Introduction: When people go on a blind date, some elders will ask someone to see if the horoscopes of the man and woman are compatible to avoid unlucky luck. In fact, it doesn’t matter what the gender of a man or a woman is, whether they are compatible or not. If the relationship is deep, parents usually can’t stop it. There are also so-called “hacking methods” to solve this problem. If it succeeds in the end, an auspicious day will be chosen to get engaged, get married, etc. This old tradition that has been handed down is mostly superstitious. In fact, it is more about seeking good luck. It has no scientific basis. Please take a look and don't take it seriously.
This old saying "A white horse offends a green ox, and pigs and monkeys cannot reach the end" is a way of saying whether the twelve zodiac animals are suitable for marriage. There are many opinions in the "Da Xiang Ge" circulated among the people. ! The meaning of this sentence is based on ancient fortune-telling. If the zodiac signs of Horse and Ox are incompatible, they will harm each other. The old saying goes: "The white horse has always been afraid of the green ox. Nine out of ten people will be worried if they look closely. If a husband offends the green ox, the woman will be It’s also hard to grow old.” People born in the Year of the Pig and those born in the Year of the Monkey are not compatible but also conflict with each other. As the old saying goes: "Pigs and apes will exchange tears every day until they end up together. If a man and a woman can live together for a long time, it will not be good for the family." This means that most of their marriages are not happy. Based on the actual marriage situations of our relatives and friends, this statement makes no sense.
According to the "Daxiangge" related to the twelve zodiac signs, once the rat and sheep are resting, the tiger and snake are like knives, the dragon and rabbit shed tears, and the golden rooster is afraid of the jade dog. The ancients believed that these zodiac signs are not good for marriage. Of course, there are also folk sayings that the horoscopes of the zodiac are compatible. For example, blue rabbits and yellow dogs have existed since ancient times, red horses and yellow sheep have a long life, black rats and yellow ox have two prosperous heads, and dragons and roosters match for longer. It is rare to get married with a Snake and a Rabbit, and your family will surely be rich every year. The explanation here is exquisite, including the definition of the five elements of the zodiac. The ancients said that the five elements "metal, wood, water, fire, and earth" pay attention to the mutual generation and restraint of each other. These zodiac signs and the five elements are happy to complement each other, but they are forbidden to be in conflict with each other. From this, various theories of this "Daxiangge" emerged.
In fact, the recent age difference between those born in the year of Horse and those born in the year of Ox is only 7 years. From the current concept, it is normal to get married; the recent age difference between those born in the year of Pig and those born in Monkey is only 7 years It's only 4 years old, which is a very suitable age, and there's nothing wrong with it. Marriages that combine these zodiac signs are common in reality. There are happy marriages, but of course there are also unhappy marriages. On the other hand, if the horoscopes of the zodiac are combined and the five elements of the zodiac are combined, there is a high probability that there will be happy and unsatisfactory marriages.
Based on our modern understanding, there are many objective factors that contribute to the happiness of marriage, such as family factors of both men and women. More importantly, in today's era of freedom of marriage, the decision-making power of marital happiness mainly lies in the hands of both men and women. There is no soil for arranged marriages in the past. A happy marriage mainly depends on the husband and wife to work together and cherish each other, and objective factors take a back seat. In other words, what the couple is like, whether they are "compatible and harmful to each other", cannot determine whether the marriage is happy or not. Whether a marriage is happy or not is not a matter of wishful thinking. It is contributed by many factors from both men and women. So you see, whether a marriage is happy in life is a matter of "high probability" and has little to do with the content of the popular saying "Da Xiang Ge".
It can be seen that if both husband and wife want to have a happy marriage, they must take each other's feelings seriously, be responsible and responsible people, respect and love each other, and only then can they hold hands. , and grow old together.