Ring: engagement rings are generally needed, and couples should choose the right ring.
Candy: This refers to the broad sense. There are several good candy brands: Alpine, Yake, Xu Fuji, Shanghai Woo Woo and so on. In the middle or at the beginning of the banquet, candy should be distributed to everyone according to the standard of two bags for one person.
Cigarettes: generally go to relatives' homes, and each household needs two packs of cigarettes. There are also two set meals for one person at the banquet, reflecting the yes-man. For the wedding banquet, since many of them are given away for free now, one person will get a bag, because you won't smoke when you sign in. If the cigarette is red and there are seven wolves with hard shells, one person can get two packs of hard-shell Chinese. Cigarettes, bought in large quantities, are also going to wholesale tobacco hotels. Shop around, the price will still be different, but you should prevent buying fake cigarettes.
Bridal price: Generally, this link should be completed at the time of engagement, or half at the time of engagement and half at the time of marriage. Now the bride price is mainly a ceremony, not as the content of buying and selling marriage as in previous years. In the past, 33,000 people were popular in Chengguan, but now many towns and villages are above100,000. The bride price needs to be given to the woman's home through the hand of the matchmaker or in front of the matchmaker. The reason why such a ceremony is needed is to reflect the words of the matchmaker. At present, some newcomers use passbooks, but most of them still use cash, and sometimes they will put gold ornaments (gold necklaces, earrings, bracelets, gold nuggets, other heirlooms, etc.). ) or a gift equivalent to the value of gold objects.
Press the table: it is synonymous with paying the woman to buy a banquet. Now some enlightened people don't charge for watches. Generally, according to the approximate number of tables required, an approximate amount is paid in advance, such as 5000 or 7000 yuan.
Invitations: invitations are generally not issued unless there are many people invited or they want to be formal. If the range of people invited to the engagement wine is within the range of relatives, there is no need to send invitations, just inform everyone one week in advance.
Banquet: Generally, you should make a reservation in the hotel a few days in advance (the wedding banquet will be booked several months in advance, otherwise it may not be booked). Pay some deposit first, and you can talk to the manager about the number of tables, rooms, halls, tables and chairs, air conditioners, vegetables and drinks, and feel the performance of air conditioners in advance. Besides, when entertaining relatives living in the countryside, we must ensure that we have enough food. If we have lobster shark's fin and they are not full, we won't make it well.