There are three possibilities: first, you are in conflict with his fate, and if he dares to accept your money after cutting off your birthday, he will be in trouble. Second, you are rich, and you will naturally repay him if you have money. If you are not rich, taking your money is called "turning over the pot"
"This will break your wealth, and he will also break it. Third, it's impossible, because the child is short-lived and doesn't grow up, so he doesn't accept ghost money.