Tang Jinggang was very sad during his divorce. She couldn't understand why she confided in him and he treated himself like this.
Sometimes Tang Jing thinks that if he is indifferent to him, won't he be separated?
Two years later, Wang Xinjun and Amanda joined hands to get married. They live a full and happy life, but who knows the hardships of Tang Jing?
Tang Jing not only has to endure his inner grief, but also has to raise his young son alone.
Now she and Wang Xinjun have been divorced 13 years. How is she now? Have you found your own happiness?
1969 Tang Jing was born in Nanjing, Jiangsu. Her parents are both intellectuals. Under the influence of family environment, she loved literature since childhood.
Tang Jing's parents are also very strict with her and attach great importance to cultivating her artistic cells.
When Tang Jing was five years old, she entered Nanjing Little Red Flower Art Troupe to study. She has classes during the day and sings and dances at night. She seems to be a little busier than her parents.
Later, due to work reasons, Tang Jing's parents sent Tang Jing to live in an art troupe. Tang Jing didn't cry when he left his parents, but devoted himself to his studies.
It took about 10 years from joining the art troupe to attending middle school. Tang Jing never enjoyed the time of coquetry with her parents, which also honed her indomitable character and spirit.
Of course, Tang Jing can be naughty sometimes. On one occasion, Tang Jing went out to perform with the art troupe, and the stage was set, and the performance was about to begin. But Tang Jing cried and didn't want to perform. It was not until her mother came that she stopped crying and skipped on stage to perform.
As a minor, Tang Jing was admitted to the front-line drama troupe of Nanjing Military Region. At that time, Tang Jing had grown up and was beautiful. Her big eyes added some beauty to her.
Tang Jing, who just joined the League, was warmly welcomed by everyone. Her careless personality also made her gain many good friends, among whom Hou Yong and Fan Ming were one.
She is good at singing and dancing. Soon after joining the band, she took part in the music personal activities organized by the band. This musical has achieved excellent results and made her a "small group pet" in the group.
It is said that Fan Ming had a crush on Tang Jing at that time, but she just felt that she was not worthy of Tang Jing, and she never dared to express her feelings until they reached middle age.
199 1 year, Tang Jing performed well with outstanding achievements and was assigned to the air administration theater.
Tang Jing made a large group of like-minded friends, such as Sha Yi, Yan Ni and Hong Jiantao. , in the air administration drama troupe. At that time, they were the same age and had many common topics, so their relationship was particularly close.
They often went out to perform together at that time. Because of the limited conditions, most days, they sleep in the same bed, which enhances their feelings and is better than their relatives.
When Tang Jing was in the Air Administration Theatre, she appeared in many TV series, each of which was a classic, especially the TV series Ruonan and Her Daughters, which made Tang Jing famous and became a goddess in the hearts of countless people.
Time flies, Tang Jing is almost 30 years old, but her feelings are blank, which makes her parents and friends around her very anxious. They set Tang Jing up one after another, but none of them satisfied her.
Just when Tang Jing thought it would take him a long time to meet the right person, love came inadvertently.
1997, Tang Jing was invited to take part in the filming of the TV series Song of Youth, where she met the young actor Wang Xinjun, and they fell in love because of the play.
At that time, Tang Jing was already a well-known actress, and her TV series "Mountain does not turn to water" and "Romantic Tang Bohu" were also widely loved by the public.
What about Wang Xinjun?
He was born in 197 1, younger than Tang Jing, and his experience was not as wonderful as that of Tang Jing. He used to be a member of Gansu Opera Troupe. In order to develop to a higher level, he tried to enter the Beijing Film Academy, and it was his progress that attracted Tang Jing.
When they fell in love, he had just graduated from Beijing Film Academy and was just a newcomer in the entertainment circle. He is not famous, and it is appropriate to describe him with an unknown name.
The main reason was that Wang Xinjun was drifting north at that time, and there were "three no boys", so there was no house, no car and no deposit. Fortunately, Tang Jing doesn't value these things, so they can go on.
