Ji Xiaolan's sixth nephew and his servant's son were born in the same year, the same month, the same day, the same time and the same room. Supposedly, their fates should be similar, but in fact they are quite different. Ji Xiaolan's nephew was only 16 years old, but he died before he was an adult. But the servant's son is still alive and kicking, full of vitality.
Ji Xiaolan was puzzled by this. He studied the reason carefully and came to the conclusion that "it may have something to do with destiny takes a hand's food." . The amount of food a person can enjoy in his life is doomed from the moment he is born. My nephew and the servant's son were born at the same time, so they eat the same food. But my nephew died young because he grew up in a rich family, was pampered since childhood, was well dressed, and ate all his life early. The servant's son was born in poverty and has been living a simple life. His appetite is very limited, so he can still live healthily. "
I remember what Master Hongyi said. When he was a child, it hung in his hall.
Liu couplet in Qing dynasty: cherish food and clothing, not for wealth (the second half sentence is
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My brother often teaches him to read this sentence. When he learns, he will keep it in mind. When it comes to dressing or eating, he will pay great attention to it, even if it is a grain of rice, he will not dare to spoil it at will. His mother often taught him that the clothes he wore at that time should be careful, and there should be no damage and pollution. Because his mother and brother were afraid that he would not cherish food and clothing and die short-lived, he often told them this.
Many people think that living conditions are good now, and it doesn't matter to waste something. Actually, it's very important. That is the blessing in your life, and the consequence of losing the blessing is the loss of life.
I also read an article saying that some parents now give gifts to their teachers in order to make their children monitor, which actually consumes their children's blessings in advance. The child could have been a director in the future, but he used the blessing in advance, so he can't be a director in the future. Many parents claim to be smart, but they are always mistaken by cleverness.
Fate can be changed. Some people can gradually turn a bad life into a good life, while others have an infinite life and end up in prison halfway. Blaming fortune tellers for being inaccurate is actually the result of what they have done to change their lives.
Yuewei Caotang Notes is a very interesting book, and the Four Commandments of Leaving Fan is the instruction that Mr. Wang wrote to his son. It's short, but it can change his fate. I recommend you to read it.