If the husband and wife can truly respect each other, be themselves as they were before marriage, do what they want, have their own work or small circle of communication, there will be more exchange topics in their common life, which will add some talk after dinner to the monotonous marriage life and make life more colorful. If we can't respect each other, interfere with each other, live the life we want, and do whatever we want depends on whether the other person is happy or not, then life will become boring and we will lose ourselves in marriage, so how can we be really happy?
Iola and Jason Wu often appear in the same program. You can see that their eyes are full of appreciation and envy. If husband and wife don't appreciate each other and can't see each other's advantages and disadvantages, they will look for each other's shortcomings everywhere in their lives. After a long time, we will never see each other's love again, which is why many married couples quarrel over trifles. If husband and wife can't appreciate each other, the family will not be happy and harmonious, and of course there will be no feeling of "matching".
Whether a couple is happy or not, in fact, it is not important whether the external conditions before marriage are "matched", but whether they can be "matched" after marriage depends on whether the husband and wife can respect and appreciate each other. If they can do these two things, that is the real "match". Their married life will be truly happy, and they will be as happy as Iola and Jason Wu.