Because Xue Baoqin has his own role! Because of her appearance, although Jia Mu and Wang Xifeng hinted that they would match her with Baoyu, they actually told Aunt Xue that I would not like Baochai even if I fell in love with Baoqin. Another effect is to finally clear Daiyu's "grievance". Everyone in the garden thought that Daiyu was jealous and petty (actually she was only like this towards Baoyu). When Shi Xiangyun insinuated that Daiyu was the one who was jealous of Baoqin, he questioned Daiyu through amber and instead clarified for Daiyu. It was only through Baoqin that the readers or I knew about it. It's not that Baoyu will like her if she's good-looking. The appearance of a better person than Baodai didn't change his feelings for Daiyu.
Daiyu and Baochai were in the Golden Ranch. Daiyu said that she was fifteen, and Baochai was eighteen. Now, they are all adults. In ancient times, it was really NTU. However, Aunt Xue and the others do not want to move away from the Jia family. They have to fight hard to maintain their good relationship. They are not afraid that Baochai will become an old girl who cannot get married! Daiyu has changed from a mean and mean person in the eyes of the servants to a truly generous and decent person, and Baochai has changed from a dignified and generous person in the eyes of the servants to a truly bitter and jealous person who cannot hide his clumsiness. The two can't be together!
Baoqin, who is not in the Poor Life Division, naturally has no share. As for the description of the ancestral temple that Baoqin saw, I have heard someone say before that Daiyu first entered the Jia Mansion through a side door. Baochai entered through the main entrance, but described the ancestral temple through what Baoqin saw, probably implying that Baoqin was the one who finally accompanied Baoyu. But this is just speculation.
Daiyu confirmed that Baoyu's heart was in Chapter 32 and overheard the conversation between Baoyu and Xiangyun Xiren. Baoyu was very disgusted and rude to Baochai and Xiangyun's words of persuading him to learn official career economics. To Baochai, he walked away, to Xiangyun, he drove straight away. Finally, he said: Lin Daiyu never said such stupid things. If she had, she would have been separated from her long ago. Lin Daiyu was surprised and happy after hearing this, and confirmed that she was a confidant. After that, Baoyu wanted to confess to her. She said that I know everything you want to say, and left without looking back. From then on, Lin Daiyu was no longer jealous or noisy.
Jia Mu comes from a noble family, and she appreciates Baoqin quite a lot. Her liking for Baoqin is due to her family background. Why am I so analytical? For example, there is Mr. Duan, a storyteller, who mentioned in this paragraph (matchmaker) as evidence that all ladies are usually served by old ladies, but there will be men having private meetings alone. Even if it is a momentary mistake, the lady loses her dignity for love. That will also get people scolded! Firstly, and secondly, if Baoyu really had the idea of ??marrying Qin, it would have been done in secret. Jia Mu knew Baodai's love for her, so speaking out would not hurt Daiyu's heart. The reason why I said it was because I wasn't afraid of Daiyu being jealous, but because I thought it was impossible for Baoqin and Baoyu to be together. Baoqin is the touchstone to test Baodai's love! Jia Mu’s strategy is so clever!
1 Asking age and horoscope seems to propose marriage for Baoyu, at least Aunt Xue thinks so in her heart, but at the same time she forces Mrs. Wang to recognize her daughter, which shows that it is impossible for brothers and sisters to get married.
2 Since Baoqin talked about asking for marriage as soon as he arrived in Jia's house, it is clear that Baochai, who has lived in Jia's house for several years, is not at all Baoyu's marriage choice.
3 Jia Mu was particularly kind to Bao Qin, giving her duck sweaters and sleeping together with her. However, when setting off firecrackers during the Lantern Festival, Jia Mu hugged Bao Qin, the Daiyu and Bao Qin sitting on her left and right. Daiyu doesn't seem to take Baoqin seriously. This is the truest expression of her heart. But after all, Jia Mu was really kind to Bao Qin. The Xue family had to reciprocate courtesy, so why not repay Jia Mu? So Aunt Xue was forced to recognize Daiyu as her daughter and marry Daiyu and Baoyu.
Are there still few such people in Dream of Red Mansions? Aren’t the characters who come with Bao Qin all such embarrassing characters? What kind of ghost is Salamander Er that suddenly appears? What does Aunt Zhao do with so many dramas? Even for Yingchun, I don't know why she is the Twelve Hairpin, she is not as good as an ordinary big girl.
Although Jia’s mother asked Baoqin’s horoscope, she did not explicitly say that she was proposing marriage to Baoyu, and as far as I can see, there was no hint at all. On the contrary, Baoqin’s arrival gave Jia’s mother the opportunity to express her support. Baoyu Daiyu's attitude, if she was determined to promise Baoyu, why did she let Mrs. Wang accept Baoqin as her goddaughter? He also used the misleading information of asking Baoqin's horoscope, implying that Baochai had not been considered at all.
In fact, it is very simple. Jia Mu liked Jia Lin at first, but later she directly turned to Jia Baoyu. Xue Baochai was more abrupt. Even Wang Xifeng has always regarded Baoyu and Daiyu. But Baoqin's sudden arrival happened when Baoyu and others were growing up and began to involve men and women in love affairs. The old lady liked him immediately, and several people made do with it. Then she clicked directly. She had promised someone, which was to pave the way for Baochai to finally ascend to the throne. Otherwise, why wasn't he attracted to Xing Yanyan? Xue Baochai and Baoqin are just the foreshadowing.
Xue Baoqin's appearance came during the most intense struggle with the decision-makers over whether Baoyu should marry Bao or Dai. A daughter who is better than Xue Baochai still cannot fall into Jia's eyes. It can be seen that Baodai's love does not require you to be very good to become a lover.
Concerning Baoqin’s fate, some scholars said that she was of extraordinary beauty, but she was not among the Twelve Hairpins of Jinling because all the twelve hairpins belonged to the “Unlucky Division”, and Baoqin was not a beauty but was not lucky. Therefore, it is not among the twelve hairpins. So, where does the beautiful Baoqin go? Clues can be seen in the nostalgic poem she wrote, "Not by the plum blossoms, but by the willows". She did not marry the snobbish Mei Hanlin family, but married the "cold-faced gentleman" Liu Xianglian. If that were the case, the talented man and the beautiful woman would be considered a happy couple in the Red Mansion.