In 2005, a famous singer in Shenzhen donated 1 1/83 poor children with the money earned from her performance, and the accumulated donation amount in her life exceeded 3 million.
He is Cong Fei, a singer who devoted his life to charity. His deeds became a well-known charity figure after "Touching China" was broadcast.
In the same year, this wonderful flower suffered from gastric cancer, but all the children he sponsored were unwilling to visit him in the hospital, and even hoped that he could continue to donate money to them.
However, the miracle did not happen. After a year of disease resistance, Cong Fei died, leaving his wife Xing Dan and his 6-month-old daughter.
The last good thing Cong Fei did in his life was to donate his cornea. At the last moment of his life, he was still thinking about others.
Bad luck is not over. Five years after Cong Fei's death, his wife Xing Dan died in an accident, leaving only her five-year-old daughter and Cong Fei.
Devote oneself to doing good.
1969, Cong Fei was born in a poor family in Liaoning, and his father supported a family of eight by 36 yuan's monthly salary.
In the second grade of junior high school, my father couldn't afford his brothers' tuition, so Cong Fei dropped out of school.
During that time, Cong Fei was very confused. In order to make a living, he left his hometown and lived a wandering life.
With his interest in music, Cong Fei began to sing everywhere and became a wandering singer. Since then, he has lived a rough life.
Once, a strange girl was moved by his singing and generously gave him 600 yuan. With this money, Cong Fei's first thought was to put her savings into a music competition.
Fortunately, Cong Fei took part in the competition, and soon signed a contract with a music company and set foot on the road of being a singer.
The kindness of the girl planted the seeds of charity in his heart and changed Cong Fei's life.
Cong Fei began to take part in a charity performance. In a performance, Cong Fei donated 2400 yuan. He didn't expect that one of his good deeds could help 20 poor children finish their studies.
It was the first time that he felt the joy of helping others, and Cong Fei began the road of doing good.
He traveled all over the country to participate in charity performances and devote himself to charity. He subsidizes the tuition and living expenses of poor children and helps many orphans and disabled people.
In the early 1990s, Cong Fei could earn tens of thousands of yuan for a performance. He totally ignored his life and donated his savings without reservation.
During 1 1 year, Cong Fei donated more than 3 million yuan to help 200 poor children. His feat touched everyone except his first wife.
Cong Fei's wife couldn't stand the endless poverty and couldn't fully understand Cong Fei's "selfless dedication", so she asked him for a divorce.
But this does not mean that no one understands Cong Fei's decision, and some people are willing to stand behind him and support him.
In 2003, Cong Fei met his future wife Xing Dan. Like Cong Fei, Xing Dan has a heart of doing good, but unlike Cong Fei, she was born in a rich family.
But none of this matters. Xingdan decided to give up her job as a flight attendant and accompanied Cong Fei to support him silently.
Two like-minded people soon fell in love, and with the support of his wife, Cong Fei had no worries.
However, the plain life was still broken, and a bad luck shattered this originally happy family.
Suffering from cancer
In 2005, not long after Cong Fei stepped off the stage of Touching China, she was diagnosed with advanced gastric cancer. At that time, the cancer cells had spread and the situation was not optimistic.
Cong Fei is well aware of his illness, but at this critical moment, he still doesn't consider himself.
At this point, his wife was pregnant soon, and Cong Fei advised her to abort the child quickly, so as not to bring trouble to her life in the future.
Of course, a wife wouldn't do such a stupid thing. She will soon lose her husband. If she loses her child, she will really have nothing.
Cong Fei is lying in a hospital bed. He is very sad, but he still cares about the "child". What he cares about is not the children in his wife's belly, but the poor children he has sponsored.
The children who accepted his help didn't show up at Cong Fei's bed. Some grantees just said:
"I'm too busy to have time."
The most worrying thing is that Cong Fei's kindness has become the reason for some people's moral kidnapping.
After Cong Fei stopped working, many parents didn't get his support. First of all, they didn't care what happened to him, but called angrily and said:
"Didn't you agree for my children to graduate from college? He is in junior high school now, so you won't hand it in. Isn't this a lie? "
Cong Fei's friends took pains to explain to him and got a response:
"Then ask him when he can be cured and come out to earn money?"
What's more, there are people who take the belly of a gentleman with the heart of a villain and say:
"Everyone should do things with a purpose. He knows what he is doing. "
In their hearts, there is no one who does good deeds without leaving a name. After all, it's for yourself.
At this time, Cong Fei felt lonely from the heart. He changed their economic situation, but failed to change their inner world.
Fortunately, Xing Dan stayed with him during his illness, which gave Cong Fei great comfort.
After death, the ashes are generated in the cemetery.
However, the miracle never happened. In 2006, Cong Fei died at the age of 37.
The last good thing Cong Fei did on earth was to ask his father to sign the organ donation book instead of himself. After Cong Fei died, his cornea helped four patients.
Cong Fei left his light in this world before his soul passed away.
20 1 1 On the way back to Shenzhen, Xing Dan was thrown in his car by three naughty teenagers. The stone happened to hit Xing Dan, who died unfortunately, leaving her five-year-old daughter.
After his wife Xing Dan died unexpectedly, she was buried with her husband, and they finally met underground. However, few people come to their graves, whether they are students sponsored by their lifetime or their relatives and friends, they are gradually surprised that the ashes were born in the cemetery.
Among the 65,438+083 poor children sponsored by Cong Fei, we condemn those who accepted the favor but chose to forget it. They are just ungrateful people, who only know how to take and don't know how to be grateful.
The vast majority of these children must be kind and grateful for what Cong Fei has done and what Cong Fei has helped. They have successfully completed their studies and led a normal life.
Now Cong Fei has been dead 14 years. Those children who have received his help must still be thinking about Cong Fei and what he has done for them. In the future, they will live with Cong Fei's faith and become grateful and kind people.
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Cong Fei's life is a disgrace. He devoted his life to charity, but was ignored or even hostile by some people. Both husband and wife died, and now the cemetery is dusty.
When doing charity, you must do what you can. We should not give blindly, let alone take blindly.
We should treat it more rationally. Of the 65,438+083 poor children donated by Cong Fei, all must have their own gratitude.
The story of Cong Fei should not be forgotten. We need good people like Cong Fei.