Many people want their friends to be honest, so that they can feel safe! But I don't want to be an honest man!
so what kind of people are honest? The following five points, even if it is one point!
first, be very considerate of other people's feelings!
when Xiao Zhang does anything, the first thing he thinks about is the feelings of others. If I go to the movies and don't ask Xiao Liu to go with me, will Xiao Liu blame me? Xiao Wang settled the bill for the last meal, so I must settle the bill for this meal first. Will what I said yesterday be inappropriate? Will Xiao Zhou mind when he goes back? Wait!
when you think about other people's feelings everywhere when you do something, then you are an honest person with accurate standards!
second, always muddle along!
what do you make money for? Make money in order to have free time, chat, drink tea and watch the wind and clouds fall. Then I have no money and no job now, and I can live a life of chatting, drinking tea and watching the ups and downs! Why do you spell it like that?
if you have wine today, you will get drunk today, and tomorrow you will worry about it! Muddle along, always roll with the punches, the people with the spirit of Ah Q are honest people who are standard-accurate!
Third, very kind people!
there is a kind person who is very kind! He knows that beggars on the street are fake, but he can't stand the pitiful appearance of beggars begging on the street and has to pay money. Obviously, I was cheated and cheated by my friend, and I always believe that my friend will definitely pay back the money when he meets with difficulties. This kind of person, who is afraid of stepping on ants when walking, is often cheated, but still has a good heart!
this kind of person is an honest person who is accurate in standard and has great wisdom!
fourth, people who can't do anything but don't want to bow down and flatter themselves!
There is a kind of person who is never willing to kiss ass, even the normal praise and approval, because he thinks it is flattering! You can't do it yourself! If this person is very talented and can rely on talent to eat, this is called lofty! Lofty must have capital! If you have no skills and are too socially excluded, you think everyone is insincere and flattering. Then this person is an honest man who is standard and accurate. Honesty is sometimes a synonym for stubbornness.
fifth, people with soft ears!
there is a kind of person who is born with soft ears! Yesterday, you had a grudge against him for killing his father and taking away his wife, but as soon as you said something nice, he pushed a cup with you for a change and made a toast! My ears are soft, and I always believe in the present and the present. You can't learn from a mistake. This kind of person is also an honest person who is standard and accurate!
It's better to be honest. Although people may say that you are stupid, there are at least two advantages that others can't get. First, you should always be confident. You don't do anything wrong and you are not afraid of ghosts knocking at the door. An honest man is not afraid to knock. Second, there will be a good relationship, and everyone likes to get along with people who are harmless. This is the law!