Faced with this relationship, Tang Jing's parents naturally disagreed. After all, parents want their children to have a better life, but the stubborn Tang Jing doesn't care about these things and wants to marry Wang Xinjun.
Looking at her stubborn daughter, Tang Jing's parents can only agree that they entered the marriage hall on 1999, when the wedding room was arranged by the unit in Tang Jing.
After marriage, their careers began to rise step by step. Although each has its own merits, it is still good overall.
In 200 1 year, Tang Jing also appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Evening, starring in the sketch "Say Sorry", which made her career to the next level.
If she works hard at this time, she will definitely be among the first-line female stars. However, Tang Jing chose to return to her family.
In 2002, he gave birth to a big fat boy for Tang Xinjun. Tang Jing, who had children, couldn't help but rest at home for a while and began to take care of the children while filming.
Three years later, she starred in the emotional drama "Taking the Wrong Bus" and successfully transformed into a powerful actress with her precise grasp of the role.
Later, she made a guest appearance as Hu Shiniang in The Legend of Wulin. In the play, she vividly expresses the characters' personalities with funny dialects, and a song "Du Shiniang makes noodle soup for you" has become a classic in people's minds, which also subverts people's stereotype of her.
With the help of Tang Jing, Wang Xinjun made great progress and soon became the pillar of the family.
When two people just got married, in order to make Wang Xinjun have a good development, Tang Jing helped him to find a relationship everywhere, which finally made Wang Xinjun stand out in the work "The Yellow River is lovelorn".
With Wang Xinjun's masterpiece "Strike while the Iron is Hot", he has shot many works in succession, and he is also famous in the entertainment circle. Tang Jing can be said to have made great contributions in this process, and even exaggerated to say:
Without Tang Jing, there would be no Wang Xinjun today.
In 2005, with the help of Tang Jing, Wang Xinjun joined the Air Administration Theatre.
However, with the continuous development of Wang Xinjun's career, two people are often together and often separated, and Wang Xinjun doesn't care much about his son's growth, which makes Tang Jing have a lot of complaints about Wang Xinjun.
Wang Xinjun also has some antipathy to Tang Jing, mainly because Tang Jing's strong personality made him suffer a lot in this marriage, because a small incident completely broke out the contradiction between them.
In order to avoid Tang Jing, Wang Xinjun began not to go home all day, and even went back to see his son only during the Spring Festival. As time went on, the relationship finally broke down.
In 2009, Wang Xinjun and Tang Jing agreed to divorce. In order to take care of their 7-year-old son, the two discussed the confidentiality of divorce.
Divorce has done great harm to Tang Jing. She couldn't figure out why the relationship of 10 years ended in such a hurry. During the day, she smiles in front of people, and at night, she licks the wound alone in the dark corner.
Looking at such a decadent Tang Jing, her friends couldn't sit still, and Fan Ming even took his wife to her house to have a long talk with her.
Fan Ming's wife used to be a magazine editor, so Fan Ming talked to her about cosmetics and other topics, and asked Tang Jing to change herself from her appearance and help her get out of her pain step by step.
During that time, Tang Jing had no energy to take care of his son, and Fan Ming also asked his daughter to play with Tang Jing's son, trying to make the child grow up healthily.
In 20 12, Wang Xinjun and Amanda remarried, and Tang Jing also announced the news of her marriage with Wang Xinjun on the internet, which also stirred up a thousand waves, and people talked about it in succession.
She told her son, "Although your father and I are separated, we love you at all." .
Although Tang Jing hated Wang Xinjun very much, she never spoke ill of Wang Xinjun in front of her son. Instead, she advised her son to be filial to him.
Wang Xinjun also knew that he felt guilty about his son, so even if he remarried, he didn't reduce his love for his son, and Amanda took good care of Tang Jing's son. After all, he loves me and my dog.
