is a little fat, you can say: You are lucky, so cute and so on.
And straight men will say, look, the waiters next to you are thinner than you. How can a girl like someone who talks like this?
Third, male chauvinism is serious.
Most straight men tend to be male chauvinist, not only self-centered, but also ask girls what to do and can't refute their own views.
Traditional thinking, which is why it is more painful for girls to fall in love with straight men.
In particular, such people never give gifts to girls, and even if they do, they will give some gifts that make girls dissatisfied.
After Shu Jun's explanation and analysis of the characteristics of straight men, it can be seen that it is not unreasonable for girls not to like straight men.
What do straight men usually want?
If you want to know if you are straight, just look at these four performances, and you account for a few of them.
First, I don't like women wearing makeup. Straight men in love don't like women wearing makeup. Every time a woman puts on makeup, he will say that she is ugly and not as good-looking as a plain face, or that a woman's makeup is a sign of self-distrust.
This is a straight man, whose aesthetic is different from that of ordinary people, and he always feels that his aesthetic is the most normal. To sum up, in the eyes of straight men, women's makeup is a very incomprehensible behavior. He feels that makeup is very painful and redundant.
Second, I like to preach the truth and be conceited. After falling in love, a man always likes to tell his girlfriend some big stories, as if he is the only one who knows them. Moreover, this kind of man is particularly conceited and has an inexplicable sense of self-confidence.
This is what we call a straight man. This kind of person always thinks that he can do anything and that nothing can beat him, but in fact, I don't know who gave him such great courage and confidence.
Third, strong and controlling. A man shows a strong desire for control after falling in love, so this man is undoubtedly a straight man, so his bones are full of strength and hegemony.
A woman is not allowed to go against his wishes, otherwise he will be very angry. Such a man is more suitable for a spineless little woman. Because ordinary women can't stand such a strong man, men's strength and strong desire for control are the most typical manifestations of straight men.
Fourth, women are considered weak and need protection. Another manifestation of straight men is that women are weak and need to be protected.
This kind of male chauvinism is very strong. His idea is that the strong should protect the weak, and women are the weak in their eyes. This kind of man likes weak women and girls who are a little naive.
Because it can satisfy his vanity and desire for protection and make him feel that he is the one who is needed. Frankly speaking, only in this way can he reflect the value of his existence, be recognized by others and become a useful person in others' eyes.