First of all, know your life.
Constellations are very important to everyone. In the traditional horoscope, the zodiac is only one of them, so the disagreement of the zodiac only represents one of them, and personal belonging does not play a decisive role in marriage. Analyze and understand the fate of the eight characters of both sides, see whether they are compatible or not, and choose an auspicious day. Both men and women will have a happy marriage, prosperous children and grandchildren, and high wealth throughout their lives.
Second, the bride's date of birth is the main choice.
This step is actually related to a common saying: "When a child is born, a woman marries." If this principle is reversed or ignored, it will lead to problems in married marriage. It is best to choose Ji Yue as the wedding day. It is best for the man to listen to the woman's opinions as much as possible and avoid the menstrual period on her wedding day. But at the same time, the opinions of others (especially the husband and wife) should also be taken seriously. After all, this is related to the future happiness of the family.
Third, avoid getting married in special months.
The first thing to pay attention to is to avoid March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these months coincide with Qingming, Yulan and Chonggong respectively, which are all traditional "ghost festivals" and are not suitable for joint happy events. Because Sanniang likes to fight the old moon and destroy the new, she also needs to avoid it. Sanniangsha is the 3rd, 7th, 13th, 18th, 22nd and 27th day of the lunar month. Furthermore, avoid the birthdays of both parties and their parents. If your parents have died, you should avoid jealousy and death. In addition, the sixth month of the lunar calendar is not suitable for marriage, because the bride who gets married in June is called "half-moon wife" according to traditional thinking, that is, she has no background and does not help each other. One more thing, although there is a saying in folk tradition that a year without spring is a year of widowhood, there is no need to worry. You still need to combine your own numerology to choose the right wedding date and time.