In order to make his son grow up healthily, Tang Jing buried his sadness in his heart and showed his strongest optimism to his son.
Tang Jing often teaches her children to be a responsible person, so she will let her son do as much housework as possible. Sometimes when she is busy at work, she will let her son go to school alone.
Thanks to Tang Jing's efforts, his son gradually got rid of the influence of his parents' divorce and became sunny, optimistic, cheerful, strong-willed and excellent in academic performance, which made Tang Jing feel gratified.
Divorce brought Tang Jing not only psychological changes, but also career changes.
Her age was there, and she continued to be an actress without any achievements, so she turned her attention to the producer.
Being a producer needs to face many difficulties. Although many male producers feel a little overwhelmed, Tang Jing can cope with everything easily.
20 16, Tang Jing became the producer of the film Operation Red Sea. At the beginning of filming, he had to face many problems. Tang Jing is often busy late at night.
Sometimes, when my son wakes up in the middle of the night and sees busy Tang Jing, he will give her a cup of hot milk and persuade her to have a rest. Sometimes Tang Jing doesn't rest in order to catch up with the progress, and his son will accompany her until she finishes her work.
Seeing 14-year-old son so sensible, Tang Jing burst into tears, which made her feel that all her efforts were worth it.
In order to make the Red Sea operation achieve good results, Tang Jing's contribution goes far beyond this.
Because many locations in the film are in Africa, and some explosion scenes are made of real shells, Tang's heart is broken. However, accidents always happen, and Zhang Yi was injured by flying debris.
And because of the high temperature near the desert, the supply of vegetables for the crew was once in short supply. In order to solve this problem, Tang Jing took the actors to grow vegetables together, which solved the problem.
It was not until the filming of Operation Red Sea was completed that Tang was completely relieved and finally had a good sleep.
Many things happen. 20 18, the red sea operation is like a dark horse, with remarkable achievements. Not only won a lot of awards, but also the box office reached 3655438+ billion, knowing that its production cost was only 500 million.
There is no doubt that Tang Jing has achieved great success on the road to becoming a producer. She has also been sought after by many men, but Tang Jing politely refused.
In Tang Jing's view, a new relationship is bound to split her love for her son, so she has never chosen to remarry.
Now Tang Jing's son is 20 years old and has become a very responsible young man. Sometimes, looking at the handsome son of Sunshine, Tang Jing will gradually get lost in thought, as if seeing his beautiful youth.
Tang Jing's life is undoubtedly successful in her career, and she has made brilliant achievements both as an actress and as a producer.
Emotionally, it is not a failure. Marriage is a consensual thing. Let's just say she doesn't know people. Sometimes people will hide their shortcomings, and she just failed to find Wang Xinjun's shortcomings, so there will be such an ending.
After Wang Xinjun and Amanda got married, they also found their own feelings. In fact, he and Tang Jing are both too strong. If they can tolerate each other, maybe life won't be so bad.
Compared with the powerful Tang Jing, Amanda is in a weak position in her marriage with Wang Xinjun, which makes the powerful Wang Xinjun find happiness in her marriage.
Amanda also said on the show more than once: "He is the overbearing president in my mind, and I rely on my husband for a lifetime."
Perhaps it was the failed marriage with Tang Jing that taught Wang Xinjun how to correctly handle the relationship between husband and wife in marriage, so he could live happily with Amanda. In terms of feelings, this is "the predecessors planted trees and the descendants enjoyed the cool."
In fact, marriage is mutually inclusive, and it is inevitable that there will be contradictions when two people live together. Everyone can understand each other for a long time.
Today, Tang Jing is over 50 years old. She has been a single mother for 13 years. A person has raised her son alone for a long time, and she has come out of the grief of divorce. She explained what is called a woman in the new era with actions.
Tang Jing tells us from his own experience that both men and women should be self-reliant, and only when they are strong can they be truly strong.
But I still hope that she can give herself a chance and others a chance to find a lover as soon as possible.
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